I don't see many people claiming that JD is an innocent baby, people mostly acknowledge that he has his issues. The kitchen thing tho? It's not the healthiest way to deal with anger and other feelings, but it's good that he doesn't unload it on people. I used to cut myself, and tbh. I wish I smashed few things rather than scar myself ;) I'm yet to see an AH fan acknowledge she's done some vile things to other people (for example, ex. girlfriends and friends).
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Yeah, I agree that he most likely still has a conscience when it comes to actions toward women. I don't believe he did all the terrible things that she claimed. And I also agree that smashing furniture is a better way of letting out anger than letting it out on people. I also know what big anger feels like and I have learnt ways of dealing with it other than hurting others (verbally) and you're right, we also have to learn not to hurt ourselves physically and emotionally. So Johnny smashing cabinets is not my main issue even though I would say, he needs a better outlet in general for his emotions but emotions are not a bad thing. He just really needs better help.
I just commented on a post about the stuff surrounding Johnny that I find very concerning and I don't like that the public discussion somehow doesn't acknowledge this in order to put things in a more truthful context.
And yes, I also agree, the supporters of Amber Heard usually have a very one-dimensional vision, they see in her the helpless victim of domestic abuse and that is somehow undisputed. I find that very strange and also dangerous. After all we've seen in court it should be abundantly clear that she is an abuser.
I would just say, to close this topic now, in my experience it is especially easy and convenient to hide your own dysfunction and insanity behind someone who is even crazier and more insane than that.