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enbycrip

Her name is Valentina Petrillo and she is a visually-impaired sprinter.

Time to support her, because even without the racism element I expect she will be getting some flak from Awful, Awful People.

This is the shit I was talking about when I said that EVERY SINGLE ONE of you who have been posting variations on "yasss girl, go Imane, get her ass" and "She's not a man, also biology is hella complicated and not black & white", had better SHOW THE FUCK UP for Valentina, with the exact same energy and strength.

Valentina is different than Serena Williams, and Caster Semenya, and Imane Khelif.

All four of these people I mentioned are women.

But for Valentina, you can't pull out the argument I heard a lot for the others, especially Caster and Imane. "She's not even trans anyway, they're just using a sexist and racist standard of what womanhood is 'supposed' to look like- see? Transphobia also hurts cis women!"

Because Valentina IS TRANS.

Yes, transphobia absolutely can and does end up hurting cis women. But let's not forget that it always hurts the intended targets more. And the intended targets are trans people.

Valentina IS trans, and y'all better support and affirm her womanhood with your whole chests, and the same ferocity you did for a cis woman.

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pletzelstein

may every trans person on this hellsite find contentment in their identity

may they always have friends that love and support them and may they always find something to appreciate in every day

may they live long and fulfilling lives

may they be happy

may you be happy.

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The study itself is titled, “Long-Term Regret and Satisfaction With Decision Following Gender-Affirming Mastectomy,” and sought to study the rate of regret and satisfaction after 2 years or more following gender affirming top surgery. The study’s results were stunning - in 139 surgery patients, the median regret score was 0/100 and the median satisfaction score was 5/5 with similar means as well. In other words… regret was virtually nonexistent in the study among post-op transgender people. In fact, the regret was so low that many statistical techniques would not even work due to the uniformity of the numbers: In this cross-sectional survey study of participants who underwent gender-affirming mastectomy 2.0 to 23.6 years ago, respondents had a high level of satisfaction with their decision and low rates of decisional regret. The median Satisfaction With Decision score was 5 on a 5-point scale, and the median decisional regret score was 0 on a 100-point scale. This extremely low level of regret and dissatisfaction and lack of variance in scores impeded the ability to determine meaningful associations among these results, clinical outcomes, and demographic information. The numbers are in line with many other studies on satisfaction among transgender people. Detransition rates, for instance, have been pegged at somewhere between 1-3%, with transgender youth seeing very low detransition rates. Surgery regret is in line with at least 27 other studies that show a pooled regret rate of around 1% - compare this to regret rates from things like knee surgery, which can be as high as 30%. Gender affirming care appears to be extremely well tolerated with very low instances of regret when compared to other medically necessary care.

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The intense conservative backlash, to the point of disputing reputable scientific journals, likely stems from the fact that reduced regret rates weaken a central narrative these figures have championed in legal and legislative spaces. Over the past three years, anti-trans entities have showcased political detransitioners, reminiscent of the ex-gay campaigns from the 1990s and 2000s, to argue that regrets over gender transition and detransition are widespread. Some have even asserted detransition rates of up to 80%, a claim that has been broadly debunked. Yet, research consistently struggles to find substantial evidence supporting this narrative. The rarity of detransition and regret is underscored by Florida's inability to enlist a single resident to bear witness against a lawsuit challenging the state's ban on gender-affirming care.
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bathtub-frog

Trans woman Monica Helms designed the Transgender Pride Flag in 1997. The light blue traditionally represents baby boys, and pink represents baby girls. The white in the middle signifies transitioning, or those who have an undefined gender. The way the flag is constructed - blue, pink, white, pink, blue - means that there's no way you can hang the flag "wrong" - Because there's no wrong way to be yourself.

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hptransfest

Prompting for HP Trans Fest is open from today until 15 January!

You can leave a prompt by accessing this link: https://forms.gle/CPEkVVUXkLvRLeN58

Before you do it, here’s a few reminders:

- This fest was created to celebrate trans characters, so we ask that a trans person is the main focus of the prompt you’re submitting; - We use trans is an umbrella term that covers any identity that doesn’t fit with the gender the person was assigned at birth (all non-cis identities), regardless of dysphoria, or the characters wanting to change their bodies surgically. - All ships and all eras welcome, as well as gen fic (no ship); - You can leave as many prompts as you’d like. Leaving prompts doesn’t mean you’ve got to claim one later; - If you would like to participate in the fest as a podficcer, you don’t have to submit a prompt. When Claiming starts, you’ll be able to sign up as a podficcer without a prompt. - This fest deals with mature subjects and the participants are responsible for curating their own experiences within the fest. This applies to viewing the prompts list, which is uncensored; -  Around here, we believe in “don’t like, don’t read”, “YKINMKATO”, “ship and let ship”, which means we will not be tolerating any kinds of kink shaming, ship shaming, harassment, hate speech, or general bigotry.

You can check out the prompts as they’re being sent here:  bit.ly/3GwgJ9L

A sorted list for easier browsing will be released once prompting is done.

If you have any questions, please send us a message here or on our email: [email protected]

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vaspider

Transmedicalism is a plague upon all trans people and it must be stopped.

No, really.

Transmedicalism damages the rights and transitions of all trans people, even those who feel protected by it, and its adherents within the trans community do active damage to every single trans person by continuing to push it.

What is transmedicalism?

Transmedicalism is a belief founded upon the pathologizing white cisgender view of transgender/transsexual* existence.

Transmedicalists believe one or more of the following statements:

  1. Without the experience of the medical phenomenon known as gender dysphoria, a person is not "truly transgender."
  2. If one does not wish to medically transition, or to "fully medically transition", including hormone replacement therapy, name changes, and one or more surgeries, that person is not "truly transgender."
  3. Non-binary identities are not transgender identities.
  4. Cultural identities (such as two-spirit, tumtum, and others) are not transgender identities.

Transmedicalists are also known as transmeds or "truscum," a neologism which means "true transsexual scum." There is an unfortunate amount of overlap between the transmed community and the radfem community, with many transmeds believing that they are not "truly" their proper gender and accepting a second-class status within their gender.

So, starting from the understanding that transmedicalism as it is currently defined requires the belief in at least one of the above statements, why is being a transmed harmful even to people who follow the binary paths laid out by transmedicalism's most ardent adherents?

Transmedicalism allows cisgender doctors to define our experience.

Okay, let me start by saying that I understand that under the current health care system in the United States, a diagnosis is required in order for insurance to pay for medication and/or treatments, rather than treating medical interventions as "optional" or "cosmetic." This is a separate issue, to my mind, to seeing the transmedicalist line carried by the community end. Yes, the medical system is set up currently to see us fail; that doesn't mean that we need to carry that water for them.

The current medical view of transgender life is predicated upon the idea that our existence is based in pain. Basically, goes the cis thinking, every trans person would be cisgender if only we could manage it, but we just can't, because it's too painful. It's not that we're happier when our gender identities are confirmed, it's not that we live fuller and more complete lives, and definitely no one would ever choose our lives, because being trans is a shitty, hard life compared to being cis. Transition is a sort of "lifestyle of last resort."

Trans people are not "failed cisgender people", and that is the mindset which transmedicalism adopts. We are not one of many ways in which humanity expresses itself and what we are isn't a normal and natural way of being, says transmedicalism, but an aberrant way of being whose existence can only be tolerated simply because there is no other choice for us.

Uprooting the transmedicalist mindset means uprooting the mindset that we define ourselves by pain and allowing our community to define itself instead by the whole of our experience, including our pain, yes, but also including our joy. Trans liberation means the opportunity for kids to be raised without fear or shame about their gender, and what then? If we are ever to achieve true trans liberation, we cannot define ourselves solely by our pain, because that would mean that if we remove the societal sources of our pain, trans people would cease to meaningfully exist in that definition.

Transmedicalism as a philosophy therefore creates a trap which means trans existence will always be defined by its pain. And that? Sucks.

Transmedicalism means imposing a harmful "single true path" on all trans people.

If you've been around the trans community for more than 5 seconds, you know that there are uncountable different trans experiences. Transmedicalism, however, reinforces and underlines the "born this way" and "always knew" narratives, excluding those of us who didn't "always know" and those of us with fluid, complicated, or non-binary experiences. This is incredibly screwed up, especially for those of us who grew up before the advent of the modern internet, grew up in extremely conservative households, or simply changed or developed as we grew. Transmedicalism views a trans person as a static thing, one who "always knew" and "always suffered" from gender dysphoria, and that mindset forces a lot of us to lie or tell half-truths in order to receive support or medical treatment.

(read the entire thread, please.)

Even for those of us with binary trans experiences, pushing an idea that one must follow a single path which includes a set number of medical interventions means that a trans person may feel that they must receive these medical interventions -- whether or not they want them -- to be "really trans" or accepted by the community. To be clear, this should not be taken as me saying that the trans community is the source of this mindset or this belief: transmedicalism comes from outside the trans community, imposed upon us by the transphobic medical establishment and transphobic cisgender society, who view themselves as the arbiters of who is 'really trans' or not. If fault is to be laid at the feet of anyone for trans individuals who feel that they must receive medical intervention to be viewed as 'really trans', it must be laid at the feet of medical establishments, individual doctors, school systems, governments and other cisgender authorities who push this medical-intervention-necessary-or-else-not-trans model.

The decision on the appropriateness of any given medical intervention should be a decision made between an individual person, their parents if underage, and their doctor(s), and as with all other questions of bodily autonomy, should not be interfered with by governments, UK Twitter users with 10 accounts and the suffragette flag in their handle, or the writers of derivative wizard-school books.

Like, really, these standards are set up in order to diminish us and to "discourage people" from coming out as trans -- the harder it is to be 'really trans,' goes the thinking, the fewer of us will exist. It is an outright trans-exterminatory model which we really need to stop buying into as a community.

Transmedicalism as a philosophy pushes medical intervention which may not be appropriate or safe for a given individual.

Whether it's someone with Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome for whom top surgery is not advisable, someone in a conservative area who can't live 'out' full-time and can't start hormone therapy, or someone who just isn't ready yet for whatever reason, transmedicalism imposes a script on trans people, and that one-size-fits-all approach simply isn't appropriate for anyone.

Let me repeat: nothing I say is or should be misconstrued as an argument for laws restricting transition by age, for interference in transition by outside forces, or any other such bullshit.

Likewise, even if we're just talking about binary trans people, a given intervention may not be appropriate or desired by a particular person. Transmedicalism pushes all manner of surgeries and medications, pushes the idea that if you don't do this, you're not trans, and that's not only simply not true but diametrically opposed to the truth of trans liberation. Trans liberation means the ability to experiment with gender and presentation, to begin or desist transition without fear, shame, or reprisal from within or without the community, and to recognize and focus on our joy as the central piece of our experience.

When you add in non-binary, genderfluid, and culturally-gendered people to the equation, it becomes glaringly obvious that a one-size-fits-all approach simply doesn't work.

Transmedicalism pushes the idea that desistence is a sign of not being "truly trans," or that transition was a "mistake" rather than a step along the way toward self-understanding.

I've seen this more than once -- someone transitions to a binary gender and then realizes that they're actually non-binary, or begins transition and then finds that they're in an unsafe situation for transition. (The majority of desisters/detransitioners stop transition due to lack of support, and retransition when they have better support or are able to move to a friendlier/safer situation.) Not only then do they have to deal with the incredibly complicated business of retransitioning, they have to then deal with people calling them a 'faker' or 'not really trans' or whatever else. It's not too different from the experiences of people who come out as gay or lesbian only later to realize that they're bisexual or pansexual, to be honest, with the same sort of social backlash.

We've got enough on our plates when it comes to dealing with our lives as trans people without trying to push the idea that desistence means you "were never trans" or "aren't truly trans." We don't need to do that to ourselves, to each other, or to someone who truly did experiment with gender and realize they were transgender. Trans liberation means the ability to experiment with gender is available to everyone, including those who later determine themselves to be cisgender.

Transmedicalism can be really tempting to trans people who do not have a lot of social support or who do not have contact with other, especially older, trans people -- look, it's scientific! look, you can't deny me this because otherwise I will die! -- and for a lot of binary trans people, following that single path of stereotypical medical interventions will not only provide relief from gender dysphoria but serve to give gender euphoria a wonderful garden in which to blossom. However, as a view of the community, it's absolute poison.

What is right for you need not be right for me: we understand this when it comes to other choices that people make with their bodies as a core tenet of feminist philosophy. One person's decision to have an abortion does not mean another person's decision to carry an unintended pregnancy to term is the 'wrong decision' and vice versa. We understand that a woman is not defined by motherhood or by carrying a child; we understand that a child-free life does not reflect poorly on those who choose to carry a child or to become a mother in another fashion. We understand that cis women who are unable to or do not want to carry children are not "unwomen," and that a single life path determined by natal biology and circumstance, imposed on women by the machinery of the cishetalloperipatriarchy, makes no sense. We understand that we do not require the approval of professionals for our plans for our body, and that we alone have -- ro should by all rights have, fuck you, Texas -- the sovereign ability to determine what we want our bodies to do.

Why, then, do we accept a philosophy within our communities which mandates a single defined path for transgender people and a single definition of transgender identity contingent upon approval from an often-hostile medical establishment which views our existence as a "life of last resort"?

Kinda bullshit, honestly.

*Sometimes viewed as outdated, the term transsexual is still used by many older trans people and has been recently reclaimed by some younger trans people. I include it in the name of greatest inclusivity of our community; there's no need for me to be exclusive while talking about how philosophies damage us.

I’ve never subscribed to transmedicalism, it’s always seemed like bullshit to me. And yet. I’ve still managed to internalize some of it about myself. Making me tentatively identify as a non-binary woman, but shy away from the trans label because I’m “not really trans” because I’m not planning to fully transition to masc presentation at this time. And that sucks. I already deal with “not queer enough” feelings because I’m married to a cis man. Having another axis to be “not enough” on SUCKS.

Anyway. Yea, root out this philosophy entirely. It’s only purpose is to separate us and destroy us. Don’t buy into it.

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hptransfest

Posting will start today and go on for the next few weeks. We’ll be posting two or three works a day, according to schedule.

We’re looking at all sorts of pairings & triads, as well as gen fic, podfic, and art, from G to E rating! It’s going to be a fun and diverse fest, with works for all tastes.

Stay tuned for lots of quality content to come! 

Click here to Check us out on AO3!

Or here to Join the Fest’s Discord server, which is open to creators and enthusiasts alike!

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I know I have a moratorium against using my powers as a marginally popular Internet funnyperson for petty reasons but I think I'm allowed to be little a petty as a treat sometimes

You know what to do, ladies

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nonbinarymlm

While we're around... (Link to another poll by the same account asking if men can get pregnant)

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magicaltrans

Fandom and JKR's transphobia

Every week, on the Magical Trans discord server, we have a discussion in the trans-only channels about one topic regarding Harry Potter, fandom life and trans experiences.

This topic of this week's discussion was: Share about how you would like JKR's transphobia handled in the fandom. We talked about it and came up with a list of guidelines for a better fan space:

  • Have an explicit statement about your position on transphobia and JKR if you're an Harry Potter content creator. Staying willfully ignorant is participating in her transphobia and how it affects the fandom. We need an united front against her ideas, intentional measures to show that the Harry Potter fandom isn't in agreement with JKR.
  • Stop buying things that profits to JKR. That means no new official merch (Etsy offers a lot of alternatives), no going to the movies. For legal reasons, we're not telling you to download the new movies but... ahem.
  • Stop trying to command trans people's enjoyment. Telling trans people to stop engaging with fanworks and a fandom that bring them joy and a sense of community is not how you fight against transphobia. Making queer headcanons/content promotes the queer part of HP, not JKR herself.
  • Hype up trans creators and trans content!
  • Make trans content. Write, draw, edit, give us the casual representation we so deeply need! Do not hesitate to ask for a sensitivy reader around. (and tag us when you post, we would love to reblog!)
  • Make trans content outside of @hptransfest! This fest is awesome, wonderful and deeply needed. But it shouldn't be seen as the only occasion to write trans characters!
  • Spend some time thinking about any anti-trans logic that seeped into the book series and ensuring it stays out of fan work. That means no statement of anti-trans rhetoric: don’t assume there are only two genders, no blanket statements pitting men against women.

This is of course the opinion of a singular group of trans fans, not all of them in the fandom. You're welcome to join to participate in the discussions as a trans person or to become a better ally. The server is 18+. Link here!

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