two friends hanging out - a doodle i did between work. i wanted to draw minoan fashion but in a casual way. it’s all from memory so historians, please leave the pitchforks home

This is literally the most heart warming story I have read on Twitter so far. I think this is exactly what friends should do, and I feel everyone deserves people like this.

A barn rasing:  a collective action of a community, in which a barn for one of the members is built or rebuilt collectively by members of the community.

because you cannot, you CANNOT, build a barn on your own, and without it, you will not be able to survive. 

What a fuckin’ gem of a sentence. “What we did today was a barn rasin” 

A game for mutuals

Seperate post bc the original was getting too long.

Tagged by: @enbysiriusblack and @dyingbutdontworrycuzimswag so it looks like I get to answer two questions!

Question 1: if you could have anything named after you (like a star or a huge company or something) what would you choose??

Definitely a planet, mainly because I named myself after Jack Harkness so it would be very fitting for a planet in outer space to be named after me/him.

Question 2: You can go back through time and universes or whatever to stop something from happening in a fictional world, what do you stop?

I know y’all are expecting something HP, but actually I think I would go back in time to stop Rose Tyler from falling into the parallel universe so that she can travel with the Doctor for longer, and maybe even forever, because she’s my favourite companion. But Martha and Donna can come too because I love them as well.

Question for my mutuals: Which fictional character would you want to parent from birth until adulthood? basically which character would you want as your child? (and hopefully the question makes sense and doesn’t sound weird).

Tagging: @daylily-evans @swiftslytherin @salemcat09 

ty for the tag!!!!

id have to say harry tbh, since my self insert oc basically raised him anyway, but i would also love to raise tonks !!!!!! out of my ocs, id love to have the aces as children bc imagine five absolute dumbasses running around and being fascinated by a game boy lmao

question for my mutuals: how do you take notes in school? like, are they organised? do you use highlighters and colorful pens? do you copy them on a more tidy notebook? stuff lile that!

tagging: @upset-hufflepuff @maraudermeryn @moonysimpp @daydreaming-reader and anyone else!!!

Thanks for tagging me!!

I mostly take notes with a normal pen but I sometimes use different colours (fineliners/highlighters) to make it more organised (especially for headlines). I don’t really care if my notes are aesthetic or something, yk they just have to be clear and organised so that I can see through them (I also tend to use a lot of arrows).

Question: What do you think of fairy lights? Do you have many of them and where do you like to put them?

tagging: @diabolic-bookaholic @ch0colatefr0gs @wolfstariscannon @dontletthe-muggles-getyoudown and @anyone else who thinks it’s cool!

Oooh fun thanks for tagging me!

I have fairie lights all over and I constantly have to buy new batteries because I forget to turn them off 😅

Question: If you could change one thing about the world the way it is right now what would you change?

Tagging: @kajasasasa @eightsidedemily @queerhogwartsinstagram and you, whoever you are reading this with your eyeballs in that beautiful head of yours, I tag you.

Thanks for the me!

If i could change one thing about the world the way it is right now id externinate all homophobes, terfs and transphobes. Just make them disappear

What song gives you the most comfort?

Tagging @dear-james @enbysiriusblack @dontletthe-muggles-getyoudown @daydreaming-reader @remuslupinslefttit

Thank you😌

Bohemian Rhapsody. :) it’s just so fun. It’s a ✨bop✨.

If you had to be a food, what food would you be?

Tagging @simpingforsiriusblack @enbysiriusblack @accio @cheese-greater-official @dobbys-simp @ravenclaw-reblogs @remusiscute @stagecrime @violetatapiamills :)

BREAD

My question: what is your favourite kind of bread?

@ legit everyone I’m shit at tagging ppl @gfta-official @johnsonshildy @somehow-i-got-an-account @ocforeverything

my favourite kind of bread is challah bc i am a good jewish girl and bc it’s great

my question: if you were a flower, what kind of flower would you be?

tagging uhhh idk @silverscene @buster-keaton @rememberedkisses @an-elephant–never—-forgets and @alfred-st-john @norashelley @hedyslamarr

@classicfilmgemz @glamourofyesteryear @miss-audrey-dear 

I’d be sunflower because I love them and have always felt a connection to them if that makes sense :)

My question: if you could live in another time period, when would you choose and what would you want to do

@buster-keaton @technicolor-blonde @stellulargoat @fred-erick-frankenstein

Thanks for the tag 💛

At first I wanted to say 1930s (because of the fashion, let’s be honest, there’s not so much positive about that time period besides that, although I could become an American gangster and run away from the completely incompetent fbi - how they could catch anyone is beside me, the more I read about that time the more it baffles me) but then I had a better idea - I want to go to the future, when Star Trek becomes real life, and I really do believe that it will!! I could become an officer on the Enterprise or whatever that ship would get called (maybe Ever Given😉) there and explore new worlds and galaxies - that would be awesome🌟

My question: What superpower would you love to have and why?

@the–queen-of-hell @phantomxqueen @medical-malpractice-malewife @gabridominique @mothicmunity @softabomination @tiredesperdad @riphimopen @anti-bright-places @hobbitmajora @i-am-a-hog @freemtariphe and whoever wants to do this, just tag me so I can read your answers💛

Thanks for the tag @fred-erick-frankenstein 😄

Hmmm…I would use my super powers for such mundane things instead of saving the world. Like super strength would be good for moving furniture or carrying in groceries, invisibility for when I’m feeling social anxious, flight would be nice so I wouldn’t have to drive, and super speed so I can get things done fast like the dishes. Ooh! Maybe shape shifting! That way I can change my hairstyles without having to cut my hair 😆

My question: If you could live in any fictional world what would it be?

I tag: @the–queen-of-hell @a-pirate-my-hearties @insert-geeky-things-here @sweetestgbye and whoever wants to join!

I’m late to this, but here I am!

Thank you for the tag @phantomxqueen 💖

First of all that’s a great question. Probably The Hobbit/Lotr since I absolutely love The Elven King… So I’d gladly live in his kingdom. But also the Cloud Kingdom in Barbie and The Magic of Pegasus… And whatever world where Lara Croft is real.

My question: Your favorite character from your favorite show/movie… But you gotta replace the actor/actress with your favorite singer or writer… So? Who’s playing your favorite character now?

Tagging: (@fred-erick-frankenstein and @phantomxqueen if you want to answer my question, no pressure ofc!) 💖 And @apple-pyromancer @felicitys-smoaking @snapefiction @lareinedususpense and anyone else who sees this!

🤣🤣Thanks for the tag:

This is difficult (I mean not deciding who's my favorite character(s🥺) but to decide who's my favorite musician/writer🤣)...

So that would be Johnny Cash as Jonathan Brewster...

But who'd replace Peter Lorre?? (Because you can't make me choose between Jonathan and Herman as my favorite character...that would be too mean🥺...) hmm🤔 either Freddie Mercury or Brian May.

Actually, I'd totally watch that👀👀

Thanks for the question 😌 @the--queen-of-hell

My question:

You know how rich people start collecting pricey stuff for their own enjoyment or to brag about it and the prices they paid? What would you collect if money weren't an issue (doesn't have to be expensive btw)?

I tag: @phantomxqueen @medical-malpractice-malewife @gabridominique @softabomination @riphimopen @hobbitmajora @i-am-a-hog @freemtariphe @scarletrosii @alfred-st-john and whoever wants to do this, just tag me so I can read your answers💛

One time a friend told me that if she wanted to have a chill night she would come to me and ask for tea and a book to read. I didn’t like tea at the time, but I always made sure my cupboards had them in case she needed a quiet night. One time I told my boss that I loved oranges, but couldn’t peel them because of my nails. For a year he made sure to peel me one at least once a week. Once my friends gave me a made up superlative of “most likely to have a pen they could borrow” and ever since I’ve made sure I always carry a pen with me. A long time ago, my high school librarian told me that no one would care what my grade in my sophomore chemistry class was if I’m bringing them doughnuts and asking them about their day.

Sometimes friendship is about carrying pens and peeling oranges. But the point is, surrounding yourself with people who you want to do the little things for. The point of it all is bringing in the doughnuts because you’ve found the people who deserve the doughnuts.

And I’m so fucking lucky, and I don’t always say it or even think it. Because I have friends who send me letters and who told me when the cafeteria at work had chopped tomatoes and who want to watch Scream with me and it just hits me sometimes that this world can do the ugliest things to people, but as long as I still have a friend who will point out dogs on the sidewalks to me then I have something amazing to live for. And as long as I have pals who I want to make peppermint bark for, then I have a reason to keep pushing this world to be better.

love is so embarrassing . also the only thing that matters

why are so many people on this post saying things like “oh so what abt aromantic people then 🙄” like um… stumbling as u give up your seat for an elderly lady on the bus. stroking your friend’s hair as they cry in your arms. someone you care abt making you a long lovely playlist of songs you might like. attentively listening to your sibling as they talk excitedly about something they care abt. the sound of hundreds of people in unison singing a song they love at a concert. someone peeling a clementine and saving half of it for themselves and giving the other half to you. letting your cat crawl all over you even though her claws are scratchy. sitting in comfortable silence with someone. the pride shining in your grandfather’s eyes when you facetime him and tell him abt what you’ve been up to. taking a sip of your friend’s boba. people grinning at you when u blow out the candles on your birthday cake… these things aren’t love to you? you guys don’t consider that love? really? truly?

The 90’s setting of the Harry Potter movie franchise is reflected by Snape sporting one of the decade’s most iconic hairstyles, the Rachel.

What was it he did? I cant miss an opportunity to drag Ross

So! First! He made out with Rachel while he was still dating Julie

THEN, he couldn’t decide which one he wanted to date more, so he kept dating Julie and didn’t tell Rachel anything about his decision after they had kissed

THEN he made a pros and cons list to decide whether or not to dump Julie so he could date Rachel and he wrote shit like: Too ditzy, too spoiled, too into her looks, not much in common since she’s just a waitress, and she has fat ankles

THEN, after he finally decided to dump Julie and be with Rachel, he tried to hide the list from her but she found it anyway and got rightfully pissed off

THEN he tried to make all sorts of excuses for the list without actually apologizing

THEN he ignored Rachel’s choice to be alone by CLIMBING UP THE SIDE OF THEIR BUILDING INTO THEIR FUCKING BALCONY to try and force her to listen to him read her “Pro-list”

THEN he gets his other friends to let him into the house after Rachel makes it clear that she doesn’t want to see him by going into her room

THEN Rachel tries to explain to him why she’s so hurt by the list by telling him that all the things he wrote on the list were things she actually hates about herself and it sucks he not only agrees with her but actually uses those things as reasons not to be with her

THEN he CONTINUES to try and make excuses for himself and even try to make her feel bad about being mad at him by turning the situation around by saying “If things were the other way around, there’s nothing you could write about me that would make me not want to be with you”

THEN, after Rachel makes it clear that she’s not interested in talking to him, he calls Monica and asks her to turn on the radio since he made a song request for her so he’s basically forcing Rachel to listen to him

SO IN CONCLUSION: He didn’t apologize ONE TIME for the list, he tried to manipulate Rachel into forgiving him by saying she’s overreacting, AND proceeded to ignore Rachel’s wishes for a little bit of space continuously

This has been an anti-Ross psa

Ross is actually the worst character on the whole show I’m pro Joey all da way

So whenever I decide to re-watch friends I keep a list going of all the reasons why Ross is a horrible person. I posted season 1′s list a while ago it ended up being like 4 pages long. 

Can I just say I felt like I read what that radio host was told by Rachel

Another reason Joey’s better than Ross is that when he also had to think of con’s for Rachel all he could say was: “She made me switch to light mayo. That’s it! That’s all I got! And, you know what? It tastes the same and my pants fit better!”

Don’t forget that when Ross said Rachel could make a list she said, “That’s the difference between us, I would never make a list.”

What was it he did? I cant miss an opportunity to drag Ross

So! First! He made out with Rachel while he was still dating Julie

THEN, he couldn’t decide which one he wanted to date more, so he kept dating Julie and didn’t tell Rachel anything about his decision after they had kissed

THEN he made a pros and cons list to decide whether or not to dump Julie so he could date Rachel and he wrote shit like: Too ditzy, too spoiled, too into her looks, not much in common since she’s just a waitress, and she has fat ankles

THEN, after he finally decided to dump Julie and be with Rachel, he tried to hide the list from her but she found it anyway and got rightfully pissed off

THEN he tried to make all sorts of excuses for the list without actually apologizing

THEN he ignored Rachel’s choice to be alone by CLIMBING UP THE SIDE OF THEIR BUILDING INTO THEIR FUCKING BALCONY to try and force her to listen to him read her “Pro-list”

THEN he gets his other friends to let him into the house after Rachel makes it clear that she doesn’t want to see him by going into her room

THEN Rachel tries to explain to him why she’s so hurt by the list by telling him that all the things he wrote on the list were things she actually hates about herself and it sucks he not only agrees with her but actually uses those things as reasons not to be with her

THEN he CONTINUES to try and make excuses for himself and even try to make her feel bad about being mad at him by turning the situation around by saying “If things were the other way around, there’s nothing you could write about me that would make me not want to be with you”

THEN, after Rachel makes it clear that she’s not interested in talking to him, he calls Monica and asks her to turn on the radio since he made a song request for her so he’s basically forcing Rachel to listen to him

SO IN CONCLUSION: He didn’t apologize ONE TIME for the list, he tried to manipulate Rachel into forgiving him by saying she’s overreacting, AND proceeded to ignore Rachel’s wishes for a little bit of space continuously

This has been an anti-Ross psa

Ross is actually the worst character on the whole show I’m pro Joey all da way

So whenever I decide to re-watch friends I keep a list going of all the reasons why Ross is a horrible person. I posted season 1′s list a while ago it ended up being like 4 pages long. 

Can I just say I felt like I read what that radio host was told by Rachel

Another reason Joey’s better than Ross is that when he also had to think of con’s for Rachel all he could say was: “She made me switch to light mayo. That’s it! That’s all I got! And, you know what? It tastes the same and my pants fit better!”

but you see her on instagram and it was never really said that you guys aren’t friends but one day she stopped answering and you stopped texting and it’s not like the wound is a cavern but it is a diagram of what if in red letters. you want to tell her nice lipstick that’s a good color but the last time you spoke it was stilted and awkward 

how do you say goodbye, you know? it’s not an unfriend and block kind of situation. but you watch the people you once loved go on and have a life and you’re outside of it. and it’s bittersweet because of course it’s okay that you’re both thriving. but she used to be who you’d call if you needed to cry. she used to be who’d you’d be binge watching the new series with. you used to be hers, in a way, even if that way wasn’t permanent. and now she’s someone else and so are you and your friendship is clicking heart shapes next to pictures where she smiles next to people you’ve never met. you know where her birthmark is. she knows where you’ve buried your dead.

the poets and the singers and the authors write about romantic love when it ends. but nobody tells you how to get over a friend.

Reminder: Your friends really do love you. No they dont secretly hate you. No they dont just put up with you and think you’re annoying. Your friends truly love you and care about you as much as you do.