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❤️ the personal stories. This should be apart of the American school curriculum.  #ThanksCanada  #GlobalCitizens

On Sept. 16, 2001, the last of “the plane people” left Gander.

Basic Facts

Newfoundland Hospitality

  1. Housing: Gander had only 500 hotel rooms. 536 stayed in the Salvation Army and Anglican summer camps, 713 in Lewisporte, 887 in Gambo, 155 in Norris Arm, 542 in Glenwood – a total of 2,833 – and the remaining 3,767 stayed in Gander
  2. When the locals found out one couples were newlyweds, they were given their own room in a house.
  3. Food: Everyone including students cooked meals according to peoples needs: vegetarian, kosher and even making baby formula. Restaurants and residents donated food.
  4. Clothing: Communities donated whatever they had because passengers clothing was stuck on the planes.
  5. Paid for all of the long distance calls - costing $13,000
  6. Setup computers and internet access - for free
  7. When people ran out of toilet paper, people contributed one years worth!
  8. The women of Lewisporte took home towels and washed them every night so people had fresh towels

There were animals too!

 A town veterinarian took care of the dogs and cats, and even two bonobos (pygmy chimpanzees) that were en route to the Columbus, Ohio, zoo. 
“A few years later, I got a letter from the Columbus Zoo and a picture of a baby chimpanzee, and they’d named it Gander”

"They couldn't understand why we so willing to open up our church and feed them and we were doing this for nothing. We didn't want anything in return for this.”

Passengers Paying it Forward

  1. The people of Newfoundland are very proud people. They refused money when offered. But after everyone had left, they found their guests had left a container full of money. People left donations in their national currencies.
  2. Shirley Brooks-Jones, a retired Ohio State University administrator and fellow passengers on Flight 15 started the LEWISPORTE AREA FLIGHT 15 SCHOLARSHIP FUND. As of 2016, 228 student scholarships have been awarded.
  3. Members of the Rockerfeller Foundation donated $83,000 for a new computer lab in Lewisporte school. Lewisporte residents were originally upset because they didn’t help others for money.
  4. Passengers who stayed at the Gander campus of College of the North Atlantic donated $20,000 for a scholarship fund
  5. The World Trade Center gifted Gander with a piece of steel from the original WTC.
  6. Lufthansa named an Airbus 340, “Gander”
Mr. Ambassador, you have assembled before you, here on Parliament Hill and right across Canada, a people united in outrage, in grief, in compassion, and in resolve. A people of every faith and nationality to be found on earth.
A people who, as a result of the atrocity committed against the United States on September 11, 2001, feel not only like neighbours, but like family.

Forget what you read about NAFTA negotiations and Twitter wars, that’s not who we are. Sure, it’s business, and it’s important, but Gander is the place that – in a snapshot – illustrates the Canada-U.S. relationship.”

—  U.S. Ambassador to Canada Kelly Craft,  SEPTEMBER 11, 2018

More personal stories from the CBC

Source: twitter.com
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If they stand behind you, give them protection.

If they stand beside you, give them respect.

If they stand if front of you, watch their back. And if they stand against you, show them no mercy.

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Pres Obama awards VP Biden with Presidential Medal of Freedom With Distinction.  FEEL GOOD Moment of the year. 

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Joe Biden, 47th Vice President of the United States

Family, Faith, Father, Husband, Humility, Honesty, Honor, Loyalty, Service, Friendship, Brotherhood, Deal Maker, and Politician

Transcript from Time

OBAMA: I don’t want to embarrass the guy.
Welcome to the White House, everybody. As I have already delivered my farewell address, I will try to be relatively brief. But I just wanted to get some folks together to pay tribute to somebody who’s not only been by my side for the duration of this amazing journey. But somebody who has devoted his entire professional life to service to this country. The best vice president America’s ever had, Mr. Joe Biden.
This also gives the internet one last chance to…
Talk about our bromance.
This has been quite a ride. It was eight and a half years ago that I chose Joe to be my vice president. There has not been a single moment since that time that I have doubted the wisdom of that decision. It was the best possible choice, not just for me but for the American people. This is an extraordinary man, with an extraordinary career in public service. This is somebody the people of Delaware sent to the Senate as quickly as they possibly could.
(LAUGHTER)
Elected at age 29, for more than a dozen years a piece, he served as chair or ranking member of the Judiciary and Foreign Relation Committees. Domestically, he championed landmark legislation to make our communities safer, to protect our women from violence.
Internationally, his wisdom and capacity to build the relationships that shaped our nations response to the fall of the Berlin wall and the Iron Curtain, to counter-terrorism, Iraq, Afghanistan. And for the past eight years, he could not have been a more devoted or effective partner in the progress that we’ve made.
He fought to make college more affordable and revitalized American manufacturing, as the head of our middle-class taskforce. He suited up for Our Cancer Moonshot and giving hope to millions of Americans touched by this disease.
He led our efforts to combat gun violence. And he rooted out any possible misappropriations that might’ve occurred. And as a consequence, the recovery act worked as well as just about any large- scale stimulus project has ever worked in this country. He visited college after college and made friends with Lady Gaga…
(LAUGHTER)
For our It’s On Us campaign against campus sexual assault. And when the pope visited, Joe was even kind enough to let me talk to the holiness, as well.
(LAUGHTER)
Behind the scenes, Joe’s candid honest council has made me a better president and a better commander in chief. From the Situation Room, to our weekly lunches, to our huddles after everybody else has cleared out of the room, he’s been unafraid to give it to me straight, even if we disagree.
In fact, especially, when we disagree. And all of this makes, in my belief, the finest vice president we have ever seen. And I also think he has been a lion of American history.
The best part is, he’s no where close to finished. In the years ahead as a citizen, he will continue to build on that legacy internationally and domestically. He’s got a voice of vision and reason and optimism and love for people and we’re gonna need that — that spirit and that vision as we continue to try to make our world safer and to make sure that everybody’s got a fair shot in this country.
So all told, that’s a pretty remarkable legacy, an amazing career in public service. It is, as Joe once said, “a big deal.”
(LAUGHTER)
(APPLAUSE)
But, we all know that on its own has worked, this list of accomplishments, the amazing resume does not capture the full measure of Joe Biden. I have not mentioned Amtrak yet or aviators.
(LAUGHTER)
Literally.
(LAUGHTER)
Folks don’t just feel like they know Joe, the politician. They feel like they know the person. What makes him laugh, what he believes, what he cares about, where he came from. Pretty much every time he speaks, he treats us to some wisdom from the nuns who taught him in grade school.
(LAUGHTER)
Or an old senate colleague. But, of course, most frequently cited Catherine and Joseph Senior, his mom and dad. No one’s better than you, but you’re better than nobody.
(LAUGHTER)
Bravery resides in every heart, and yours is fierce and clear. When you get knocked down, Joey, get up.
(LAUGHTER)
Get up.
(LAUGHTER)
Get up.
(APPLAUSE)
That’s where he got those broad shoulders. That’s where he got that Biden heart. And through his life, through trial after trial, he has never once forgotten the values and the moral fiber that made him who he is. That’s what steels his faith in God, in America, and in his friends and in all of us. When Joe talks to auto workers whose livelihood he helped save, we hear the son of a man who once knew the pain of having to tell his kids that he lost his job. When Joe talks about hope and opportunity for our children, we hear the father who rode the rails home every night so he could be there to tuck his kids in bed.
When Joe sticks up for the little guy, we hear the young man standing in front of the mirror reciting Yates or Emerson, studying the muscles in his face, determined to vanquish a debilitating stutter. When Joe talks to Gold Star families who have lost a hero, we hear a kindred spirit. Another father of an American veteran, somebody whose faith has been tested and who has been forced to wander through the darkness himself and knows who to lean on to find the light. So, that’s Joe Biden, a resilient and loyal and humble servant. And a patriot, but most of all a family man. It starts with Jill, captain of the vice squad.
(LAUGHTER)
Only the second lady in our history to keep her regular day job.
(APPLAUSE)
Jill says, teaching isn’t what she does, it’s who she is. A few days after Joe and I were inaugurated in 2009, she was back in the classroom teaching. That’s why when our administration worked to strengthen community colleges; we looked to Jill to lead the way. She’s also traveled the world to boost education and empowerment for women, and as a Blue Star mom, her work with Michelle to honor our military families will go down in history as one of the most lasting and powerful efforts of this administration.
Of course, like Joe, Jill’s work is only part of the story. She just seems to walk this earth so lightly, spread her joy so freely. And she reminds us that although we’re in a serious business, we don’t have to take ourselves too seriously. she’s quick with laugh or practical joke; disguising herself as a server at a party she once hosted to liven the mood.
(LAUGHTER)
She once hid in the overhead compartment of Air Force 2 to scare the senior staff.
(LAUGHTER)
Because why not? She seems to have a 6th sense of when to send a note of encouragement to a friend or a staffer, a simple thank you, or a box of macaroons. She is one of the best most genuine people I’ve met not just in politics but my entire life. She is grounded, caring, generous and funny and that is why Joe is proud to introduce himself as Jill Biden’s husband. And to see them together is to see what real love looks like, through thick and thin, good times and bad. It’s an all-American love story. Jill once surprised Joe by painting hearts on his office windows for valentine’s day. And then there are these Biden kids and grand kids, they’re everywhere.
(LAUGHTER)
They’re all good looking. Hunter and Ashley who lived out that family creed of raising good families and looking out for the least of our brothers and sisters. Beau was watching over us with those broad shoulders and mighty heart himself. A man who left a beautiful legacy and inspired an entire nation. Naomi and Finn and Maisy and Natalie and little Hunter, grandchildren who are the light of Joe’s eyes and gives him an excuse to bust out the squirt gun around the pool.
(LAUGHTER)
This is the kind of family that built this country. That’s why my family’s so proud to call ourselves honorary Bidens.
(LAUGHTER)
As Yeats put it, because I had to…
(LAUGHTER)
…quote an Irish poet and Seamus Heaney was taken…
(LAUGHTER)
”Think where man’s glory most begins and ends and say my glory was I had such friends.” Away from the camera, Jill and Michelle have each other’s backs just as much as when they’re out championing our troops. Our girls are close, best friends at school, inviting each other for vacations and sleepovers. Even though our terms are nearly over, one of the greatest gifts of these past eight years are that we’re forever bonded as a family.
But of course I know that the Obamas are not the only ones who feel like they’re part of the Biden clan because Joe’s heart is radiated around this room. You see it in the enduring friendships he’s forged with folks of every stripe and background up on Capitol Hill. You see it in the way that his eyes light up when he finds somebody in a rope line from Scranton (ph).
(LAUGHTER)
Or just the tiniest towns in Delaware. You see it in the incredible loyalty of his staff, the team who knows that family always comes before work because Joe tells them so every day, the team that reflects their boss’s humble service here in this building where there have been no turf wars between our staffs because everybody here has understood that we are all on the same mission and shared the same values.
There’s just been cooperation and camaraderie and that is rare. It’s a testament to Joe and the tone that he set. And finally, you see Joe’s heart in the way he consoles families. Dealing with cancer backstage after an event. When he meets kids fighting through a stutter of their own, he gives them his private phone number and keeps in touch with them long after. To know Joe Biden is to know that love without pretense, service without self-regard, and to live life fully.
As one of his longtime colleagues in the Senate who happened to be a Republican once said, “if you can’t admire Joe Biden as a person, you’ve got a problem. He’s as good a man as God ever created.” So, Joe, for your faith in your fellow Americans, for your love of country, and for your lifetime of service that will endure through the generations, I’d like to ask the military aid to join us on stage.
For the final time as president, I am pleased to award our nation’s highest civilian honor, the presidential Medal of Freedom.
(APPLAUSE)
And – and for – for the first – for the first and only time in my presidency, I will bestow this medal with an additional level of veneration, an honor my three most recent successors reserved for only three others; Pope John Paul II, President Ronald Regan, and General Colin Powell. Ladies and gentlemen, I am proud to award the presidential Medal of Freedom with distinction to my brother, Joseph Robinette Biden Jr. Will the aid please read the citation?
STAFF: Vice President Joseph R. Biden Jr. In a career of public service spanning nearly half a century, Vice President Joseph R. Biden Jr. has left his mark on almost every part of our nation fighting for a stronger middle class, a fairer judicial system, and a smarter foreign policy, providing unyielding support for our troops, combating crime and violence against women, leading our quest to cure cancer, and safeguarding the landmark American Recovery and Reinvestment Act from corruption.
With his charm, candor, unabashed optimism and deep and abiding patriotism, Joe Biden has garnered the respect and esteem of colleagues of both parties and the friendship of people across the nation and around the world. While summoning the strength, faith, and grace to overcome great personal tragedy, this son of Scranton, Claymont and Wilmington has become one of the most consequential vice presidents in American history, an accolade that none the less rests firmly behind his legacy as husband, father, and grandfather.
A grateful nation thanks Vice President Joseph R. Biden Jr. for his lifetime of service on behalf of the United States of America.
(APPLAUSE)
BIDEN: Thank you. Please, please. Thank you. Thank you.
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BIDEN: I had – I had no inkling – I thought we were coming over, Michelle, to – for you, Jill, and Barack and I to – and a couple of the senior staff to – to toast one another. And see what a – what incredible journey it’s been.
Mr. President, you got right the part about my leaning on Jill. But I’ve also leaned on you and a lot of people in this room. I look around the room and I see great friends like – like Ted Coffman (ph) who’s been – has so much wisdom. Guys like Mel Monzack.
I mean, I look around here and I’m startled; I keep seeing people I don’t expect. Madam President, how are you? Mr. President, look at my new boss over there. (Inaudible)
(LAUGHTER)
BIDEN: But you know I get a lot of credit I don’t deserve to state the obvious. And – because I’ve always had somebody to lean on.
From back in that time in 1972 when the accident happened, I leaned on – and I mean this in a literal since. Chris (ph) knows this, God knows this, and Mel knows this, and Ted (ph) knows this.
I leaned on my son’s Beau and Hunter. I continue to lean on Hunter, who continues to, in a bizarre kind of way, raise me. I mean I’ve leaned on them.
And you know, Mr. President, you observed early on that when either one of my boys would walk in the room, they’d walk up and say dad, what can I get you? Dad, what do you need?
And then Joe came along and she (ph) saved our life, she — no man deserves one great love, let alone two. And — and everybody knows here, I am Jill’s husband. Everybody knows that I love her more than she loves me, with good reason.
(LAUGHTER)
And she gave me the most precious gift, the love of my life, the life of my love, my daughter Ashley. I continue to lean on a family. President, you kidded me once.
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And Mr. President, you know that with good reason, there is no power in the vice presidency. Matter of fact, I just did for Nancy Pelosi’s daughters a reading to the constitution that you probably did one for.
And they had me read the provisions relating to the vice presidency and the constitution. And there is no inherent power, no should there be. And Mr. President, you have — you have more than kept your commitment to me by saying that you wanted me to — to help govern.
The president’s line, often other people don’t hear it that often. But when someone would say can you get Joe to do such and such he says I don’t do his schedule, he doesn’t do mine. Every single thing you’ve asked me to do, Mr. President, you have trusted me to do.
And that is a — that’s a remarkable thing. I don’t think, according to the Senior President of Georgetown here, is well I don’t think according to the presidential and vice presidential scholars that kind of relationship has existed, I mean for real. That’s all you, Mr. President. It’s all you, the reason why when you send me around the world, nothing gets — as my mom would say, gets missed between the cup and the lip is because they know when I speak, I speak (inaudible). And it’s been easy Mr. President, because we not only have the same political philosophy and ideology, I tell everybody and I’ve told them from the beginning.
And I’m not saying this to reciprocate. I’ve never known a president and few people I’ve ever met, my whole life, I can count on less than one hand, who’ve had the integrity and the decency and the sense of other people’s needs like you do. I know you’re upset when I told the story about when Hunt and I were worried that Beau would have to that he would, as a matter of honor, decide he had to step down as Attorney General while he was fighting his battle.
Because he had aphasia, he was losing his ability to speak. And you didn’t want ever to be in a position where to him, everything was about duty and honor. And I said and he may resign, I don’t know, I just have a feeling he may and Hunt and I have talked about this.
And I said, he doesn’t have any other income but we’re all right because Hunt’s there and I can sell the house. We’re having a private lunch, like we do once a week and this man got up, came over, grabbed me by the shoulders, and looked me in the eye and said, don’t you sell that house. You love that house. I said, it’s no big deal, Mr. President. He said, I’ll give you the money. I’ll give you the money. Promise me. Promise me, you won’t sell that house.
I remember when Ashley, Mr. President, we were in the oval and Ashley was in the elevator, and the elevator plummeted — she was with a group of people, I forget which building in Philadelphia, it plummeted to the ground. And immediately the service was worried that she may have been badly hurt. And I got up to take the call and you didn’t let up until you made sure your service followed through and made sure everything was all right.
But, you know, Mr. President, you know, we kid about both about marrying up, we both did that kind of thing. But the truth of the matter is — I said this to Michelle last night — Michelle is the finest first lady, in my view, that has ever served in the office. There’s other great first ladies, but I generally mean it.
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Harry Truman was right about the buck stopping at the desk. And I’ve never, never, never, never, never, never once doubted on these life and death decisions. I never once doubted that your judgment was flawed, not once. Not once. We’ve disagreed and argued and we’ve raised our voices at one another. We made a deal we’d be completely open like brothers with one another. But, Mr. President, I’ve watched you under intense fire. I will venture to say that no president in history has had as many novel crises land on his desk in all of history. The civil war was worse, World War II was worse.
But, Mr. President, almost every one of the crisis you faced was a case of first instance. Case of first instance. And I watched that prodigious mind and that heart as big as your head, I’ve watched you – I’ve watched how you’ve acted.
When you see a woman or man under intense pressure, you get a measure – and you know that, Michelle. And your daughters know it as well. This is a remarkable man.
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BIDEN: Jill and I talk about why you were able to develop the way you developed with the heart you have. Michelle and I have talked about it. I’ve confided in Michelle.
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Mr. President, there’s not one single solitary ounce of entitlement in you, or Michelle, or your beautiful daughters. And you girls are incredible. You really are.
That’s not a – that’s not a hyperbole; you really are. Not one ounce of entitlement.
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BIDEN: And you’re so fortunate, both of you, to have found each other because all that grounding, all that that you have, made this guy totally whole. And it’s pretty amazing.
Mr. President, this honor is – isn’t only well beyond what I deserve, but it’s a reflection of the extent and generosity of your spirit. I don’t deserve this, but I know it came from the president’s heart.
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I knew how smart you were, I knew how honorable you were, I knew how decent you were from the couple years we worked in the Senate and I knew what you were capable of. But I never fully expected that you’d occupy the Bidens’ heart from Hunter, Ashley, my sister, all of us. All of us.
And Mr. President, I – I’m indebted to you. I’m indebted to your friendship. I’m indebted to your family and as – I’ll tell you – I’ll end on a humorous note. We’re having lunches and mostly – it’s – whatever’s on either one of our minds. We talk about family an awful lot and about six months in, the president looks at me, said “you know, Joe. You know what surprised me? How we’ve become such good friends.”
(LAUGHTER)
And I said “Surprised you?” But that is candid Obama.
(LAUGHTER)
And it’s real. And Mr. President, you know as long as there’s breath in me, I’ll be there for you, my whole family will be and I know, I know it is reciprocal. I – and I want to thank you all so very, very, very much. All of you. Thank you.
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Add empathy to your life skills

TL;DR - Empathy is the most important skill you can practice. It will lead to greater success personally and professionally and will allow you to become happier the more you practice.
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Why practice empathy?

Why should you explicitly work to enhance your ability to empathize with others?
  • You will be more likely to treat the people you care about the way they wish you would treat them.
  • You will better understand the needs of people around you.
  • You will more clearly understand the perception you create in others with your words and actions.
  • You will understand the unspoken parts of your communication with others.
  • You will better understand the needs of your customers at work.
  • You will have less trouble dealing with interpersonal conflict both at home and at work.
  • You will be able to more accurately predict the actions and reactions of people you interact with.
  • You will learn how to motivate the people around you.
  • You will more effectively convince others of your point of view.
  • You will experience the world in higher resolution as you perceive through not only your perspective but the perspectives of those around you.
  • You will find it easier to deal with the negativity of others if you can better understand their motivations and fears. Lately when I find myself personally struggling with someone, I remind myself to empathize and I immediately calm myself and accept the situation for what it is.
You will be a better leader, a better follower, and most important, a better friend.
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Here are a few ideas on how to practice to develop your empathy.
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thoughtless | Friendship

What exactly is friendship? If one children this question, you get wonderfully simple and honest answers. "A friend is someone who does not lie to me, do not hurt me, which is always with me and always being there for me."

In your life you get to know thousands of people. But only a few of them you will experience the most important stages in your life, you associate it with these events and these events connect you with each other. It is this special feeling between friends, that's just priceless. You understand each other without many words, you can talk for hours about things that only you understand and you would do anything for each other, to help each other. And that is friendship.
It has nothing to do with it, always have the same opinion or never to argue. A good friendship only in this way builds up, that you can tolerate after a dispute again or also tough to say the opinion. Even if you have lost a long time out of sight, it is the secret of friendship that one up right can pick up where you left off. Keeps you this secret, because if you lose it, it can not replace. Take care of the people who can call their friends and let them not lightly go. Because it is a terribly empty feeling when you lack this man ...
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