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Reblog if trans men are REAL, VALID AND HANDSOME MEN, NO MATTER HOW THEY CHOOSE TO PASS
Reblog if trans women are REAL, VALID, AND BEAUTIFUL WOMEN, NO MATTER HOW THEY CHOOSE TO PASS
And finally, because it's a part of my argument for this point, and also because they are,
Reblog if nonbinary and genderqueer people in general, are REAL, VALID, AND GORGEOUS PEOPLE, NO MATTER HOW THEY PASS
1930s news about a trans woman: Well I'll be curfuffled young Corlotta Jhonson has transformed herself from a dandy into a dame and what a Bombshell she's become. And How!
1930s news about trans men: Wanted dead or alive this young lady who started wearing trousers, the tomboy terror known only as The Crust is wanted for snorting the President's personal stash of opium and has slain nearly every senate member in a pistol duel.
over christmas when i came out fully to my mom she did tell me i was beautiful and gave me some of her old jewelry and told me she was excited to have another daughter and that was all wonderful, but the part that meant the most to me was when i told her "i want to get my facial hair taken care of sooner than later, the whole "girl" thing is a lot easier to swallow when im shaved" and she examined my use of the phrase "it's a lot easier to swallow" and said "Scout, I didn't have a good relationship with my mother. you know that." (i did know that, my grandma was NOT good to my mother) "but your grandma kim [friend of my grandma's, unrelated by blood in any way, but was adopted as a grandma through familial osmosis] was the greatest woman who's ever been in my life. and up until the day she died, she had a beard and a moustache [which is true, my grandma kim, a cis woman, had VERY thick facial hair]. if you kept your facial hair for the rest of your life i wouldnt think of you as less of a woman" and ya know what? THAT'S the part of her support that made me cry.
my grandma kim was an amazing woman and she had peach fuzz that she didnt give a FUCK about. and everyone loved her.
you can have your own fuzz too, and that doesn't make you not a woman.
Reblog if trans men are REAL, VALID AND HANDSOME MEN, NO MATTER HOW THEY CHOOSE TO PASS
Reblog if trans women are REAL, VALID, AND BEAUTIFUL WOMEN, NO MATTER HOW THEY CHOOSE TO PASS
And finally, because it's a part of my argument for this point, and also because they are,
Reblog if nonbinary and genderqueer people in general, are REAL, VALID, AND GORGEOUS PEOPLE, NO MATTER HOW THEY PASS
Dylan Mulvaney: (sings about things that give her gender euphoria) Transphobes:
I bring you… my silly little comics. Saw a tik tok this morning about British Museum recognizing emperor Elagabalus as a trans woman 🏳️⚧️, and I just had to draw this.
I honestly did not expect this to happen
For those of you who don't understand what this means, the idea is that all the living trans women have to be strong and resilient because otherwise they'd be dead.
At times I feel like it's easier presenting as a man than a woman and I can't tell if that's because I was assigned male at birth or because women's clothes are less comfortable (because patriarchy).
three years ago today, a new me was born
Check out this fucking shit
CHOO CHOO ALL ABOARD MOTHERFUCKERS the transfemme glow up train is leaving the station
Something like 4 years difference, 2 years before egg crack and 2 years after
Go to your nearest target. Buy a two pack of pushup bras (24$ for 2), and target’s bra inserts (12$). Then go to your nearest Walmart and buy the Vasserette Control Shapewear Panties (2.50 each), they do wonders for helping your tuck. There you go! You just saved yourself a lot of money, you can afford to buy enough to wear every day, and best of all you look fabulous. -@twidx
recs for trans women are so rare on tumblr!! spread this, people.
Please reblog this, in total it’s about $38.50 to make a huge difference for a trans woman/trans feminine person.
I’ve honestly been tucking with that kind of thing ever since I started and it’s so useful
for trans women in the UK, go to primark! when someone i knew was experimenting with gender and gender presentation, i took him to primark and we got a haul of shape wear and bras for cheap as hell. they sell bra inserts there too. i highly recommend primark for all your needs.
Oh damn
When I make a post about being a trans girl and there's trans dudes in my notes going "I totally get this but the exact opposite"
I am high fiving you
I finally got to wear a dress at a family holiday gathering. After four years I was finally a girl!
I think my brother called me his sister? I was taking about getting my ears pierced and he said, “If you do you DON’T have to call me. All my friends’ sisters call them right after they get their ears pierced.” I liked that.
At first I thought presenting as a girl (I’m AMAB) meant being RADICALLY different in my style but then I learned it’s more about translating what I already like about my style into a way that feels right in my gender.
Things cis girls probably don’t have to say to their dog: “Please don’t eat my tits.”
I always have to be careful with figuring out my gender after watching She-Hulk. It makes me feel so much like a woman even if I’m not.
