I want more selfship friends,.., I wanna mutually get excited over f/os and gush and talk with ppl who get it... selfship friends i love u and also i am open for messages whenever come tell me about your special faves
My half of a selfship art trade with @jj-does-stuff ! I haven't seen the source but this ship is adorable! I had a lot of fun drawing for you :) My selfship art trades are open! Contact me if interested.
I love hearing about other people’s f/os so much, even if I don’t know the media. I want to know about them so bad always.
My half of an art trade with @sockiesock !
I had a ton of fun drawing your guys!! And it taught me a lot about humans! Thanks for doing a trade with me 💚
Hey to all my self shippers who take writing commissions… I’ve got a bit of money, drop your commission page by me!
Pr0ship don’t interact <3
But more, much more than this, I did it my way~ -----------------------------------------------
Backstory art for my helluva s/i!
Hey would anyone be up for a selfship art trade perhaps?
I specialize in furries but humans are an option too! I can do designs, aliens, demons, ponies, whatever your heart desires! I'm just personally dying for some selfship art and would love to interact with the community more :) Message me if you'd be interested maybe?
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Is it still promo hour? I'm Cotton/a million other names and I really love people who have major problems, especially if they kill a little bit. I love to chat and send asks and be gushed at, and I'd love more selfship mutuals! »»———- ABT/BYF ———-««
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I fixate on different f/os at different times but I love all of them so so so much. Don't forget that your f/os absolutely adore you too!!! (Pr0ship don't interact!)
It's been a hot minute, but I updated my f/o list!! Check it out if you wanna kinda know what to expect here. Enjoy my tastes. (mixed bag)
Anonymous asked:
As regards your post about needing to have more examples of weight gain as a sign of recovery, it also needs to be shown as a visible sign of someone getting off drugs. A common saying in the recovery environment is that somebody "puts down the spoon and picks up a fork". Stimulants vastly increase metabolism, and opioids often reduce appetite, so addicts are often somewhat gaunt, and a sign of long-term recovery is seeing more body fat in in their cheeks, arms, etc.
You are so right!! I love that!! Please let note recovering addicts gain weight and soften!!
If you want really excellent selfship writing I have to insist you check out @enter-the-phantom’s work. I’ve commissioned them many times and I’m currently exhaustedly reading the various commissions I’ve gotten from them and swiftly becoming an unhinged person about it
My desire to be a normal and palatable selfship blog vs my desire to make posts and imagines for other people like me who are disabled, fat, traumatized, mentally ill, etc etc. because I have some of the experiences necessary to make posts for rarely represented selfshippers: fight
Thinking about the drama of encountering a past victim of one of your villain f/os, maybe they even come to confront the person who hurt them, and you get in the way. They don’t want to hurt you, you don’t seem so bad, they wonder if you’re being manipulated. You can’t help but have compassion for them- there’s no excuse for what they were put through and you know it. You can understand their rage, and their confusion as to why you keep standing in the way, but despite how much you may get where they’re coming from… you still can’t let them hurt the person you love. You just can’t.
#selfship#selfshipping#villain fictional other#love letters#I see lots of villain selfshippers who are indifferent to or participate in their villains misdeeds#and that’s awesome! go nuts! be diabolical#but like. it’s also cool to acknowledge the ones who love their f/o but hate what they do#or who are trying to help them quit or at least taper their behaviors#who have to work out compromises so that the relationship can exist#and who feel pain for the victims#also the inherent drama of it#“I know they hurt you. I know you’re justified. I still have to stand in your way
Like I don’t know about you guys but I love imagining how my f/os appearance might change if they had the support to completely, freely be able to do what they wanted with their bodies and hair and clothes and such. Imagine being the reason your f/o feels comfortable dyeing their hair a new color or dressing the way they always wanted to. Imagine cheering them on as they mix up their gender presentation a little bit and try some new stuff out. Imagine being their security when they gain some weight or stop stressing as hard about what other people think. No matter what kind of relationship you have with them, you get to make them feel confident.
Okay I’ve been simmering on this today but like. We need more representations of fatness and weight gain as signs of healing. So so often in media weight loss is meant to be a sign of becoming healthier or happier and I’m ready to see more of the opposite!
Give me characters who hadn’t had secure access to food in the past having stable food and filling out from finally being able to eat when they’re hungry.
Give me characters who have always felt like they had to adhere to a standard for fear of judgment finally gaining weight as they become more comfortable with themselves and their bodies.
Give me couples getting fatter together because they know they’ll be loved and because life’s too short to worry about dieting and controlling intake all the time.
Give me characters who’ve struggled with disordered eating habits in the past who get progressively chunkier as they recover with the help of people who adore them.
Give me fatness as a sign of comfort. Of health. Of security and recovery and confidence. Give me fatness as a sign of happiness.
Anyone got any tips for Not feeling guilty and self conscious for the way you characterize your f/os in your daydreams?
I wonder what Chucky and co. Would think of me being a system. I wonder if it would weird them out