Hate Wins and Love Loses

I… dont want to do that? I know what happened what good does it do

Very often lately i’ve been thinking of the james baldwin(?) quote (i can’t find it at the moment so i will summarize it) where he basically says that in order for white people to ally with black people that we need to think of black children as our children and iirc he didn’t think that could ever happen. When i see posts like this i think, do you not see your neighbor? Do you not see your aunt? Do you not see your teacher, your bus driver, your dentist, your friend, your peer, your equal? Why are you pushing their death tape onto others when the accounts of their murders are written out so people can know without seeing?

It’s odd to me that 1) this is the post that gets notes when I’ve seen multiple of my black mutuals express their complete disgust with the original posts and the sentiments shared within, as well as op’s extremely condescending response (maybe because I am not black and it’s easier for yall to stomach or something?) and 2) those same black mutuals and other black users are ON THIS POST agreeing with it, and there’s STILL white people arguing with me, saying I took the post out of context. What more do black people need to fucking do to get you to listen to them???? People in the notes have rightly brought up the way that people on the internet encourage others to watch videos and look at photos of palestinian people getting murdered—what good does this do? I don’t need to see the wound get made to know blood has been spilled! I LISTEN TO THEM!!!

The op of the post I screenshotted is saying that unless people watch this, they’re not going to even come close to understanding the depths of the depravity of police brutality. Uhhh, personally, when I hear that the police shot and killed someone PERIOD, let alone a schizophrenic black woman that wanted help, i’m perfectly aware that that was wrong. I don’t need to see this white cop murder a black woman. I don’t care how merciless he was how cold he was how inhuman he was—he killed her. I KNOW. What more could be gained from this? And you think WE, the people seeing your white weeb ass try to grandstand to grieving black people online, are the arbiters of truth?? You think we’re going to control the narrative?? You only know what happened BECAUSE THE NEWS ALREADY REPORTED IT.

Other people have also mentioned in the notes that white people’s activism is mostly self flagellation, then showing nonwhite people their bloody wounds, saying see? Aren’t i sorry? Have i made up for it? I watched a woman get murdered because i care so much, despite the fact black people have told me to stop sharing it, because i care, and they’re too stupi—i mean, emotionally involved to realize watching sonya massey die on video is A GOOD THING!

Fuck off!

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a gofundme has been set up by the family to cover funeral expenses. this just…. its horrible news to wake up to, i cant imagine what the family is going through. its heartbreaking to lose your child in such a way.

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Righteous Torrence "Chevy" Hill, a barber based in Atlanta, was recently killed for being trans. There aren't many people talking about this and the obvious reason is because he is a black trans man. It's a shame that this went unnoticed for so long, but I'm using this platform to remind people that black trans men are often left out of the conversation about who we need to protect and it's unfair.

https://www.them.us/story/righteous-torrence-chevy-hill-atlanta-death

I literally lived on that very street during my first year as a refugee in the US. He would have been a child in that same neighborhood.

This hits hard.

One of the reasons why I cannot transition.

idk if anyone here has been following the manny ellis case but the tacoma pd just did their own internal investigation and unsurprisingly found that their killer cops had “done no wrong except for the use of profanity ”while killing manny ellis and payed them each $500,000 to resign for a grand total of $1.5 million in tax payer dollars to pay off murderers after keeping them on payed leave since they killed him

they got payed leave for 3 YEARS capped off with an additional $500,000 plus benefits for murdering someone, leaving “in good standing”

the officers in question are christopher burbank, matthew collins, and timothy rankine, these men are murderers who have been given the opportunity to live comfortably off blood money for years if not the rest of their lives if managed properly, all because they killed a mentally ill black man

for people who are just now hearing about his case

Manny Ellis was a musician, he played drums at his church, a father who loved his daughter and son greatly, he was working on improving his life. he was killed by three officers and initial reports claimed he died from an enlarged heart due to drug use, newly confirmed report by the medical examiner found he died from respiratory arrest hypoxia and physical restraint.

His sister Monét Carter-Mixon is still fighting for him.

here is the gofundme for his family funds go to legal fees among other things.

here is a petition from action network

(his sister Monét, his brother Matthew, his mother Marcia)

Remember The Blind Side starring Sandra Bullock? The movie showed how a kid who had an extremely rough upbringing got help from the family of a school friend, found success in football and ultimately ended up being adopted by the family. Turns out he was never adopted.

Michael Oher says that he was tricked by the Tuohy family into signing documents that made them his conservators. Since he was already 18 at the time the family told him, “that it means pretty much the exact same thing as 'adoptive parents,' but that the laws were just written in a way that took [his] age into account.”

Oher also says that papers were signed so that his story and likeness were given away for free to use in The Blind Side. He also never got a single royalty check for the hugely successful, Oscar nominated film in the 14 years since its release.

It just continues to baffle me that they essentially purchased a young Black man's life to make football money off of, like buying a racing horse, except a person. Like, I don't know how else to say it. And then made everyone think it was something wonderful they did to "save" an "impoverished, Black boy", and he's been saying it for years to no avail that they took advantage of him!

It makes perfect sense when you learn how white people have used the black body to their advantage for centuries. This story and film hasn’t sat right with me almost since it came out so I’m not surprised, but I am deeply saddened for Oher's experience of being taken advantage of.

The article gets into this, but the movie's also super fucking gross in how it portrays Oher and his life.

For one thing, it chose to portray him as a slow kid who got into the private high school he graduated from because the Tuohys showed the football coach how, uh, big and athletic he was. In reality, he was a smart kid who impressed the principal of the school by demonstrating academic focus despite his chaotic home life. This change is so straightforwardly racist that I don't even feel the need to elaborate on it.

The movie also decided to make the Tuohys the ones who introduce Oher to football, even though in reality he already knew how to play and was already excelling in the high school's team before ever meeting the Tuohys. This change is honestly fucking bizarre. It's like the Tuohys felt like their white savior fantasy wouldn't be complete unless it was literally complete, totalizing, with themselves directly responsible for every aspect of Oher's success.

Anyway, Oher's taking the Tuohys to court; here's hoping he can finally get what's his. He also has a book out.

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Excerpts from a media presentation (likely from Impact Media, written by Jendayi Omowale and designed by Cristeen Park) on the adultification of black children in the US. The presentation cites the examples of 12-year-old Tashawn Bernard (wrongfully arrested by police in Lansing, Michigan), and 16-year-old Kalief Browder (who was treated by law enforcement as an adult despite his age, with tragic consequences).

[CW: Police brutality, adultification, mentions of suicide]

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Police in Michigan were looking for a car theft suspect.

They wrongfully handcuffed a 12-year-old boy taking out the trash instead.

Bernard's father felt that something was off when his son was taking an unusual amount of time to take out the trash.

When he looked outside, he saw his son handcuffed with police "standing around him."

Bernard is now traumatized to the point that he no longer wants to go outside, according to the family's lawyers.

The officers responsible for the incident haven't been identified.

The Lansing Police Department explained that Bernard was "wearing similar clothing and in the same apartment complex as an accused car thief who fled from officers on foot."

On Friday, Chief Ellery Sosebee issued an apology. Bernard's family says they "will never accept" it.

The incident was documented in a now-viral video.

The assumption that a 12-year- old could be a match for a suspect who committed multiple thefts is adultification in action.

Black children are perceived to be older than they are, causing them to be treated as adults.

Adultification also means that Black children are seen as threatening and dehumanized by society, which has deadly consequences.

Because of adultification, Black children are more likely to be targets of police brutality.

The school-to-prison pipeline relies, in part, on the higher rates of disciplining Black children to expose them to policing within the education system.

For example, Black children make up 15% of their schools' population, but are half of all elementary school students who have been arrested.

Compared to white children, Black children are 18X more likely to be criminally sentenced as adults.

For example,

Black children deserve an actual childhood.

Black children should not have to live in fear of being grossly abused by law enforcement or the criminal justice system.

People should focus on investing in the futures of Black children instead of policing and dehumanizing them.

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ABC News abcnews.go.com/US/ralph-yarl-case-highlights-adultification-black- children-researchers/story?id=98662646

AP News apnews.com/article/lansing-police-black-child-handcuffed-mistaken- identity-0f362e7280c2705230d4774e8c0f8eed

California State University, San Bernardino csusb.edu/inside/article/550339/pre-trial-incarceration-and-case- kalief-browder-examined-next-conversations

Center for Policing Equity policingequity.org/resources/blog/the-adultification-of-black-children

CNN cnn.com/2023/08/15/us/tashawn-bernard-father-rejects-police- apology-cnntv/index.html

Stanford University exhibits.stanford.edu/saytheirnames/feature/kalief-browder

USA Facts usafacts.org/articles/black-students-more-likely-to-be-punished-than- white-students/]

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First part of video, an Ask reads: Please show me ur lobotomy tool tattoo please the person on screen shows a tattoo on their arm of an outline of 2 tools that look like an icepick and a small hammer in the clip they are saying "These are my lobotomy tools. I had --" and then the video cuts out

Response video captions read: holy white feminism, Batman! there's this cultural picture of lobotomies that revolves around white housewives this bell jar Stepford Wives picture of mental illness it's completely true that lobotomies were disproportionately performed on women even though in the early 19 hundreds the majority of institutionalized people were men up to 75% of lobotomies were performed on women the quote unquote heyday of lobotomies when the majority of lobotomies that took place on white women were performed uh lasted only a few years it was a very brief period roughly 1949 to 1952 but Black people and gay people were lobotomized as early as the 30s and all the way through to the 1970s for absolutely sickening reasons Black children as young as 5 years old were lobotomized without consent and without knowledge for behavior that white doctors perceived as aggressive this is not ancient history these are people who would be in their 50s and 60s today lobotomies were billed as a crime reduction tool in the 70s it was encouraged to lobotomize Black people to reduce crime and gay people were lobotomized in an attempt to cure (the person speaking makes air quotes with their fingers) their deviancy Walter Freeman was one of the most prominent American lobotomists you cannot read about lobotomies in America without seeing the name Walter Freeman he specifically actively sought out African American women as patients in order to experiment on them he tried to run an experiment at a VA hospital in Tuskegee Alabama on Black patients and was rightly barred from doing so they banned him doing the procedure he tried to make his entire career on experimenting on Black people throughout medical history and absolutely still today there's a common theme of white doctors assuming that Black patients don't feel pain not to the same degree that white patients do Black women especially have been involuntarily used as test subjects for as long as white men have dreamed of being doctors by the way lobotomies are still legal in the US with the way things are politically progressing today I would not be surprised to see a resurgence of involuntary psychosurgery we cannot pretend that lobotomies are isolated to a brief period of American history and we cannot pretend that the biases that lead to forced lobotomies on Black people and gay people do not still exist in the medical field today]