finlaure13 reblogged
What most people consider negativity: Not smiling and saying everything is great all of the time. Showing any sign of struggling, no matter what you’re going through. Being honest or realistic about a bad situation.
What I consider negativity: Saying unnecessary harsh or mean things about yourself or someone else. Being abusive, controlling, manipulative, and/or doing something to hurt someone’s mental well-being. Like pressuring them to smile and act happy all of the time, instead of letting them feel what they need to feel. Making people feel like they have to apologize just for admitting that they’re having a hard time.