npd culture is having low patience for other people's issues. whiny ass little shits.
NPD culture is having had moments of “i dont go out and around spreading my trauma and insecurities for everyone to see—like a lot of other people my age are doing— so im better than them and way more mature and am sooo appreciated and seen as cool and mysterious for that.”
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just edited a fandom page to be less offensive. from "narcissistic" to egotistical. even if the character is a narcissist, please just say that they have an ego/are egotistical, are confident, charming, etc.
npd culture is "yeah im working on it" whenever i mention a symptom (im not actually working on it)
npd culture is being mad as fuuck when yoir friends dont automatically understand your boundaries that you never actually communicated about or like. told them about at all. lol.
npd culture is why do all these fictional characters get to be mean and imperfect and quick to snap at people for no good reason and they still have their loved ones stick by their side through it all? Why can't I have that?
I asked a friend who is a sociopath (diagnosed with ASPD, he refers to himself as a sociopath which is why I’m calling him that) what love feels like to him and how he knows when he loves someone.
I loved his answer. He said “Routine. If they are a part of my routine and feel familiar and comfortable and I would feel like something is missing if they weren’t there, then I think I love them.”
I have bpd with ASPD traits and I think his answer was so cute. I think that is what love is like for me too but I’ve never heard it so succinctly explained, perfect summarization.
That’s what it feels like to me too with npd! I love this description
NPD abuse advocates: Narcs are evil. They're fucked up. They want to destroy you and turn you into a soulless puppet to fuel their infinite hunger.
Me, a narc: Awhile ago I got the impression I may have possibly mildly irritated a really close friend and it haunts me periodically, popping up in the back of my head to remind me that in that moment I ruined my life forever by dragging their perception of me down a percent of a percent for the three seconds it continued to live in their head before they most certainly forgot about it. I could ask for reassurance but it was so minor and the paranoid fantasy I've constructed so convoluted that it would just be even more mortifying to have to bother them with it.
pov you have NPD
n/bpd culture is seeing a person with bpd saying ableist shit abt people with npd like THATS UR SIBLING 😭😭😭
npd culture is fantasizing about ur trauma being worse to make urself more valid. like yes I was neglected and other shit but thats not bad enough what if I also got kidnapped and saw my friend die. that'd make me more interesting right
cluster b culture is seeing so many resources for supporting people with mood disorders and how to live with mood disorders, but just seeing a whole load of “ditch your sociopath/narcissist friends immediately before they hurt you (because all they want is to hurt you)” bullshit when trying to learn more about what personality disorders look like outside “evil manipulative abusive criminal”
npd culture is seeing idiots go "tHis abusive character is definitely a narcissistic abuser!!! he's totally a psychopath!!!" and the guy is just a neurotypical cis man behaving like toxic neurotypical cis men do. makes me want to taser their brains to jumpstart them into thinking critically
npd culture is masking so hard that you come off as a pushover... on PURPOSE.
npd culture is feeling above people constantly and having thoughts that are extremely hostile but deciding be nice anyway; because it gives you more supply on a consistent basis, makes you feel like a better person and it simply wouldn't make sense to be an asshole most of the time. plus, i have an image to uphold. i haven't been unkind in a long long long while, it feels better this way -❤️🩹🐈⬛
Npd culture is getting distracted admiring myself every time I pass a mirror. I'm a stereotype, but I'm a gorgeous one.
- 🌧️hydra
me after i give somebody a compliment but they don't compliment me back so now i have to kill them with a gun