aditi⭑

Character is not something that you do when someone else is looking, analysing or just being there with you. It's what you would rather do irrespective of someone's presence or absence.

-ig@/sadiahakim

I could never put, one of the most dominant things on my mind, into words but I found this today and this is exactly what I've been looking for:

"Just because you can resist the devil doesn't mean you should hang out with them. If you don't want temptation to follow you, don't act like you're interested. It's much easier to avoid temptation than it is to resist it."

via ig@/jakepaulturner

'L'amour de ma vie' by Billie Eilish has me like:

I prefer rejection over confusion.

Reject me loud and clear, so I can know where I stand. It won't decrease my self-love or worth, I've been alive long enough by now to know I love me for sure. I vibe with me. I promise you won't ever see me taking anything personally, I haven't given anyone the authority to shake the foundations of my love for myself. It's always good here bub:)

You may leave, respectfully.

We are responsible for our choices.

But we also need to acknowledge the realistic limitations of our options. That's not an excuse. That's reality.

Maybe we can ease up on ourselves for going with the less shitty of the shittiest choices we had.

And this is for the survivors not for the abusers to make excuses for their actions when they clearly knew better!!

Behind every healed girl,