Ways to love yourself more: according to your Venus sign 🐚

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Some recommendations for self-care and self love for you, lovelies. Take what resonates only 🩷.

Aries: express your needs and behaving as you want without damaging someone. Being rude don't take you anywhere, you feel hurt later. Enjoy your mobility more, dance, sports or more. Feel alive, do what makes you happy. Protect your body, now, jump!

Lilith in the 5th house ❤️‍🔥

❤️‍🔥 They like drama. Don't be surprised if they seem theatrical, it's because they are theatrical.

Lilith in the 4th house 💎

Lilith in Cancer can also read it, or Lilith-moon aspects.

⚠️ Read: Mention of cheating, family dynamic and mothers!

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It may vary from your chart to chart. The 7th house tell us why type of relationships we want as long-term. This could be platonic or romantic. The 11th house also depicts what type of friend circle you have or desire too. Your friends type.

Venus- Sun aspects are also quite long-term. People will accept and love you for who you are and viceversa. My friends (bffs), and I have this one.

Mercury- Moon can help you to understand the other person in a more deep way. Since you can talk to them about many things even deep or traumatic situations.

North nodes- aspecting personal planets come to give us lessons, or be a helping hand to reach our goals.

Note: immature sister signs (oppositions) will not be a long-term friends. Besides, houses are also important.

For you, this cancer guy can help you to heal or teach you something. If you are working on your shadow self, he comes to be a helpful hand. However, depending on your lilith house and aspects be aware or careful with him too. The lesson could be different form healing and more regarding boundaries. If you have lilith in the 3rd, 7th, 8th, 11th or 12th be careful with him. Last note, Cancer and Aries don't hate each other. I have seen some debating that's all. I know there are exceptions.

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SYNASTRY: Venus in the houses (7th-12th) part 2

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Part 1 🩷

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With that description, I think this person prefers a very unique connection with their s/o. Those free union or open relationships type can be one type. They are into people who different from beauty standards.

Another aspect, this person doesn't like traditional roles. So, a monogamous relationship without a wedding. This person wants to have a very deep and revolutionary experience with love and commitment. They could help other people. However, with Neptune achieve this may require many illusions aka heartbreaks.

They shouldn't focus on what the other want. This person could be into intellectual people or nerds? A very romantic and delusional individual...that focus on change.

Spouse indicators and commitment:

Juno placement

7th house ruler and sign or plantes if they have

Juno persona chart big three

Jupiter placement

These ones are optional:

Groom asteroid

Groom persona chart (big 3)

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Both aspects are important to see if they could have a healthy and long lasting relationship. Moon indicates how he feels nurture and emotional safe with her. The Venus can indicate that he sees her as his ideal woman (since he's a man), but this could be more physical that emotional; this depends on the Venus position.

Besides, we still need to see the moon's ruler aspects or if they have another issue aside from that. Synastry is a mix of many things, but not having aspects to a planet isn't as bad as it seems. Others placements may intervene or help to solve (x) placement issue. Even the houses, if you have the birth time, can help you to see the bigger picture. For this reason, I can say one or the other is better, since both are important, yet we need to see more.

Reminder: synastry aren't perfect ✨️.

I hope this helps.

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Lilith in the 3rd house 👅⛓️

🗝 Easy way with words and at the same time is an issue. People pleasing tendencies that can be damaging.

🗝 An immature native has the syndrome of "I'm different that you because I say so". This could be due to have many siblings.

🗝 Issues with siblings or neighbors, they could feel less than them.

🗝 They like to gossip about others, but they hate to hear things about them.

🗝 Their tones of voices are nice and powerful, so use them wisely.

🗝 They have distinguished words or phrases. Their voice belong to them.

🗝 Artists with these placements have a way with words, in a creative way. For example, Rosalía and Olivia Rodrigo have creative titles and wording.

🗝 Her personal life is very "gossip worthy" to others. People really like to opinionated about it, look a Olivia Rodrigo's issue with Sabrina and Josh. (Note: that wasn't cool for any of them).

🗝 Ironically, sometimes these natives seem to speak something others don't understand.

🗝 Whenever they are insecure, you may notice it when they try to show "how special they are" from the rest.

🗝 The way they damage themselves is through gossips. If they put bad energy towards others, it would come back to them.

🗝 Some give "pick me vibes" since they force the "I'm different discourse". They cannot stop talking about how special they are 😮‍💨. They want you to see it and say it.

🗝 Some can be very annoying about things. Like whining when thing don't go as they wanted.

🗝 They're very intelligent, but they may not appear like that; they feel frustrated at times.

🗝 They have a sibling rivalry. If they are only child, this may translate to peers or neighbors. The truth is that you don't need to compete with anyone. You are you.

🗝 This Lilith is very vocal; she could be very passive aggressive with other and even herself.

🗝 The type of person that says is joking, but it isn't really joking completely. Regina George's style. Her anger will be masked.

🗝 Her words have power.

🗝 This native tend to have many friends or is part of a big social circle. However, they feel alone at times, but they prefer to be with others than alone.

🗝 They know what to say. It clears to them that people believe whatever they say easily.

🗝 They could be the teacher pet or class clown...you name it. They are known in academic settings anyways.

🗝 An undeveloped native is like Gossip Girl, always talking of others and hiding.

🗝 Journaling is very useful; they may have a black list somewhere 🧐✒️.

🗝 The issue with an undeveloped native is that women would avoid them. Why? Is not because she is better than them? No, it's because they cannot trust her. She would use them when she need to. How? Through gossip or lies. I would not trust my deep secrets to a "friend" like that sorry.

🗝 They give me Regina and Gretchen (mixed) vibes from Mean Girls.

🗝 They my overthink about life or academic, prone to anxiety and stress. Also, don't need to be perfect about your performance (school related).

🗝 Overachiever in some cases. Burnout student syndrome. Perfect grades dilemma. This could extend to workplace.

🗝 This is the type of girl that says one thing and do the other. For example, she may text you she is feeling sad; next, she is in party looking happy. 🧐

🗝 She will try to climb in the social game. So, she will not care if she need to steal your bf for the matter. She doesn't want your bf, she needs him for the status.

🗝 They could very detach with others. Be careful with your words. Sometimes, they lack empathy and compassion.

🗝 Good with words, Lilith is so good at gaslighting and manipulating people, even herself. They see feelings in a logical way.

🗝 Deep down, she just wanna feel valuable for her merits. She wants the attention that they didn't give her when she was a kid.

🗝 Professor or teacher humiliated her in some way. She likes academic matters, so don't ever subestimate her abilities.

🗝 She may downgrade herself in other to fit her role.

🗝 Easy to jump from place a to b, but it's hard to stay and establish herself.

🗝 People will try to seal her work, or they don't give her the credit she deserves. Writers and musicians be careful. You need to protect your work.

🗝 Siblings are a threat from their reputation or admiration. I mean, she is jealous about them for x or h reasons.

🗝 Her social circle can be wishy-washy. She does have inner circle, but she's the only one who knows.

🗝 🔞 she enjoys dirty talk, sexting, quickies, and probably very loud or likes a loud partner. However, don't send nudes. People would expose.

🗝 I was writing and writing, so I believe writing ✍️🏼 could work for you as a way to release stress and intrusive thoughts, bb. Also, you use social media a lot.

🗝 Social media, be aware of what you post.

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Take care, bbs 💓

Astrology notes: synastry edition 🪐💋

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Note: take what resonates. This may not apply to everyone if these notes don't resonate, just scroll. This post applies to romantic and platonic relationships.

🦋 Moon conjuct sun make people see what the other person has in themselves. Both understand the other but also judge them.

🪼 Venus in the 12th house has a veil under them. This in a synastry give "dating vibes" even for platonic friends/ relationships. For romantic ones, gives, they are secretly dating vibes "friends with benefits".

🦋 Mercury and Sun aspects in the same signs make them a very competitive couple lowkey. The sun has masculine energy that the mercurian finds "interesting" or useful.

🪼 North nodes- sun people aspects aren't for long term relationships. The north node person signifies someone who comes and goes; they don't stay too long. This is perfect for "people come and people go" D.O's line in love shot.

🪼 Asc-Venus aspects in synastry always like to compliment the other apperance. They appreciate those "that skirt looks good on you" comments. They got a self-esteem boost and a reminder that the person cares for them.

🪼 Men with their sun sign in your 1st house are perceived by you as hot. This could lead to a night stand or intense chemistry.

🧊 Venus opposition Venus gives very subtle vibes to each other like. There's is always one who is more oblivious to the other. If other aspects interfere, mind games are possible.

🪼 The same element in a placement produces a very similar reaction. You may feel very drawn to that person. For example, A Leo Mars woman will feel attracted to fire sun or venus (aries or sag) men. They have similar fiery traits. This applies to men for their Venus signs. A man with a Libra Venus will find airy personalities very attractive and (bonus points) with an airy rising even more.

🦋 Mars is about motivation, drive, your temper and temperature. Yes, First house goes checked your blood pressure and heart rate. Whenever you get mad, you should listen to your heart 👀, please.

🦋 Don't trust tik tok astrology notes. I just heard someone saying Mars in the 1st likes to work under pressure like for daily work Girl...I'm Mars in the 1st and NO. My heart cannot resist that.

💙 Also, first house mars synastry can be a feisty couple. In public or private 😗, the "I hate you" type, and then they kiss each other.

🦋 12th house-Venus synastry can be very pretty if they decide to go with the flow. Without judging the other, or forcing to be like others (society roles).

🦋 Their venus is in your 12th house, it indicates that they feel loved by you in ways they cannot describe. This sometimes also mean blurry lines. If they don't know your relationships status, communication is useful. Don't let your mind read signs.

🐦 Venus in the 2nd, guess? People likes to buy you things. If someone has their sign in your 2nd house, they will buy you things easily. Also, they can prefer to eat together or show physical love (hugs or hold hands) even for friends. Taurus rules the 2nd house.

🦋 Insecure men with your lilith sign in their Venus (conjuction) will not asking you out. THEY'RE SCARE OF YOU. They believe you will break their heart. If they do ask you out, they are ready to fight the world for you.

🦋 Love doesn't equals obssesion. Pluto in the 8th synastry repeat after me: Love isn't obssesion!

🐦 Men with your Venus sign in their Sun sign will be easy to read. If they will like you, you will see it. They cannot play mind games.

🐳 Dating your 12th house sign especially in the sun or moon, it's something I don't recommend at all. They will make you feel "confused", even if they don't try it.

🪼 Women with Mars in the 1st house make fragile men feel inadequate. You can see those men feeling threatened by these women.

🦋 If he has his Mars in your 1st house, he thinks you're hot . Girl, don't even doubt it.

📫 The venus sign in a man chart depicts his ideal type. However, what he needs could be found in the moon. Good aspects between Moon-Venus: a long-term commitment.

🦋 People in your 5th house feels very flirty with you. So, the tension is there, yes, but don't be too delusional. Flirting doesn't mean a serious deal, just be aware of respect if you are in a relationship.

🪼 🔞 If people have their sun or moon in your 8th house, you will see them as more attractive in a romantic/sexual way. It's highly posible to have sex, even if they're not your type.

🐳 🔞 Water in the 8th house in a person's chart indicates "emotions + pleasure". Usually women like to be dominated. Men prefer to dominate. Both prefer dynamic partners with a good aftercare.

🦋 🔞Men with water in the 8th house like to have sex in beaches, in the bathroom and when things gets emotional. Angry sex too.

🦋 Conjuntion and trines have good things, but we cannot ignore the bad things. For example, moon conjunct moon; good things, you understand each other; bad things, you may become twins (for good or bad), too comfortable in the relationship, forgetting romance and passion.

🦋 Sun signs are important to considered if they don't match your Jupiter sign. It could indicate possible obstacles in your marriage.

🪼 Friendly reminder, a perfect synastry doesn't equal a perfect relationship. Please, if the person doesn't respect you, leave them. Not matter how perfect is the synastry in paper.

Take care, lovelies 💚😘.

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It's humor; let's laugh 😃!

My scorpio sun in the 3rd house:

My moon in Pisces in the 8th house trying to fix things:

Mars in Leo in the 1st house trying to motivate me:

Venus in Virgo in the 2nd house and self-care!

My mercury 3rd explaining things to others and always thinking in the possibilities:

Take care, babes! It's okay, all charts have some complications. 🪐💁🏼‍♀️💚

VENUS RETROGRADE IS OFFICIALLY OVER!

Common give yourself a hug, you try your best! I'm proud of you👏🏼 🫂🩷

Hello, love ❤️

Important lessons about your relationships and contracts. I really recommend you to READ CAREFULLY especially contracts and commitments of any kind, read that again. Be careful of idealism someone because it can be karmic. Positively, your intuition will be higher and high chance to solve any issue with your feminine energy or feminine in your family. Idk why but maybe you can reconcile with your mother or a female figure. Again, don't be desilutional about things. Don't be a mother to any potential partner; love involves two. That's it.

Take care 🤺💚

Have you heard the term sister signs in astrology? Probably yes!

Whenever you see an opposition between planets, try to see their similarities and not their differences. By doing that, you can create a better relationship for your placements.

Let's see their similarities:

Aries ❤️‍🔥 - Libra 💖

Both have a set of values they follow by heart. Both are very active and straightforward in their relationships. Love is everything or nothing at all. Their "me" first energy if they are immature. Also, they have an aura of innocence surrounding them. They can be naive.

Taurus 🍴 - Scorpio 🔪

As we associate laziness with Taurus, Scorpions procrastinate. Both hold grudges. Both love human pleasures. Both are stubborn; both can search for revenge indirectly. They work hard for what they want, with different methods same perspective win.

Geminis 📝- Sagittarius 👩🏼‍🏫

Geminis are everywhere, and the same for the adventurous Sagittarius. Both love to learn about many things and yet commitment is not easy for them. They are always moving. They are always changing their mind.

Cancer 🤱🏽- Capricorn 👨🏽‍🍼

Both are like parents; they pressure themselves way too hard. The leader of assignments. Family and traditions are way too important. Relationships are all or nothing. Very strict person, Cancer with traditions and Capricorn with goals.

Leo 💅🏼- Aquarius 🦾

They prefer to trust their own sense to say "I'm sorry, you are right". Not so good with the idea of following others. They prefer to voice their opinions. They can have big egos or/and big hearts. Either know how to attract others or how to avoid them.

Virgo 🎯 - Pisces 🧿

Both like to have constant distractions from their fears. They are either in everything or nothing at all. Love falls into their own destruction. They can be so organized or the most disorganized person ever. They know and also don't know about things.

Take care!

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