#certainly not the only way to do it – @genderqueeraro on Tumblr

hey btw the way to get into a close intimate non-romantic relationship as an arospec person without feeling guilty that the other person will feel disappointed about the lack of romance, is to pick a polyam person. if my lover wants romance they'll go find it somewhere else I'm chillin

#certainly not the only way to do it #but it worked for me!#(did we know we were both polyam at the time? no but it did work out nicely)