selfshippers;

don't feel bad if you "haven't done much" with your life. don't feel bad if you don't wanna go to college or a trade school or are nervous about getting a job.

don't feel bad if there are things stopping you from doing all of that. your f/o wants you to know you're doin alright. and, I'm sure, at least to some extent, they may have felt the same way at some point. imagine how they felt if they ever had to figure out if they wanted to go to college, what they would go for, what they would do with their life now that they have the option.

and if you're thinking right now "yea but my f/o has accomplished so much in comparison to me" I'm sure they think the same about you.

sometimes living is enough. and that's okay.