#it took me so much time to realise that people telling not to label myself when i described myself as bi ace were the worst for me

"No labels" rhetoric isolates people from their community, history and culture. It keeps people from being able to articulate themselves and ask for what they need.It promotes a false sense of unity that only serves to further the dominant classes in society. It is a lazy way of getting out of understanding and digesting complex issues.I dislike this rhetoric and approach.

#important #saying there is no labels' is as much a prison as not thinking outside of them #it took me so much time to realise that people telling not to label myself when I described myself as bi ace were the worst for me #when they asked me 'not to put myself in a box' like they were doing me a favour #they're the worst even with 'the best intentions' and 'really care' and 'didn't know' fuck that #because by no labels #they mean 'I don't want to have to think of you as something different from me and my clear hetero or homo side of the fence'#society