#also tho – @dotsunflowers on Tumblr

biggest mindfuck is the fact that it can be so so difficult to tell the difference between when it's time for "do it bored/scared/stupid but by jove just do it" and when it's time for "if it sucks hit the bricks"

#uff #yh #text #...#also tho #lmao at all the comments offering 'simple guides'#ik theyre probably trying to be helpful but like...#as if there isn't chronic illness/mental health/trauma/complex situations #etc that remove that type of clarity