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so, i identify myself as demisexual, but is there still a possibility that i am polyisexual? I mean, I am attracted to multiple genres, but nothing sexual. I just find people beautiful and when it comes to the subject sexual, I just feel comfortable having relationships with whom I have emotional ties. does that make any sense?

Hello! This makes sense actually.

Are you aware of the Split Attraction Model? (SAM)

Some aspec people use it, some don't, but basically it gives you the choice to "split" your romantic and sexual attraction experiences in different terms, for clarity or personal preferences.

You describe being attracted to multiple genders, but not physically,. I'd say you could as polyromantic demisexual, if you feel like it.

Or just poly or demi depending on what you think fits you more!

I hope I could help, feel free to send more questions.

~Mod Ruadhán

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Anonymous asked:

A few months ago I realized I’m Demisexual but I still don’t know if I’m heteroromantic or panromantic bc if i become emotionally attached to a woman or enby then rad but I’ve only been attracted to men so far. I don’t know and it’s frustrating

I have good news for you! Life is an exciting journey that should never be rushed through. It doesn't really matter if you're panromantic or heteroromantic, or anything else. You could be either, or neither, and that's okay! Only you can decide. And the funny thing about life is that people change and evolve, and that's okay too! Maybe you identify as heteroromantic right now, but sometime down the line you fall in love with a nice nonbinary person. Maybe then you'd decide that biromantic, polyromantic, or panromantic fits you better. Personally, I am panromantic, because I always think to myself, "okay, does the gender of a person affect my view of them, and how much I like/dislike them?" The answer is always no. I'm cool with any gender identity, as I fall in love with personality. So there's a little pointer that might help you figure things out for yourself. Good luck!

-Mod Rosie

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Aroflux agender Harry never makes resolutions. Lithsexual polyromantic trans Ginny always makes resolutions. One year, Ginny manages to convince Harry to make a resolution so they can hold each other responsible. Ginny resolves to more calmly deal with the presses assumptions of her identity - not because they deserve it but because she can possibly help show others they aren’t alone and help teach people about new identities. Harry can’t even decide on a resolution, so Ginny assigns him the task of making it home less than an hour after his work day ends at least two times a week, since he always works longer than he’s supposed to.

Ginny sticks to her resolution pretty well (although a certain, gossip columnist may still get jinxed every time she comes near Ginny). Unsurprisingly, Harry doesn’t stick to his as well. (It’s not until they’ve adopted their first child that Harry finally begins working less.)

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