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When Someone Says “Have You Tried Paracetamol?”...
How we feel when we find out we can actually lift 1lb
[GIF of Lou Ferrigno as The Hulk (a tall, fit man, painted green with no shirt and cut-off jeans) looking down and flexing / screaming.]
Most college students spend their weekends partying and hanging out with friends. I spend my weekends recovering from going to classes for five days.
Dear chronic illnesses,
If I’m gonna wake up in a pool of sweat every night now and I’m not quite 30, can I at least stop getting my period too? I mean it only seems fair.
Spoonie Poem
Symptom 1 and Symptom 2,
This one’s old, that one’s new.
I thought my body was mine to rule
But it looks like I’m again the fool.
One thing goes wrong after another,
And I’m left attached, feeling smothered.
Brought to my knees again tonight,
Crying, aching, giving up the fight.
If I could sleep it might improve,
But late at night I cannot snooze.
Spoonie life is hard to take,
I may bend but I’ll…
Hi there all my lovely spoonies! Last night, my bestfriend send me this picture. Someone from buzzfeed has made an article of us spoonies! Me and my bestfriend were so happy when we saw this, because this writer included one of my posts in it and instantly made me gain alot of new spoonies (supporters)! Thank you guys, and don't forget to take a look on buzzfeed. The link is down below! https://www.buzzfeed.com/ailbhemalone/posts-about-having-an-invisible-illness-that-will-make-you-l?utm_term=.wcMGNMz9q4#.nsDkNq1v32
Something I wish my friends would be aware of when we're out...
When I’m out with you… I may look and act like this:
But inwardly I’m like this:
(because sometimes I don’t want to be the ‘ill’ person. I just want to pretend to be happy and ‘normal’)
Things people newly diagnosed with chronic illnesses should know
Symptoms fluctuate
Bad days don’t last forever
Good days don’t mean you’re faking
If you think your doctor is wrong, you have the right to say so
Likewise, if you think your doctor is ignoring you, you have the right to say so and demand a new doctor
Don’t be afraid of mobility aids
You don’t have to answer strangers’ questions
Your life isn’t over
Some people might leave. They don’t matter.
The people who support you are great
You are allowed to complain
You’re not worthless
You’re loved and supported even if it doesn’t always feel like it
You are not alone
Also, it’s okay to have trouble accepting any of these things, and your feelings are ALWAYS valid.
It’s a never ending grieving process. You go through all the stages time and time again. And that’s normal.
When you have dysautonomia and you don't see any chairs in a room
gosh this made me laugh super hard. #TheStuggleIsReal
I am new to tumbler but I’ve decided that this is a perfect opportunity for me to interact with others just like me. Wish me luck!
A Classic Spoonie Verbal Transaction
“what it’s really like to be chronically ill” by Lauren Anne (via cinensis)
Fibromyalgia is
Fighting the urge to fall asleep all day, and then when it is actually time to sleep, you are not able to (due to too much pain/symptoms or suddenly being the most alert you have all day).