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fiction or fascism

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in the sea we make our home revolution is not a metaphor.
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esmion
Getting high off the idea of ‘saving The Other’ isn’t the same as ‘being down for the cause’. What if we don’t feel the need to include you in our ‘us’? Would you still talk about the necessity for safe spaces if our safety means that your invitations are limited? And when you are invited we might need you to listen… to have a seat and be still. To not hit on the men or flirt with the ladies. To not promote your business and/or self. And maybe our cause doesn’t need you as a guest speaker, host, feature poet, panelist or ambassador. What if the fact that you speak our language doesn’t mean that you’re part of our narrative? Do you feel excluded if we tell you we find our issues to be enough, whole… complete without having to treat them as part of a bigger picture that only offers more space for portraits of people who look like you? Would you ever contribute to our visibility by being invisible?

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brutereason
Heteronormativity isn’t just about the presumption that everyone is heterosexual. The expectation that boys woo girls feeds into your mind the expectation that relationships are necessary for fulfilment, and you are less than if you are not having particular kinds of sex with a particular, and a particular kind of, person at particular intervals. It’s about what Lauren Berlant calls the love plot, in which love is produced as a generic text enabling society to interpret your life as following certain conventions. It’s not about what you want, it’s about what you’re supposed to want. You’re not encouraged to think about what you want in relationships, if anything, so much as you are encouraged to fit a script. Heteronormativity messes things up for everyone, straight people included.

Have I already reblogged this? Don’t know don’t care.

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Wow. Relevant.

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