freyjuseggr reblogged
i need her so bad
#on one hand like. shes right#and it is her job to tell you when youre fucking up#on the other hand shes doing a very bad job of using neutral language to do it#like i have had many therapist very carefully and politely tell me that i am actively making really bad choices lol#i know the way they phrase it to try to not make it upsetting when they say 'hey thats a terrible idea' to the point where i will say that#to them lol#but yeah idk like shes a human too and im willing to bet that it just kinda came out that way#but she is definitely right to be clear#and youre not paying her money to talk to her about your problems and then not even try to solve them#you hired her to tell you when youre fuckin up thats part of the job#tag rant over lol