la belle vie

"you're so sweet" thanks i have abandonment issues

Ryan Guzman as Eddie Díaz 9-1-1, S08E07 - Hotshots

9-1-1 | Hen & Chimney "And thanks for following me down that hillside." "The first of many, I'm sure."

I LOVE CHIM AND HENS FRIENDSHIP OH MY GOD I NEED MORE

MY FAV DUO TO EVER DUO 😭😭😭

SUSPICION (1941) | dir. Alfred Hitchcock

GET TO KNOW ME ♡ Favorite Dynamics ↳ Buckley Siblings “We are a pair. The fugitive and the settler. I'm always running, you're always..." "Clinging?"

Mama the gays behind you.

Oh, come on. Please tell me that's not a video of- The greatest British smackdown since the War of 1812? Yes. Yes, Cap, it is.

Happy birthday to AO3 🎂🎉

Happy birthday to a platform that has contributed to so many positive aspects of my life: real life friends, online friends, global understanding, mental health, writing inspiration, career objectives, joy in a favorite hobby, self-esteem as a writer, and license to WRITE WHATEVER THE FUCK I WANT.

I’m obsessed with how each new photo when they are in this position Buck gets a little closer to Eddie

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buck buckley baked. instead of calling his ex-boyfriend who was Not Good For Him. HE BAKED. like, can we please be proud of buck buckley. for that. because no, buck wanting to call tommy is not a sign that they were Meant To Be. it is a classic buck buckley move. a direct comparison to abby. who he DID cling onto, to his own detriment. for MONTHS. like, this is a pattern. his family recognises that this is a pattern. because buck clings. buck clings because he's afraid to be alone and he's afraid he's not good enough. and his family knows this. MADDIE knows this, perhaps most of all. which is why she said what she said. bobby knows this too, has seen it. has seen the way buck throws himself into relationships (there was a whole conversation about it in the truck that one time) and clings to them even when (especially when) they are not good for him. he compared it to recovery, in fact. to being able to recognise when you are clinging on to something for all the wrong reasons. because you have let it shape so much of you that you don't know who you are without it. and eddie. eddie knows it too. knows that buck will shrink himself down, create a new version of himself to be whatever it is he thinks someone else needs. when, actually. he doesn't need to be anything for anyone. buck buckley BAKED. he baked. and when baking wasn't enough to combat the fear of being alone. his family rallied around him and refused to let him call his ex-boyfriend and shrink himself down again in order to be good enough. and i think that's beautiful.

If T makes you gain weight and E and antidepressants do it too, and do does enjoying good food and not being hungry all the time, then perhaps maybe sometimes joy & weight gain come hand in hand and that's good

I've met people who started smoking again after successfully quitting because they gained weight :/ diet culture is so messed up

[Image Transcript: #also bouncing back from drugs and cigarettes do that!! #it /is/ good and healthy!!!]

Also people in long term relationships gain weight together, and while I don't want to imply relationships are a goal for all people or there's anything wrong with being single for whatever reason, I do really enjoy looking at the weight my fiancé and I have gained over the years and framing it as a reminder of the joy we've found in each other! After all, why should I be ashamed of the physical proof of our time together?

Weight gain is not a bad thing, it comes hand in hand with so many wonderful expiriences and profound positive changes, and even when it doesn't it's still not a bad thing. Reframing how we look at it helps push the cause of fat liberation forward for us all, because if you can frame weight as a sign of joy and love and freedom instead of something inherently negative, you'll slowly chip away at that ingrained disgust response and see yourself and others for the humans we all are, which is a huge step forward on the road to destroy diet culture and societal fatphobia once and for all!

5x05/5x09/8x07 || look at your life, look at your choices

EDDIE DIAZ 8.06 | 8.07

Behind every gay person is an even gayer, more evil person

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