criminal-sen reblogged
whenever people say shit like “i couldn’t be polyamorous, i’m so jealous and possessive. if my partner even LOOKS at another girl/guy i’m gonna kick them out of a window” i’m like well you should probably be working on that. like even if you don’t end up doing polyamory it’s probably good to not be like that
#like i at least understand why it's a romance novel trope even tho it's very much not my thing#but irl it's like. oh cool u are at best a bitchy and annoying partner#and at worst abusive:)#and it's funny how this bragging is tolerated and even condoned in women like 'yah u gotta keep him on a short leash'#but in the most unsexy way possible (theres no leash just an increasingly rocky relationship)#whereas men.. well they sure as shit act like that in my experience (im being v binary cuz im talking about cishet relationship)#im sure they still brag they just make sure to keep it between their guy friends:/#bros before hoes bullshit