Getting a lot of traction again on this post. What it all boils down to is examining a few things:
1. Men and women are not opposites and if one or more isn’t your bag, you may sometimes find some aspects appealing and you don’t have to make it a big thing if you don’t want to.
Straight people will be like “oh haha if I was into women/men…” and it doesn’t make them not straight. It doesn’t have to change your label. Sometimes a person will exhibit aspects of your attractive gender without being it. Maybe it awakens something for you, sometimes it causes a funny/awkward mixup, sometimes it makes you go “huh” and think nothing more and do nothing more about it.
2. Many people see the change from iding as bi to gay/lesbian as a fine shift but think moving from gay/lesbian to bi is comphet. That’s shit.
3. There are countless people who date/sleep with people outside of what their label suggests. This is not actually a personal attack against you and does not require the same behavior from you. Looking at a queer man and a queer woman kissing is not forcing comphet on you.
4. Anyone who actually tries to force you to date/sleep with a person or demographic is a dogshit person for not respecting your comfort and boundaries BECAUSE of going against your wishes, not because it would lose you points on the Blizzard Diversity Wheel or rob you of your Gold/Platinum Star
5. Please understand what compulsive heterosexuality is and stop applying it to queer people being queer in ways you don’t like and aren’t part of