Hey white people, we gotta talk about something. About opinions. I know society makes you think your opinions are always valuable and that people always want to hear them, but that’s not true. Especially when it comes to topics of race.
When you see a post made by a poc talking about racism or a specific issue that poc face, like police brutality, and you get the idea in your head that you should share your opinion, don’t listen to it. That’s the devil talking. There’s two reasons why that’s a bad idea.
Number one is that because of the society we live in, you are inherently racist. This idea is literally one of the first things you learn when you begin the process of becoming an ally so if it’s new or shocking to you, you’re not an ally yet and you’ve got some research to do. But anyways, that means your opinions will be tainted by racism. It sucks, but by virtue of being born into a white supremacist society, you have racist ideas that get pounded into your head the minute you are born that make you racist, both on a conscious and subconscious level.
The second reason is that your opinion isn’t going to be helpful at all. Why won’t it be helpful? Because you’re white and therefore don’t know what it’s like to live life as a poc. You are not able to understand racism to the same level we are because you will never experience racism. Your opinion is going to be based on the privileged reality you live in and that makes it meaningless to us because we don’t share that reality with you and likely never will. We can’t do anything with your opinion when it has no basis in the reality that we, and all the generations of poc that came before us, live in. Your opinion is literally clouded by your white privilege.
So yeah, please learn that unless we specifically ask for your opinion, don’t give it. We don’t wanna hear it. What you have to say will be nothing new to us because being a poc in a western society means hearing the same boring and ignorant opinions that white people say to us over and over again when we never asked to hear them because they care about speaking more than listening. You’re not being helpful, you’re not being an ally, you’re just risking talking over us.
Poc are already experts on racism due to it affecting every aspect of our lives and due to the fact that many of us intergenerational trauma from what our ancestors faced while being forced to endure atrocities caused by racism so there’s literally nothing new or unheard of or revolutionary you have to offer us. Just like you know your laymen’s opinion on outer space is useless to an astronaut, someone who’s actually been to outer space and is an expert on it, your laymen’s opinion on race is useless to us.
If this is a hard pill to swallow for you, I suggest looking into what unconscious bias is so you can maybe understand why you still feel the need to give us your ignorant opinions when we are experts on racism already.