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Don't touch other people without their explicit knowledge and permission. When in doubt, always ask first. If someone says they don't want to be touched, respect this.

This is especially important when it comes to strangers and acquaintances, and especially in situations where there's a power dynamic, such as an adult asking before hugging a child, or even an older child such as an older sibling or older cousin asking before hugging or touching a younger child.

This is important for making the world a kinder place for those with trauma or neurodivergent people, because a lot of forms of trauma and neurodivergence make it extra disturbing and unpleasant to be touched without consent. Or even if someone isn't traumatized or neurodivergent, it's still fair to not want to be touched and to have that boundary respected.

It's also important for teaching kids boundaries and consent from a young age.

This applies to all situations, even situations many may think are an exception, such as if someone is pregnant. Often people will think it's acceptable to approach a pregnant stranger in public and just touch their stomach without permission. However, someone can be pregnant AND traumatized or neurodivergent. Or even if they're not traumatized or neurodivergent, it's still normal to find it uncomfortable for a total stranger to walk up to you in a grocery store and just put their hand on your stomach without asking. Contrary to popular belief, being pregnant doesn't make this any less weird.

Of course as you get to know someone you'll get more familial with what their boundaries are and how comfortable they are with being touched. But when in doubt, just ask.

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citrineghost

This is great advice and I'd like to add that you should always treat mobility aids/assistive devices for disabled people as a part of their body. Do not ever touch someone's cane or wheelchair without asking. Especially not a stranger in a public space. Having someone move your wheelchair without asking is like if someone came up behind you in the store and grabbed you by the arms to physically move you out of their way.

It's disrespectful of their autonomy, their personal space, and their right to take up space in public. They have just as much right to be where they are as you do - more if they were there first, in fact. If you need something and someone is in the way, with or without a mobility aid, just say, "excuse me, can I get behind you/past you" or something. If it's not urgent and they don't seem to be idling there forever, it's even better to just be patient and wait a moment for them to move of their own accord

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anyway yeah DELETE YOUR FUCKING ADVERTISING IDS

Android:

Settings ➡️ Google ➡️ all services ➡️ Ads ➡️ Delete advertising ID

(may differ slightly depending on android version and manufacturer firmware. you can't just search settings for "advertising ID" of course 🔪)

iOS:

Settings ➡️ privacy ➡️ tracking ➡️ toggle "allow apps to request to track" to OFF

and ALSO settings ➡️ privacy ➡️ Apple advertising ➡️ toggle "personalized ads" to OFF

more details about the process here via the EFF

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kabillieu

The commitment to the bit! The t-shirt that names the over-the-counter pain killer this man will have to take after this Oscar-winning performance!

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They just don't make ships anymore where one person in the ship canonically convinces a grieving father to sacrifice himself to a terrible death by monster in order to save the life of the second person in the ship, and, when confronted about it, just says the second person's name so aching and soft

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rodneymckays

Stargate Atlantis | 3x15 The Game

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raiphend

I love the fact that Rodney mentions to John in a previous episode he does like chess but has a hard time finding challenging opponents, and big surprise, secret-genius-John is of course more than a match for our dear Dr. McKay. x3

Also John being all nonchalant and Rodney all flustered is such a cute and classic McShep dynamic. Love these dorks. lol

Never tire of seeing them enjoyable spending time together. Only wish we’d seen more of them in their down time and moments like this. ♡

Everyone should go read Bead’s Checkmate ‘verse, which this gifset reminded me of!

Summary: … for some unknown reason, John Sheppard has been turned into a cat.
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I saw a post saying that Boromir looked too scruffy in FotR for a Captain of Gondor, and I tried to move on, but I’m hyperfixating. Has anyone ever solo backpacked? I have. By the end, not only did I look like shit, but by day two I was talking to myself. On another occasion I did fourteen days’ backcountry as the lone woman in a group of twelve men, no showers, no deodorant, and brother, by the end of that we were all EXTREMELY feral. You think we looked like heirs to the throne of anywhere? We were thirteen wolverines in ripstop.

My boy Boromir? Spent FOUR MONTHS in the wilderness! Alone! No roads! High floods! His horse died! I’m amazed he showed up to Imladris wearing clothes, let alone with a decent haircut. I’m fully convinced that he left Gondor looking like Richard Sharpe being presented to the Prince Regent in 1813

*electric guitar riff*

And then rocked up to Imladris a hundred ten days later like

Some people have been wondering about the raccoon. Listen. Listennn. Don't ask about the raccoon.

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mavaris

But does the racoon survive the Uruk-Hai? Does he curl up on Aragorn's head, or does he go straight to Faramir? Does he bite Denethor?

My friend. My colleague. My brother my captain my king. I too have been pondering this question, and in my mind there can be only one ultimate outcome.

A few months later

All hail the High Warden of Gondor.

Epilogue: It ADORES Faramir.

Every time I see this post I’m obligated to reblog and make it your problem too!

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