you know when you have like a platonic crush on someone? like you think about them a lot, you always think 'they would like this' or 'that reminds me of them' and you want to talk to them all the time. you get withdrawals basically when you can't. like it sounds like how people describe a crush. but you don't necessarily want to kiss them or anything. you just want to love them and watch movie marathons, hold hands sometimes, share a blanket, talk about them with all your other friends, get a cat, and bake cookies together. and have a certain level of commitment there, like you know they are the only ones you go to that level with. you can have other friends but not to that amount, or intensity or whatever. just someone to share things with. maybe you look like you're dating from the outside but between the two of you, you just know them. who they are.

I promise you, relationship anarchy is a good thing. Tell your friends you love them. Go on dates. Domme them. Take them to weddings. Have a relationship with the sub from the dungeon where she does your taxes or you mow his lawn. Help your neighbor plant begonias and become their honorary granddaughter. Become friends with your partner’s partners. Cuddle with your book club and talk about Polysecure or something, idk.

I don’t care. Just stop expecting every relationship to follow a specific pattern and instead find the beauty you both want in your specific relationship with that other person.

Life is more than the nuclear family and strict pseudo-Christian mythological ideals.

No more forcing friendships or relationships. It flows or it goes.

“And I swear I’m never gonna lose me again” (Happiness - Little Mix)

“Suponiendo que en la gente la belleza es natural. Pues belleza es la palabra que aun no logro concretar”

“And while I know, based on my track record, I might not seem like the safest bet. All I’m asking you is don’t write me off, just yet”

Lexie trying to be sexy LOL (Also I took like 20 pics with that look, and I plan to post all of them because why not)

“If a rose is full of thorns, it does not mean it’s not full of beauty.”

Lexie in goddess form and she even has a crown  🖤😍

Since when did we start letting the expectations others place on us make us feel guilty? By nature, humans aren't perfect. We're inherently imperfect — and that's OK. When you start to feel weighed down by pressure from everyone around you, breathe and reboot.

I hate when people say you can’t love anyone else or being in a relationship or even have real friends if you dont “love yourself”. Sometimes people can help you to do that, they can help you see the beauty you don’t see, they can help you to be better. That’s what friends or a partner are for.

“All my life I dreamed of having someone think I was beautiful.”

Some of the most beautiful things worth having in your life come wrapped in a crown of thorns.

She wears strength and darkness equally well, the girl has always been half goddess, half hell

“friendship is not less than romance” is equally as true as “romance is not less than friendship” but some of y’all are not ready for that conversation

It’s important to value friendships but if you treat your romantic partners like second-class friends, you’re not going to have them for very long

“To be beautiful means to be yourself”.

“She is an angel with a devilish kiss”.

You're gonna miss me when I'm gone.

Gone! Noooo

Lexie...I miss you