I hate how the trope "enemies to lovers" has been so twisted by fandom and their overall romantization of abusive couples - because now they claim that trope for every couple were assault or some kind of violence is involved. Enemies to lovers isn’t "I felt in love with the rapist, groomer, mass murderer that threatened to kill my family and [actually did it]" that’s just insulting to actual "enemies to lovers" couples.
"Enemies to lovers" is when the characters are on opposite sides of ideas or world views that create in them discussions or distaste for one another - but then by being thrown into similar circumstances or the same circle of friends or occurrences they start to understand and develop mutual respect for each other that later can grow into love and a good relationship.
Please, don’t get it twisted. Stop putting obvious abusive relationships (usually involving abuser x victim power dynamic) into some trope that suggest otherwise - it paints those relationships as something that it isn’t.