An Ace Cake

[ID: A knight, labelled “me”, protects a princess, labelled “my aroace headcanons”, from an angry crowd, labelled “shippers”. End ID]

Happy national coming out day to all the aces & aros out there!

This is your friendly reminder that today is your day too.

to everyone who’s ever said that we don’t exist, that we are broken, that we don’t belong. to everyone with the idea of the “perfect asexual” whose asexuality is valid only when it’s not influenced by factors in our past and present lives. 

also to everyone who’s ever told me that I don’t belong in the ace community because I’m demi. You’d think with our flag representing the ace spectrum (plus purple for community), the point would’ve been made by now.

(hand drawn using my own hand as reference so I can personally flip aforementioned people off) 

not to be gay on main

but I said gay rights babey!!!!!!

Hey loser @official-james-sullivan come say gay rights with me

Oh hey Mikey! Sorry I was busy saying trans rights

You… you said trans rights without me?

Mikey! You said gay rights without me! What was I supposed to do?

You could have waited so we could say trans rights together!!!!!

Mikey please don’t cry, I’m sorry… let me make it up to you

How???? Fucking how????

We could… uh… you know

Holy shit… you don’t mean…

I do, Mikey.

We can say gay AND trans rights!

TOGETHER!

Spongebob says gay and

non-binary rights babey!

Spongebob I 100% agree!!!!!

Solidarity

Am I too late to say ACE RIGHTS?

Holy shit, shrek! I haven’t seen you since high school!!! And it’s never too late to say ace rights!!!!

@writerinthelouvre your contribution was not necessary, helpful, or wanted! And it’s funny how you’re the only one who commented this on here when everyone else was trying to happily celebrate pride!

Get the fuck off my post you clown, we don’t want exclusionists here. Make your own post

oh my god-

Somebody had to say it. And I wasn’t gonna let the humans handle this one. Sick of this shit

@writerinthelouvre since you didn’t seem to get the point before..

Until asexuals can file for discrimination when discriminated against for their sexuality, we don’t have all the rights we deserve. Until asexuality is not classified as a mental disorder (HSDD) in the DSM IV, we do not have the rights we deserve. Until legally there is a ban against conversion therapy for all of the LGBTQ community, including aces, we do not have the rights we deserve. You have asexual tags on many of your posts, which confuses me more. I don’t know who hurt you to the point that you think because you aren’t being beat up right now by someone who hates you for being ace you have all the rights you deserve, but you don’t. You deserve better, too. But just because you’ve been hurt doesn’t give you the right to hurt innocent people by telling them the rights they do/don’t have according to your opinion

And ONCE AGAIN, since you didn’t seem to read my entire reply before! Tumblr has this thing you can do called “make your own fucking post” and you should really try it instead of commenting unnecessary and hateful things on my post celebrating pride!

Rape Escape

Very useful to know, pass and share please.

Worth watching

I don’t mean to impose a personal favour on you guys, but I really would like to ask that everyone who follows me reblog this. 

I don’t think I made it very clear but last month I was sexually assaulted by someone who I thought was my friend (I don’t want to talk about it don’t ask), and it’s… really fucked with my head. 

Had I known this a month ago I would have been able to get away. 

So, essentially, I’m really pleading with you to reblog this so everyone who follows you doesn’t get stuck in the same position I was with no way out. 

I mean again I don’t want the point of this to be my sob story or whatever but if you could reblog this it would seriously mean a lot 

and im asking to all of my followers who see this post in your dashboard to please press play to this video, you never know when this is gonna be

useful, PLEASE DON’T IGNORE IT.

This is one of the first moves I was taught in Krav Maga, and it is one of the most effective.

It took me about a half hour to get down with practice, but once you get it, it’s an intuitive movement.

Please pass this along, it will save lives.

Important

Please reblog this.

Please, if you see this, Reblog it. 

If you see this, reblog please.

not witchy but definitely worth watching, stay safe

If you follow me, REBLOG THIS

REBLOG I SWEAR THIS CAN SAVE SOMEONE

Get a themed ebook every month for free, along with digital goodies straight to your email.

The selected book each month will either have an asexual spectrum author, canon asexual character, or an otherwise LGBTQ author who has shown support to the ace community.

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If i was not asexual i simply would not speak over actual ace people or act like i know better about asexuality and ace people's existences than ace people

RIP to aphobes but im different

This book looks so cute??? And it’s an ace romance book?? (That’s the first I’ve seen) I’m definitely reading the his hell yeah

QUEER POC ASEXUAL BOOK?????? FUCK YEAHH!!

HeishskzosgsmIsvdus uh

And if the tagline alone isn’t enough to make this legit in your eyes:

This is the closet asexual mood. Perfectly encapsulated and immortalized.

Inclusive positivity blog train! Reblog if you’re an LGBTQIA+ positivity blog (including ones with specific focuses like sapphic blogs or trans blogs!) and are safe for:

Noctis Lucis Caelum from Final Fantasy XV is Asexual!

if you have an identity that falls anywhere on the ace or aro spectrum I hope you find twenty dollars on the ground today.

Thanks OP

But doesn't someone else have to lose $20 for that to happen?

Reblog to make an aphobe lose $20

Heteroromantic aces aren’t any less important

You’re allowed to live your life and work towards a future that makes you happy. Whether it matches what society says you should do or not.

Everyone warns you about red flags in a relationship but I want to hear about green flags

So here’s some. Add your own if you’d like!

* listens to you talk when you have issues and supports you through them

* stops doing things you tell them make you uncomfortable

* compromises when necessary

* never puts you down deliberately, especially not publically

* supports your ambitions

* uses a calm rational tone during arguments

* is able to apologise when they’re in the wrong

* aids your growth process

* provides you with time and support as you need it but still prioritizes themselves first

* wants to get to know your friends

* has their own friends too

* respects your financial situation & considers it when making plans

* thanks you for speaking your mind

* acknowledges & plans for potential negative outcomes

* treats you like a friend, in addition to a romantic partner

if you’re an asexual boy or man, that’s awesome! if you’re an aromantic boy or man, also really awesome! if you’re an aroace boy or man, super, that’s double awesome :D

you are loved & there always has been a place for you in the lgbt+ community<3