Your dream girl exists and she has big grippy love handles
maybe im back. maybe im not. who knows. follow me on bluesky, my handle is the same there.
sorry i haven't been very active on here, tbqh having a larger following has been a bit exhausting for me during what's probably been one of the more stressful years of my life. im not dead and i'll probably come off hiatus eventually. in the meantime i'm taking a bit of a vacation on twitter, which i won't link here but if you find it (i'll give you 3 guesses as to what my @ is) i wont be mad, just be aware that im a little more "filter off" sometimes on there.
my angel girlfriend keeps kicking me cus every time she talks about her halo i do the halo 2 theme at her and it makes her really mad.
"hey baby my halo has been feeling funny do you think i should......can you stop fucking doing that?"
Yeah so anyways, contrary to popular misconceptions and fear mongering spread by bigots, post op trans women's vaginas are amazing actually. 💛
ID: A screenshot from the Reddit post linked, with text reading:
"So I'm going to refute some of the more popular myths about trans women's vaginas by directly describing my own fully healed experience. (I had surgery several years ago using a fairly standard penile inversion technique that used some spare internal mucosa to supplement the vaginal lining. Recovery sucked, but it wasn't that bad.)
- Yes, all the normal parts of vaginal anatomy are present. I have a vulva with clitoris and labia, a vagina, I can pee normally, etc etc etc.
- No, I don't have visible scars. Some of us do, but they're usually not prominent, especially after a few years. Internally, thing must look quite normal too, since I've passed as cis during a pelvic exam with a speculum.
- No, it's not an open wound and it won't heal shut if I don't dilate. It's not a piercing, it's a vagina. I don't dilate at all, and not only do I not lose depth, but I can take a fist if I want
- No, I don't have to wash my vagina out. It has its own flora, so douching would generally be a great way to get an infection; luckily, it cleans itself. Yes, it smells and tastes normal.
- Yes, I have totally normal sensation in my vagina, clitoris, g spot, etc. Yes, I can orgasm. Yes, I can self-lubricate. Yes, I have totally normal vaginal muscles (the vaginal canal transects the pelvic floor muscles, that's why you can grip and do kegels, though my pelvic floor is stronger than most through a lifetime of kegels).
- No, I'm neither immune nor unusually prone to STIs, BV, yeast infections, or UTIs.
- Yes, I can cis pass while having sex. No, I don't pre-disclose before casual sex, though I also tend to meet partners in trans-positive environments.
- Yes, everything feels like it "should"; nothing feels out of place or misaligned, unlike before surgery, and really the only surprise was how unsurprising everything feels.
- No, I don't miss my old equipment at all. I do enjoy wearing a strap on sometimes, but that's pretty common among wlw."
(15/9/24) 0/1150$CAD (~850$USD) remaking the post as it lost all traction & one goal was met <3
tl;dr; I am an unemployed disabled immigrant trans woman. Recently, the government handed me a double fuck you of changing immigration rulings (forcing emergency payments) & with no warning cutting my benefits to 0.
On top of the economy exploding, high unemployment, and being in between visas, finding (legal) work is all but impossible.
What I desperately need right now is help with paying for food, bills, and rent. I have roughly two weeks. Also, worth pointing out that my PR application prohibits us from obtaining any governmental aid.
Any help is greatly appreciated, I have simply ran out of other options. Thank you kindly <3
i think maybe its for the best that 19 year olds just cut that shit out
cheers to my housemates for drawing the gems for me for this comic
Dark tumblr, show me the wholesome then/now anime discourse
in case you're wondering what the greatest AMV of all time is, it's this one from 2008.
pitched the concept of "fireman pinup calendar but make it knights" to my straight friend. she called it "very niche" and I just have to disagree
(ps im literally 10 seconds away from making a 2025 pinup knights calendar I guess??)
I think rich/famous transfems should be super fucking ashamed for not using their status or power to uplift the community. Dylan Mulvaney start a charity or some shit challenge.
You don’t get to speedrun your transition, get your cis card, and peace out.
Remember where you fucking came from.
(Barely has A cups) damn I got big naturals
(Has C cups) im so fucking flat