Against Gender, Against Society - nila nokizaru (via hazelxvx)
it is naive to presume that an analysis of gender can be cleanly transposed and substituted for a distinct, exhaustive analysis of other oppressions, namely racism, capitalism, and ableism. we must acknowledge that these oppressions operate on particular, concrete lines, always opaque and fraught with contradictions. it can be noted that gender is always underscored by white supremacist capitalism, and vice versa, but an analysis of one aspect does not act as morse code for the other.
Sometimes you just need something bright and octagonal to reply with when your feed does the thing.
[ photo is a drawing of two people on a white background, one with a feminine shape dressed in a tie and tux jacket, tights, and heels with short pink hair, and one with a masculine shape, an orange beard and hairy legs wearing a frilly purple dress. the words “Fuck gender standards, you are fab” are written above and below the people. ]
Shit I don't like...
…seeing adults force gender stereotypes on little kids by using shaming and even threats of violence. I saw a woman in a children’s ER tell a little boy that if he ever wore pink “he’ll get beat up” and “won’t be a real boy anymore”. I see adults hyper-feminizing girls and even use lesbophobic slurs to frighten girls into conforming to heteronormative, feminine stereotypes. I saw an adult male tell a little boy to “never lose his balls to some chick” and “don’t do ‘gay shit’”. Because it’s never too soon to warp kids’ minds with gender policing and even homophobic bullshit. Makes me feel grateful that my parents didn’t give a shit how I dressed or acted— I was and still am a tomboy, I guess you could say— but unfortunately there’s a lot of non-gender conforming and queer young people and even adults who weren’t/aren’t so fortunate. When will fucking people realize that we ruin kids with this shit?!
When you go to LA Pride or whichever Pride this year please take a moment to remember the noncompliance, entrapment, hate crimes and police brutality that the gay liberation movement faced in the 50's and 60's and 70's and 80's out on through today. remember that before there was a 'gay rights' movement that catered to the political bottom line (a middle class ascribing white gay moderately conservative male) there were queers and drag and liberation and rejection of assimilation in favor of radically altering the hegemonic social institutions that capture us, assign us genders, police our sexualities and assimilate us to stop being queer so we can be good workers for capitalism! Please remember it's not all about CORPORATIONS making money off of your struggle by treating you like the rest of their consumer/customers. Please remember it's not about that sheriff recruitment booth, and think of how many POC and queers are uncomfortable by the spectacle that has become Pride because of the constant thread of forced assimilation or celebration. What have we become?! when do marginalized communities have enough people together or space to actually talk or even do something about the issues/oppressions they face? well i'll tell you, when we do have enough people to actually talk about the issues that face us we're drowned out by music, or programme, or symbolic marches. We're told to celebrate our tokens. As if there is not yet work to be done! as if our genders and sexualities aren't being policed! as if we don't continuously exclude TRANS folk from our spaces by erasing their struggle with all kinds of normativity! as if forced assimilation and the narrative of 'equality' really applies to ALL of us! Please remember that 'rights' are only privileges when they can be selectively granted and taken away by the governmental and even social institutions that dominate our lives. and that privileges are not YOURS to hold onto, but a system to betray! Some of us don't want to keep begging for the rights given out by this system built by white property owning puritan males; it wasn't written for us. it doesn't represent us. and we can never be represented by another, we want to determine our own lives!. we don't want tokenized space facilitated by friendly faced cops, we don't want what humynity people care to grant us with a vote or forced smiles and less gay bashing! we want to take it, to bash back! remember this as you celebrate, that we exist. that this conversation is unfolding and will continue to unfold. and just maybe, understand that these spaces will not go unagitated for long. LIBERATION NOT ASSIMILATION. Solidarity with all those who resist the commodification of our dissent and the rendering of our ongoing struggles into symbolism and consumerism.
motivation behind misogyny:
- men maintaining power over women
results of misogyny:
- rape, abuse, murder, lower pay, less opportunities, general discrimination and loss of power, restrictive gender roles, and much, much more.
motivation behind misandry:
- men as a group sure do a lot of bad things as a result of their gendered power and male privilege, im not sure that i trust them or even like them.
results of misandry:
- hurt feelings
This was in Maxim magazine…
This was in Maxim magazine…
This was in a magazine….
This exists…
This….
I’m fucking done for the day folks..