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Past is Prologue - Buck and his partners

"Why does this keep happening to you?...No, I'm gonna tell you why. Because you don't talk to the women you're dating. You just go with the flow and find yourself in a relationship with no idea what to do when things go wrong."

Bobby says this to Buck in S5E9, Past is Prologue. This is the hamster wheel Buck can't get off - hell, it's right there in the title of the episode. The episode ends with the love confession from Taylor, which was awkwardly returned by Buck with one of his patented deer-in-headlights expressions. One episode later, they both are begging for help selecting Christmas gifts for each other. Two episodes later, he kisses Lucy, panic-invites Taylor to move in with him, and everything goes downhill from there.

The thing with Buck is, even as he grows up, even as he gets more confident professionally, even as he establishes himself as a fixture in the lives of the 118 - knows he's loved by them - he still does not believe that someone can really know him and be in love with him.

When he was with Abby, he didn't really know himself. That's part of why that relationship - that love he had for her - was so transformative. He had no idea he was capable of loving like that, of stepping inside with someone, of standing up and being strong, and he liked that version of himself. He saw that version of himself as someone he could respect, someone maybe worthy of being loved back. Then he became terrified of letting go, of sliding back into Buck 1.0. So he held on, for months after she told him to move on, as the calls became less and less frequent, as his sister and his friends all told him she was gone.

(But he didn't relapse. Sure, he slept around a little bit, but while he did so he was stepping inside with someone else, standing up and being strong beside someone else who needed him - Eddie (and Chris). He provided the foundation for Eddie and Chris to be able to stay in LA, by introducing him to Carla and being there week in and week out for the two of them. Still, 6 years later.)

Ali was little more than a fling, same with Natalia, but Taylor - Taylor is, ultimately, the relationship that most closely parallels Tommy. With both of them, you have an awkward dinner that ends with Buck being left behind after behaving badly in front of his friends (Taylor with Albert and Veronica, Tommy at Miceli's the first time). You have a kiss Buck wasn't expecting, followed by the other leaving the loft immediately. And you have a rushed invitation to move in, in which Buck acts very distinctly like there's something wrong and in which each time his partner was surprised. In both cases, the ask to move in was the beginning of the end, though with Taylor it was obviously a much slower demise.

The primary issue with both relationships continues to be the lack of communication, on both sides, not just Buck. Taylor doesn't tell Buck about her father or family, and Buck just - doesn't ask. They were together like 6 months before he finally said they needed to have the conversation, after Bobby's prompting, and she admitted to her family tragedy. That's a significant period of time to not learn literally anything about a partner's family.

Buck and Tommy are on their 6 month anniversary date before he finds out that Tommy is gay, not bi, and that he was previously engaged to a woman (and that that woman was Abby). All stuff that, in a serious relationship, would generally come up fairly early on if the communication is at all there.

Then you have each partner not respecting Buck's boundaries. Taylor moving in and making Buck get rid of his couch to keep hers. Taylor saying that the Jonah stuff will be off the record, then betraying that promise. Tommy calling Buck Evan without us ever seeing a, "hey, you can call me Evan," line from Buck, even though in season 4 he tells his parents that people who know him call him Buck. Tommy not knowing that Buck hates basketball and gifting him tickets, because Buck never said, "by the way, I think basketball sucks and that's why I only showed up that one time," and Tommy never bothered to learn what Buck's actual interests are.

Because Bobby is right. Buck doesn't talk to the people he dates, not seriously or honestly. Buck makes himself small in his relationships. He's so afraid of being left behind that he becomes translucent. He's honest and serious and real with Maddie. He's honest and serious and real with Eddie (hence why he was so distressed about lying to Eddie about Tommy), and with the 118. But with Taylor, the honest and serious bits were later in the relationship, after prodding from outside sources, and with Tommy they never happened at all.

Compare this to other relationships on the show. We know that Hen told Karen about Eva on the third date. We know that Athena knew about Bobby's previous family and losses before they ever got together, and that they shared faith. We know that Maddie and Chimney became close friends first, having their buffridays and finishing each other's sentences, with Chim knowing about Doug and all that first. The early-established depth is there in all the other relationships on the show, but it's not there for Buck or for Eddie..

The thing is, I'm not a Tommy hater, and I'm not a Taylor hater. They both were good examples of superficial romantic relationships, that contrast sharply with all the rest of Buck's relationships, and the other romances on the show. It was Taylor who said that Buck's life was full of meaningful relationships, and she was absolutely right. But in order for Buck to get off this hamster wheel - in order for past to stop being prologue - he needs develop depth of relationship first. He needs to be solid, and trust that he's not going to be left behind. And frankly, he's not ready to do that yet, though I hope that this breakup may be some impetus for him to look into that more deeply.

I hope the show has the grace to get him there. I think it will.

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This is an excellent article. It talks about the psychology of tyranny, the history of resistance and the paths we have to take to rescue each other and recover.

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jeyneofpoole

it is so strange to go to the grocery store and realize that 65 percent of the people there just hate me and will always hate me. i mean it’s not like i didn’t know before. but i don’t think people in blue states will ever understand that level of sheer hopelessness and total demoralization and i wouldn’t wish it on them. if you love or even just know a southerner please realize that we can hear what you’re saying about us and it’s not just one wall of bigots here. people are already talking about refusing aid to states like texas and florida in the case of another natural disaster and i am begging you to realize that we fucking live here too.

I grew up a closeted gay teen in the south around the late 00s-early 10s

progressive and queer adults saved my life. some who looked and talked and behaved like every stereotype northerners have of southerners, and look down upon

they're there and and guess what? they shouldn't have to leave their land, their families, their communities, and the lives they've built just to be safe. if they want to, that's one thing- I wanted to, and I did. but they don't all want to. and they shouldn't all have to

(oh and also? the "good progressive ex-southerners" with no accents and no traces of southern culture about us? yeah we're here in your cities and we can hear everything you say about our friends and loved ones when you think you're in likeminded company)

yeah like...people from the southern US are people. they deserve to live, and they deserve a country that work for them. and, they are going to suffer first and suffer more from the effects of this election. between hurricanes and abortion bans, with the rollback of protections for marginalized communities, with the tariffs that are promised and the tax clusterfuck that's going to happen the south is going to get hit hard.

why do southern states keep putting republicans in office? it's complicated, but includes:

-gerrymandering and deliberate steps taken on the local and state level to make voting more difficult in democratic areas

-a tremendous amount of community pressure, be that from their family, their friends, their church, or whatever. it's extremely hard to step away from the way you were raised

-public education in the south and central midwest is by almost all metrics poorer, more biased, and less comprehensive than education in the northeast and along the west coast. not that southern people are stupid, that is NOT what I am saying. but if your schools don't teach about basic economic principles, and if they whitewash history, and if they teach about creationism alongside evolution, and if they don't talk about climate change or teach you it's a hoax, and if they don't go past xx/xy biology, then it's really hard to recognize the reality of these things

-frankly, the negative and dismissive attitude from the rest of the country is a larger factor than you might think. you know one of the absolute best ways to decrease diversity of thought and increase loyalty? to expose young people to the absolute disdain of people who think differently. if all you hear on social media, on the news, on TV shows, is how you're trash, how you're stupid, how you deserve to die because of where you live and how you were raised, then yeah, you're gonna cling to the people around you because they are SAFE.

I'm not a southerner, and I am devastated and infuriated by the result of this election. but there are queer people everywhere, there are Jewish and Muslim people everywhere, there are BIPOC everywhere, there are people who can get pregnant and suffer from the consequences of that everywhere. we don't build a coalition by wishing destruction upon others, we build it by reaching out a hand and helping people up when they don't expect it. we build it by finding common ground, not breaking it.

people in the south are gonna need our help, and we should be ready to give it to them.

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People always want to say that we shouldn't let politics divide us. That used to be true. The thing is, voting for Trump in this election tells me a lot about who you are as a person. So does abstaining, or voting third party.

If you support Trump, you are telling the world that you don't care about disadvantaged people, you don't care about the LGBTQ+ community, you don't care about the Black community, the Indigenous community, the Latino community. You don't care about pregnant people having complications, or those who don't wish to be pregnant. You don't care about seniors, who are looking at loss of Social Security and Medicare prescription benefits, and the retirement age being raised. You don't care about your own right to vote in the future. If you support Trump, you don't care about honesty, or decency, or fidelity. You don't care about competence. You can deny this, but if at the same time you're filling out your ballot for this man, your denials will ring hollow.

In the past 2 weeks, we've seen Trump's campaign have a horrifically racist rally in MSG. We've seen him threaten political enemies with facing a firing squad. We've seen him pretend to fellate a microphone. We've seen him lie about knowing Epstein, and we've gotten access to tapes of Epstein talking about the real Donald Trump, the one who he was friends with for decades. And we've seen him once again dog-whistling the Proud Boys.

You were paying less for groceries in 2019? Yeah, blame the corporations who took advantage of supply chain shortages to jack up prices and then decided those higher prices were what the market would bear. The government doesn't set grocery prices, and Harris actually has a plan to try to stop price gouging and collusion. Trump has a plan to once again add tariffs to China, something he did in his first term that had absolutely catastrophic effects on US farmers when China did the same to us and started getting their soybeans from Brazil instead. You may not remember the 28 billion dollar bailout that was given - ineffectually - to Iowa farmers, but you better believe the farmers do.

You don't agree with the US continuing to fund Israel's actions? Harris has challenged Netanyahu, called the situation a humanitarian crisis, and has, with the rest of the Biden administration, been trying to negotiate a ceasefire, only to be constantly stymied by Trump. Trump brags about being besties with Netanyahu, who he talks to regularly (despite that being, you know, illegal).

You're concerned about the border? Crossings are way down this year, to 2019 levels, and that's DESPITE the bipartisan border bill being crushed in Congress due to - you guessed it - Trump pressuring the GOP not to vote for it because he thought it would help him politically.

Your rent is out of control and you want to buy a house? Harris has a plan to build hundreds of thousands of new affordable homes AND help first-time homebuyers with down payments.

Your health care costs too much? How about the Harris prescription plan, which will cap ALL prescription costs, not just for seniors, and will cap ALL insulin at $35 regardless of age or healthcare plan?

You don't want to vote, or you insist on voting for Stein despite the fact that she has no plans, doesn't know how the government works, and has done zero for this country ever? You're telling us that it's more important to keep your own hands clean instead of helping take one tiny step in the direction of freedom, the direction of equality.

Your vote is your voice. And we can hear it.

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Best go vote add I’ve seen, maybe ever

I remember posting this back in 2020, not even intending the message to be “go vote”. The last photo was chosen among many others simply because it was a nice visual conclusion to the preceding chaos. The post was made many months before the election, and I had intended more to speak to the overall terrifying political climate of 2020 and all the small things we were doing to fight back and make changes that year.

But upon posting this, I received over 400 asks (I stopped counting) from different people demanding that I take the post down, telling me how dare I suggest that people vote in this political climate, and even several dozen anonymous asks threatening to attack/kill me for “spreading nationalistic propaganda”

It’s hard to remember, but that was the general sentiment around the election online in 2020: Rampant disinformation. Large-scale campaigns dissuading people from voting. Hundreds of negative comments on any post that even MENTIONED voting. You couldn’t get away.

But this election? It’s night and day. While I’m sure there’s still some people whining in a sad dark corner somewhere that moral purity is dead and they’re the last chosen saints of leftism, etc etc, the vast, VAST majority of people have zero tolerance for that bullshit this time around.

We are voting. We are talking to our friends and family about voting. We are reading the actual news and trying to cut through BS online quick-takes. We are getting people to the polls and donating to Harris and standing in line with others waiting to vote.

I’ve voted in every primary and election since I turned 18, but I have never seen young people voting on this level before. It’s truly mind-boggling just how much the younger voting block has mobilized in this election. This is the kind of thing that can change a nation if we let it.

Honestly, regardless of how the election turns out tomorrow, everybody should be so proud of what we tried to accomplish here. Keep up the good fight.

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Reports are coming out that Harris is leading in Iowa.

So what does this mean for Iowa voters?

Iowa was red in 2020 and has historically been red. As someone who lives in AZ, a red state that is now a swing state, it is entirely possible to flip a state or at least make the Republican Party sweat. So if you are in Iowa and were considering not voting because “your vote won’t count in a red state anyways”, please get out and vote.

Obviously polls can be inaccurate, but how great would it be if we could flip a state that republicans considered an easy victory?

Iowa also allows same day in person registration!!! So if you are over 18 and a U.S. citizen who resides in Iowa it is not too late! Click here for info on voting in Iowa: https://voterready.iowa.gov/registertovote/

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So there's something I want to say re: intentionally withholding your vote, and I want to do it without coming across as condescending or dismissive.

I've worked as a field organizer in two campaigns, 2010 and 2012, and my job was to help turnout the vote for Democratic candidates up and down the ticket. Technology may have changed, but people are still knocking on doors for specific voters the way they were 12 years ago.

If you say you're not voting/voting 3rd party, the campaign volunteer is supposed to mark that and move on. Their job, in the final month of the election, is to make sure the campaign's supporters have all the information and resources they need to cast a vote.

They aren't collecting data on why you're withholding your vote. They aren't submitting opinion polling results to the campaign. Something like 155 million people voted in the 2020 election, and if you say you're not voting, the campaign is not going to waste a volunteer's time and morale begging you to vote when there are literally millions of other voters to turn out.

Let me repeat that: The campaign does not track why you're not voting. They simply note your vote is not a priority for turnout and move on.

I say this because I see a lot of promotion of non-voting like that's a boycott, when the function is not the same. A boycott is a coordinated mass refusal to engage with an institution—which sounds similar if you see a vote as a good or service to withhold. Unfortunately, it's not.

A vote is a choice you're making as part of a community hiring committee. Your abstention doesn't prevent someone from being hired. It just lowers the threshold for the worst candidate to succeed.

All this to say: In my direct experience as an organizer, abstaining from the vote sends a message. That message is not "You need to try harder to win my vote." It's "Don't waste time on me."

To add to this excellent explanation:

2020 had record voter turnout…and 49% of the eligible population still did not vote. That number is historically even higher. Biden was elected by barely a quarter of the population.

For all that we like to tout our independence and right to make our own choices, we Americans tend to be very passive when it comes to actually selecting the people who will make the laws that govern us. If you abstain from voting, you just become one of the hundred million who can’t be bothered to make our voices heard.

Not voting isn’t a protest; it’s joining in with the majority of other people who want to sit back and do nothing instead of making a difference.

Don’t like either candidate this time? Pick the one who is even one step closer to your values. It’s one step in the right direction. Hopefully that’s the candidate who believes the LGBTQ+ community deserves to live their lives, the one who wants to tax the wealthy and corporations instead of giving them giant breaks, the one who has challenged Netanyahu instead of being besties with him, the one who wants to provide more affordable housing, the one who believes in bodily autonomy for all.

Then after this election is over, get active, and work to help get us better candidates in the future.

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I'm sure many people have already shared this here, but I think it's important that people here on Tumblr need to see this.

"I disagree with Kamala's position on the war in Gaza. How can I vote for her?" by US Senator Bernie Sanders

His question is NOT RHETORICAL by the way! Transcript for anyone who struggles with video:

“I understand that there are millions of Americans who disagree with President Biden and Vice President Kamala Harris on the terrible war in Gaza.

I am one of them.

While Israel had a right to defend itself against the horrific Hamas terrorist attack of October 7th, which killed 1,200 innocent people and took 250 hostages, it did not have a right to wage an all-out war against the entire Palestinian people.

It did not have the right to kill 42,000 Palestinians, two thirds of whom were children, women and the elderly, or injure over 100,000 people in Gaza.

It did not have the right to destroy Gaza's infrastructure, housing, and healthcare system. It did not have the right to bomb every one of Gaza's 12 universities.

It did not have the right to block humanitarian aid, causing massive malnutrition in children and, in fact, starvation.

And that is why I am doing everything I can to block U.S. military aid and offensive weapon sales to the right-wing extremist Netanyahu government in Israel. And I know that many of you share those feelings, and some of you are saying,

"How can I vote for Kamala Harris if she is supporting this terrible war?"

And that is a very fair question. And let me give you my best answer. And that is that even on this issue, Donald Trump and his right-wing friends are worse. In the Senate, in Congress, the Republicans have worked overtime to block humanitarian aid to the starving children in Gaza. The President and Vice President both support getting as much humanitarian aid into Gaza as soon as possible.

Trump has said Netanyahu is "doing a good job", and has said Biden is "holding him back". He has suggested the Gaza strip would make excellent beachfront property for development. And it is no wonder Netanyahu prefers to have Donald Trump in office.

But even more importantly - and this I promise you - after Kamala wins, we will together do everything that we can to change U.S. policy toward Netanyahu. An immediate ceasefire, the return of all hostages, a surge of massive humanitarian aid, the stopping of settler attacks on the West Bank, and the rebuilding of Gaza for the Palestinian people.

And let me be clear. We will have, in my view, a much better chance of changing U.S. policy with Kamala than with Trump, who is extremely close to Netanyahu and sees him as a like-minded, right-wing extremist ally.

But let me also say this - and I deal with this every single day as a U.S. Senator - as important as Gaza is, and as strongly as many of us feel about this issue, it is not the only issue at stake in this election.

If Trump wins, women in this country will suffer an enormous setback and lose the ability to control their own bodies. That is not acceptable.

If Trump wins, to be honest with you, the struggle against climate change is over. While virtually every scientist who has studied the issue understands that climate change is real, and an existential threat to our country and the world, Trump believes it is a "hoax". And if the United States, the largest economy in the world, stops transforming our energy system away from fossil fuel, every other country - China, Europe, all over the world - they will do exactly the same thing. And God only knows the kind of planet we will leave to our kids and future generations.

If Trump wins, at a time of massive income and wealth inequality, he will demand even more tax breaks for the very richest people in our country while cutting back on programs that working families desperately need. The rich will only get richer while the minimum wage will remain at $7.25 an hour and millions of our fellow workers will continue to earn starvation wages.

Did you all see the recent Trump rally at Madison Square Gardens? Well, I did. And what I can tell you is that, as a nation, as all of you know, we have struggled for years, against impossible odds, to overcome all forms of bigotry - whether it's racism, whether it's sexism, whether it's homophobia, whether it's xenophobia, you name it. We have tried to fight against bigotry. But that is exactly what we saw on display at that unbelievable Trump rally. It was not a question of speakers getting up there, disagreeing with Kamala Harris on the issue. That wasn't the issue at all. They were attacking her simply because she was a woman, and a woman of colour. Extreme, vulgar sexism and racism.

Is that really the kind of America that we can allow?

So let me conclude by saying this: this is the most consequential election in our lifetimes. Many of you have differences of opinion with Kamala Harris on Gaza. So do I.

But we cannot sit this election out. Trump has got to be defeated. Let's do everything we can in the next week to make sure that Kamala Harris is our next president.

Thank you very much.”

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tallsinspace

ok so what did you think of this episode? my thoughts are numerous and minimally coherent

as someone who has dislocated my shoulder more than once, I was amused by them needing to reduce it with Buck shirtless and his nipples basically fully blotted out by his tattoo concealer ken-doll fashion because why not (mine has been reduced with my clothes on, not even a hospital gown)

also, he would've been put in a sling for at least a few days to reduce the risk of it reluxating and honestly I would've loved to see that because Buck without full mobility is always hilarious; at least he was sleeping in a chair. (the medicine in 911 in general is always a bit of a crapshoot. we won't get into the field transfusion)

which, I had no problems with him in the chair, Tommy on the couch, it makes perfect sense but why was Tommy treating Buck like a child? even Buck's reactions were very teenager, not equal partner there

I have literally zero idea why Tommy was that far away during the grave visit. like why was he there but hiding under a tree out of frame?

Eddie being snappy and snarky was rather reminiscent of S5 Eddie right before the breakdown, very intrigued

also wtf was going on with that ring pop? like c'mon Eddie. come. on.

and then there's the whole, making the kids see the photo of the car with their DEAD VICE PRINCIPAL in it, like the man died in that car, wtf Athena

unhinged episode and damn I'm having fun this season!

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okay i have so many thoughts so i'm gonna respond in order

  1. his dislocated shoulder thing was so funny i once watched my brother pop his in and then move about his day normally but i guess being surrounded by medical professionals they're like just get it done right -- that being said his chest was a textbook example of take your girlfriend swimming on the first date
  2. the medicine in this show is actually not real medicine and is powered exclusively by the power of love and innovation -- if you did something weird to get the medicine done it will work and if you love the person enough it will work god bless.
  3. THANK YOU tommy and buck don't have romantic chemistry SORRY! buck is like i have to drag my lame pseudo-dad that i'm dating around everywhere because he wants to live in my life and have my family and even possibly wear my skin and i don't want to touch him or be close to him and even avoid him physically when it's on offer but i threw such a fit about this guy in the beginning of our relationship for some unknowable reason (i'm in love with eddie) and now i have to actually try to make it work but it'll be fine because i'll just keep on dragging eddie into our relationship so it's bearable for me
  4. and then eddie is like okay but you realize that you LEFT ME FOR THIS GUY and that was PART OF THE FIT YOU THREW so i'm NOT going to be your boyfriend when he's around like i usually am (although of course i will do a few husbandy things when it's obvious someone has to do them) and am instead going to be your Straight Guy Best Friend because that's CLEARLY what you want from me because you're dating my UGLIER clone!! So you can have your TITS OUT but i will be LUSTING OVER SPORTS ILLUSTRATED INSTEAD except he's reading it like the wall street journal so the effect isn't really that powerful. meanwhile tommy is going along with all of this because he really thinks he can close on a threesome if he just waits it out without realizing he's actually a pawn in a grand and terrible psychosexual divorce game that's being played out right now in front of him. in my opinion.
  5. ring pop is i think literally saying hey you're missing out on married (ring) sex (pop) because you're dating your hideous boyfriend who is NOT me. and also i'm alone in an empty house that i keep decorating for nobody as i miss milestones in my child's life because i don't make good decisions and i don't deserve good things including but not limited to buck who is dating a guy i really regret hanging out with. which will of course come to a head in episode 6 confessions HOPEFULLY. WITH HOPE.
  6. athena's plotlines are always insane because they have to do SO MUCH COPSUCKING to get funding for this frankly ridiculous show so athena's not even allowed to be lame in a high school those kids have to be metaphysically tortured and victim blamed for the deranged decisions of an authority figure so that athena gets her win. c'est la vie as they say.

i will also mention that i did NOT like the context of the karen/hen guilt trip. they could have easily done a cooler and better flip around where hen feels guilty about not being there, and karen is like well you haven't been there for a lot of denny's holidays why is mara different and hen would be like it's just been so much worse for her and karen could be like well it's up to you, but maybe this is ringing a chord for you that comes from somewhere else and then hen thinks about it and realizes it's part of her dad thing because even tho they saw mara at chim and maddie's, she felt like she was forced into an absentee role like her dad and she doesn't want that but then she decides she's working because that's who she is and then denny gets hit by the car and it was all HER choice and so it's her guilt as opposed to the guilt of a stereotype of a nagging wife that karen has never been before because karen also has a job that matters to her and then at the end of the episode hen could be like i should have been there and karen like but you were there. you were there. and then hen is like yeah but maybe i can take a few more holidays off and karen is like we'd love to have you and they kiss!!!

anyways. this season has been so fun and i am so scared for episode six...... <3 let me know your thoughts.....

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Oh yeah I have totally reduced my own dislocated shoulder too lmao I was just thinking of in-hospital treatment

You are 100% on with the whole, medicine powered by love and innovation and it's always *hilarious* but also sweet and fun. like they have some of the stuff right but then it's like, you were so close to getting it! but this is cuter

I was trying to explain the Tommy/Buck storyline to my friend who stopped watching after S6 because she can't cope with the idea of Buck being with someone who's not Eddie and I was like, even Tommy was shocked when Buck said he was trying to get his attention. even Tommy thinks Buck is into Eddie. hell, Tommy is into Eddie! everyone in this show is into Eddie! except Eddie, who thinks he's the worst! but this ep was so like, oddly awkward with the Tommy/Buck scenes. I was open to Tommy at first; hell, I was excited! but they have all the chemistry of lead

cracked up about Eddie reading the SI swimsuit issue like it's the WSJ. he is so just, dispassionately flipping through that thing. it is there strictly so he has something to do with his hands so he's not putting said hands all over Buck's camouflaged tits. like seriously, someone clearly considered what would be funniest to have Eddie fake-reading and opted for that. he could've had it upside down and it wouldn't have made a difference

I definitely feel like Eddie and Buck are on different planes when it comes to their relationship, but neither one of them has the current ability to put words to it. like Maddie tried. she tried so hard to be a safe place for Buck to come out to about his giant, visible-from-space crush, and Buck STILL couldn't and just swerved sideways into kissing Tommy. and then Eddie went, welp, then, I must stop having sex with my ex-nun GF and then have an emotional affair with the doppelganger of my idealized ex-wife because I have all these FEELINGS and I do NOT know what to do with them and this feels more right for who I have always portrayed "Eddie" to be

god I hope Eddie starts to come to terms with his shit in the next ep. I know it's not going to end with Buddie together, and it wouldn't feel right or honest if it did, it's way too soon, but Eddie deserves to really peel back that onion and hopefully here's the start of his chance

100% agree with you on Henren's arc here. It was unsatisfying, and they are my favorite canon couple. there was so much potential in this ep, and your version would've worked much better. I really love the idea of Hen having to consider how her role in her kids' lives compares to that of her father, and realizing the ways in which it's very very different. honestly, I never understood why she didn't go through with med school. she worked so hard, she went through so much with her mom and her classmates, she had such good reasons for pursuing it. obviously they wanted to keep her in the show, but/and, that was a fantastic interesting arc and I wish they had kept exploring it

re: Athena and the kids - interestingly, Maddie/dispatch was 100% on board with calling out/blaming the adult, and then to have Athena continuing to hold a grudge against 2 teenagers even after they want to make amends - well, it's fully in-character. Athena is a super fascinating character, and Angela Bassett is amazing, but she has always been my least favorite on the show and I do not feel that she's supposed to be beloved the way the rest are. I think she's supposed to be the most morally gray and unlikable main. she hates teamwork. she dislikes kids that aren't her own. she stalks her own husband rather than talk to him. she holds a grudge like fucking Atlas, no matter how badly it weighs her down. like they come SO CLOSE to calling out the bullshit but then have to "not all cops" their way out of it. it's such a bizarre crooked line they walk in this show

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The 2025 project seems to reflect that the Republican Party is becoming more and more fascism, but it actually reflects the growing number of extreme nationalists, misogynists, and racists among ordinary Americans. US is a democracy, and politicians rely on votes to stay in power. The fact that the Republicans dare to draft such a project shows that they are confident it will gain significant public support. Politicians aren’t fools; they wouldn’t pursue something that only a small group agrees with while the majority opposes it. The global rightward shift is evident, and though I’m not American, my country is also deteriorating in many ways. Why is this happening? Because the economic base determines the superstructure?and in recent years, the global economy has been in decline?

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Mmmm, I'm gonna have to challenge you here.

First of all, it's just flatly not true that there's a "growing number of extreme nationalists, misogynists, and racists among ordinary Americans." That movement has become more vocal and visible in post-2016 America, but there's absolutely no evidence -- and indeed, a lot of evidence to the contrary -- that their numbers are growing instead of shrinking. The Republicans got lucky with Trump's win in 2016 thanks to a combination of decades of anti-Hillary smears, extensive Russian interference/psyops, the anti-democratic Electoral College, and general misplaced complacence that he was never going to win and people didn't need to bother voting for two disliked candidates. They've flatly lost every competitive nationwide election since then -- 2018, 2020, 2022, and very probably 2024. In between, their hand-picked Supreme Court overturned Roe v. Wade (guaranteeing the right to an abortion in all 50 states) and set off a titanic tidal wave of voter support for abortion rights, even in very dark red states like Kansas and Kentucky (which are not liberal by any stretch of the word). In fact, the Republicans' (flatly false) excuse that they just wanted to "return [abortion rights to the states]" has been unveiled as another lie due to their desperate attempts in this election cycle to ratfuck voter-approved abortion questions off the ballot in Arkansas, Missouri, Florida, and elsewhere. This is a badly losing issue for them, even in deep red states, and they don't want people to vote on it, because they hate democracy. We'll get to that.

Likewise, polls of "culture war" issues like LGBTQ+ rights, abortion rights, immigrants' rights, etc., consistently get much more support among ordinary Americans than not. The ordinary public is becoming more liberal, not less, even in the face of constant aggressive and reactionary attempts to undo the sum total of social and civil rights movements from the 20th century. Republicans' views are getting less popular, not more, and this is also driven by the ongoing demographic change in America. Within a generation or two, whites may be in the statistical minority, and that deeply terrifies people whose entire political and social identity is built on ethnostate white supremacism. The reason Republicans are getting so extreme and antidemocratic now is because the electorate is getting younger and younger, more diverse, more accepting, and less tolerant of their age-old bullshit. As such, there is a very visible window of time outside which the Republicans will not be able to win competitive nationwide elections, even despite all the advantages they're building into the system and have always had. That terrifies them. It is also why they have decided to destroy democracy.

Which leads us into your next assertion that "US is a democracy, and politicians rely on votes to stay in power. The fact that the Republicans dare to draft such a project shows that they are confident it will gain significant public support. Politicians aren’t fools; they wouldn’t pursue something that only a small group agrees with while the majority opposes it." Yes, maybe, in some exceedingly generic logic that doesn't take any account of the actual situation in the US and the fact that the Republicans have made their hatred for democratic free and fair elections very, very clear. This is why Trump pushed the "election fraud" Big Lie in 2020 and sent a mob to attack the Capitol in an attempt to prevent the certification of Biden's win. This is why states controlled by Republicans have frantically enacted as many voter suppression and voter-removal laws as possible and conducted constant purges to get voters (especially the mysteriously missing 1 million Democrats in Florida) off the rolls. This is why they talk approvingly about Trump being "a dictator on day one." This is why they have pursued a decades-long strategy to capture the federal judiciary (by installing extreme right-wing hacks to the bench and then funneling extreme-right legislation into their courts to get a favorable ruling and/or send it to the extreme-right Supreme Court). And on, and on, and on. The Republicans are explicitly aware that their ideas cannot win in a free and fair election, because their ideas are terrible, and as such have been taking massive, ongoing, and coordinated efforts to disenfranchise American voters, expose them to lakes of sordid Russian propaganda/psyops in favor of Trump, double down on the xenophobia and white nationalism to stoke Fear Of The Other, and everything else they possibly can to prevent voters from voting for their opponents. They hate democracy and they are not counting on democratic methods to implement Project 2025. They intend to do it by secretive oligarch methods funded by right-wing billionaire dark money and their Russian friends. That's the whole point.

Indeed, you can see that in the fact that as soon as Project 2025 became widely known and therefore widely hated, the Republicans were thrown into a panicked fluster of disavowing it and insisting that Trump didn't actually know about it (which is a lie, but that's all the day). Because it is electoral kryptonite, they are trying every single method they can to lie to voters long enough to get into power and do it anyway. Authoritarians can often come to power through democratic elections, but once there, they do their utmost to degrade, erode, or otherwise destroy the institutional safeguards that prevent them from keeping power forever. Trump is a literally textbook example of this and he has made his intentions very clear. He flat-out told a group of Republicans at an event earlier this year that "we'll fix it so you won't have to vote again." He already tried a coup and somehow the Republicans nominated him again, because of the deep corruption of the party on every level, but the Republicans are not doing Project 2025 because they think it will organically generate popular support (and they know it doesn't.) It's a blueprint for a tiny group of extreme right-wing theocrats and fascists to get their way regardless of what the broader public says about it, and represents the culmination of decades of far-right power-play strategies related to exploiting economic, racial, social, and cultural grievances. They're doing this now in order to lock in their power before long-term demographic changes make it impossible for them to win another democratic American election. So their solution is to get rid of democratic American elections, the end. This is explicitly a project for permanent minority rule. They know that and that's what's driving their strategic choices here.

As such, essentially saying that the Republicans aren't really fascist, and/or the real problem and/or are just giving an increasingly fascist American population what they want, removes any moral responsibility for their deliberate choices and legitimizes the populist claim to be acting "for the people" instead of a corrupt institutional system. Everyone knows the many, MANY problems with American politics and government; we don't need to go through them again. But even if they were "just giving the people what they want," which as noted above they're not, it still wouldn't make it okay or defensible. To use the obvious example, just because Hitler was popular and democratically elected in 1933 doesn't make what he did right, and the social forces that propelled him to power weren't just a passive "reflection" of The People's Will but were shaped by the larger fascist-curious interwar 1930s. In fact, America also had a burgeoning fascist movement in the 1930s, driven by WWI and Great Depression fallout, but Franklin D. Roosevelt's New Deal explicitly created extensive government mechanisms to support society, provide new jobs and welfare, and other integrative and restorative economic methods. This crucial difference in approaches -- the New Deal vs. the Nazis -- is why America remained democratic despite the challenges and Germany fell into autocratic genocidal fascism.

This is because populism and dissatisfaction with democracy rises when people feel that the government is not listening to them, is not responsive to their needs, is ignoring them, or otherwise not doing what they want. It is driven by multiple factors, primarily but not only economic, and it is stoked by powerful interest groups who have a vested interest in using the fissures to discredit democratic governments and movements. It is also by no means limited to America, as you note at the end. Think of the decades-long campaign by the British media against the EU, driven by British isolationism and exceptionalism and a sense that the petty bureaucrats in Brussels had no right to be telling the almighty British Empire what to do. This created and stoked existing social grievances which were often domestically caused (since as Margaret Thatcher destroying the British social-welfare state in the 1980s) and turned that grievance against an external opponent who was easier to blame. As such, as we know, it led to the country voting for Brexit in 2016 despite what a whopping, overwhelming, incredible own goal that was and continues to be for the UK, especially economically and socially. It was obviously dependent on many contextual factors from British history, politics, and culture, and there were certainly many people who actually thought it was the right thing to do (and not just about racism, which uh, hmmm), but it's very difficult to think that this organically or naturally came about without a direct and extensive popular-pressure campaign designed to do just that.

People often vote against their own interests because they have been convinced that democracy is corrupt or ineffective or "just as bad" as authoritarianism, which allows illiberal populists to rise to power. These populists often use racial, religious, or cultural grievances, especially against perceived "outsiders," to artificially stoke existing prejudice and justify crackdowns and/or consolidations of their own personal power and destruction of institutional systems and safeguards meant to stop them from doing that. That's how we got Erdogan in Turkey, Bolsonaro in Brazil, Orban in Hungary, and Trump in the US. Other authoritarian movements around the world are also driven implicitly or explicitly by the massive autocratic and antidemocratic global influence disinformation machine headed by Putin in Russia. As such, it's not accurate to insist that this just represents a simple passive "rightward shift" among the global population overall. It is happening because it has been designed and manipulated and pressed into happening. It can still be electorally resisted, which is also the most effective strategy for removing authoritarians, but if we fail to vote out Trump once and for all in 2024, it will be MUCH harder and much more deadly.

Overall, to simplistically claim that the Republican party is just giving the increasingly fascist Americans what they want and expect it to derive broad popular support is, as I have demonstrated above, a diametrically backward conception of the problem. The Republicans are deliberately and increasingly fascist because they realize that very soon, if allowed to continue operating in its accustomed fashion, the American democratic system and American public opinion is going to make them obsolete. They're racing the clock to cement permanent super-minority rule, and to change the rules overall, before America's shifting demographic composition and ideological mindset locks them out. That is why they are throwing so much misinformation, fearmongering, lies, Russian propaganda, and everything else that they can think of at this election, to get Trump and loyal Project 2025 footsoldier Vance into the door before the door slams shut for a long time. That is why this election is so fucking existentially important and why it is so crucial to accurately conceptualize and describe the problem, what it is, and how to respond to it. As such, while I otherwise don't do this much anymore because I no longer have the desire to argue with the people who are likewise brainwashed in the opposite direction and insist it's a Pure Leftist Moral Duty not to vote against fascist authoritarianism (as, uh, also happened with the fragmented and infighting German left-wing opposition in 1932 and good thing nothing bad happened next):

The end.

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