I would like to ask a question to non-binary/trans masc people if I have any kind followers who could give me some advice!
I am recently in a phase of my life and my gender identity where I've become mostly really unhappy with the size of my chest, so am wearing slightly compressive sports bras most days and then a binder on occasion. I am planning my birthday party, and would really like to dress up, but I find it hard to think of something I could wear that gives me good gender feelings but that also feels dressed up and exciting (because most of the time the only tops that feel good to me gender wise are tshirts, so it's hard to work out what I could wear that would be more dressy). I think because I'm used to the concept of 'dressing up' basically involving wearing more femme or more revealing outfits, I am finding it hard to work out what I could wear that would be a bit more in line with my current feelings about my gender and my body.
I'm comtemplating a shirt and tie or bowtie, which is something I've worn and liked in the past, but am wondering if anyone has any other suggestions? Please send me a message if you have any good ideas or advice!