#acespec – @doctor-aro on Tumblr

doctor-aro reblogged

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doctor-aro reblogged

So anyways stop supporting things that are blatantly arophobic.

Things that claim to include “all” the flags that include the ace flag but exclude the aro flag. (if it excludes both it may be general aphobia or something else)
Things that claim/imply romantic attraction is needed to be human (ex: the common “non-human creature becomes human/human-like after experiencing love” trope)
“Head cannons” made by non-aros that are basically “this person is heartless and doesn’t show any emotion whatsoever, they must be aro!”
Same goes for aromantic characters made by non-aros
Things that exclude aromantic people from the aspec community. (ex: when people say “aspec and arospec” which implies that aros aren’t aspec and need to be tacked on at the end. Or when people say that alloaro people are the “extra part” of the aspec community. Etc.)
Claiming that QPRs can’t involve sex. (this excludes alloaros who want a sexual relationship from using their own term)
The ever classic asexual who posts in the aro tags
Things that imply that all aros are also asexual (using asexual as an umbrella term, etc)

If y’all wanna be good allies then, yes, this is all the things you need to stop doing/supporting.

I see you non-aros doing this shit, I see it and it hurts.

Bi/pan aro/ace solidarity is getting yelled at for headcanoning a character w ur identity even though you’re hurting zero (0) people

This also feels like a thing trans and nonbinary people experience. I’ve seen it a lot. Can enby and trans people join this solidarity circle?

Hell yeah

Enby and trans hcs are so good

Join the solidarity

Here you go:

feel the solidarity