November 101th, 2024

Body image vs. anti fatness

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I think because we talk about body image and fatphobia together so much, we sometimes forget those are separate things; and it is actually exhausting being someone who talks about anti fatness frequently to have those conversations be misunderstood and derailed into being about body image.

When I am talking about systemic anti fatness, I'm not talking about how I feel about my body.

I love my body with the best of them, but I cannot love my body out of employment discrimination or medical discrimination.

I can't love my body into equal pay or equal access to healthcare.

Fat people live in a world that pays us less, charges us more, denies us healthcare, openly ridicules and excludes us, and then tells us the solution is to love our bodies.

But it's not.

The solution is to give fat people access to the same rights, resources, and services that thin people get without question.

The solution is activism and policy change.

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the shame of making a connection irl and them being like omg can i have your insta??? snapchat????? and having to be like sorry i live in a gap between two tree roots youre just going to have to normal text me like some kind of animal

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Since the holiday toy drive post is circulating again, I figured this would also be helpful! Food insecurity is such a massive problem in America, in general, and if you have the means to help feed others, I think you should take that opportunity. Here are some other tips:

1. If you’re planning on donating items from your own pantry, please check the expiration dates on the packaging. Think of your donations as gifts to bestow, not castoffs to be rid of. It’s awful to think of people feeling like they got scraps someone else just didn’t want. Everyone deserves dignity with their meals.

2. If you’d rather give money to a food bank, that’s also great since they buy food in bulk and know what items are most wanted/needed!

3. Not everyone has access to appliances like stoves or microwaves or hot plates so if you can donate items that don’t need to be heated up, that would also be greatly appreciated!

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If you have the means to donate gifts to toy drives or shelters, please keep the above tips in mind so you can help meet people’s wants and needs! 💓

bpd is so embarrassing it’s just being 13 forever

it is what it is [bawling my eyes out]

I will be like "I'm fine" and then another fucking event will occur

My plant shelf looking real nice this morning ✨