ya know what i want? a reason why father is evil. now something that justifies him cuz, oh boy not much can even with his bad childhood, but perhaps delve more into why this family man just, ignored his brother and his own nephew for so long? like maybe he blaimes monty, and the knd, for destroying his own family (even if it was a dsyfunctional one), and hence why he hates kids so much- they literally destroyed his life when he was young. or, like, any uno family drama at all really....
Duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuude...........
Are you a psychic?
Because that is totally what I was thinking !
Great minds think alike!
I know we don't necessarily need to find a reason for Father to hate kids/the KND but I did try to come up with something, a backstory more devolopped for my fanfic.
Basically, yes : Benedict does blame Monty and the KND for "destroying" his family. A) Monty, by reviving the KND, took Ben's chances away to ever get some recognition from his father (even when he does in op zero, I'm wondering, 'was it worth it?' and I don't think so), and B) if you consider my headcanon about them being separated by the child services after Monty's victory, his team only helped him and not his brother : 'let's help Zero, he got rid of the tyran - what about his brother? - why should we? he didn't help us, what good will he be?' Should I mention that in my headcanon Ben actually heard that? And so, the two brothers got separated, one taken away by the child services, the other saved by his KND buddies. I already said in my previous post that Monty SEARCHED EVERYWHERE for Ben, unfortunately without success, during his time in the KND. And you wanna hear the irony I came up with? The 7th age is drastically different from the 6th (that's canon, they didn't even have cars, cf Op CAKE-FIVE), so I'm thinking that Monty insisted to improve 2x4 technology and to establish new sets of rules in order to not lose another kid ever again.
What I'm saying is the Kids Next Door organization wouldn't be the way it is today if their separation never happened.
Grandfather made differences between his sons (which is the worst parent thing to do), clearly showing his preference towards Monty. I also see him using old corporal punishments on his kids, but since he had a favorite, Ben was the one to get all the worst punishments: mistake equals punishments, failure equals punishments, disobedience equals punishments. Ben started to resent his brother for being so goddamn perfect (according to Grandfather of course) because there was nothing that was good enough for his father. Even with this resentment (believe me, by having two sisters, I know what I'm talking about), Ben still couldn't truely hate his brother, being the only person who ever cared for him. But the fact he thought Monty would want to spend more time with the KND and basically being abandoned by his brother (from his point of view, mind you, Monty NEVER quit searching for his little brother) is what increased his resentment into hatred for the KND.
I still headcanon that they do meet again as teenagers, but let's just say that ..... well, things changed. In the end, Ben didn't need ANYONE, he went through all of this ALONE, thinking he was so worthless his brother didn't bother to come for him. He had to grow up fast, but deep down, there's a kid part of him still waiting for his brother. A part he despises so much for reminding him that being a kid sucks: no one takes you seriously, people ignore you, you're weak and defenseless: Ben just doesn't want to feel that hopelessness again. The truth is that Monty was too late. His brother was already taken over by resentment and hatred by the time they meet as teenagers. The gap between them has widened ever since the rebellion and it still getting bigger.
There are people who had crappy childhood and they won't hesitate to make suffer the next generation out of spite, Father is one of them.
I believe Monty was like 11 years old and Ben 8 years old in Op ZERO (and I believe 1st graders are 8 years old), so if you consider my headcanon about Father being behind Nigel's kidnapping, he did it when Nigel was the same age as he was when Zero's rebellion happened. Would he do something that petty? I mean, he seems pretty okay trying to destroy his nephew, so yes, I think he would do something that petty.
In conclusion, Benedict hasn't forgiven Monty for choosing the KND over his own brother and his resentment is what keeps him for any reconciliations between them. He is just avoiding his brother, because a decomissioned Monty isn't really the best person to hang out with, especially when he forgot why they went on their separate ways. Ben doesn't stand that his brother would just "erase" a part of his life as if it never happened. You can't just pretend something didn't happen and just go on with your life that easily!