𝐅𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐧𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐱𝐢𝐞𝐭𝐲.. ☁︎︎

Remember to breathe. You are safe right now, in this moment. We might have to wait a bit. This is very stressful right now, but it will pass. This anxiety will lessen with time. Drink some water, make sure to eat dinner tonight.

Treat yourselves kindly. Elections can bring lots of anxieties and fears, so be gentle with yourself ♡︎.

𝐓𝐨 𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞𝐬.. 🜚

-> It’s okay to be sad a lot of or most of the time.

-> You aren’t bumming anyone out by not being able to fake happiness.

-> It’s okay to frequently need support, comfort and care.

-> It’s okay if you need to be taken care of more or regress more frequently to cope.

-> You deserve friends who support you, even when you can’t pretend to be in a good mood.

-> Doing what’s healthiest for you should always come first.

-> You’re worthy of soft, gentle care to get you through this time.

-> You are loved, valued, and cared for. This burden won’t last forever.

☁︎︎

𝐁𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐲, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧’𝐭 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐟𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐧𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐛𝐲 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞.

I think as a society, we’ve decided that somehow appearance equals your worth. We place so much value on it. As if being unattractive or not fitting into beauty standards is somehow, some type of failure on your part.

It’s not. It’s okay to not be good looking. It doesn’t make you a bad person, or any less worthy. It shouldn’t be deemed a “bad quality”.

It’s just your face. It’s just your body. It’s just you. And that’s okay.

𝐖𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐫… ☁︎︎

Is that a drawing you made? Wow, little one! It’s amazing. I really do have the most talented little baby, don’t I? And you used all your different crayons? That’s so cool, sugar! I can’t believe I got so lucky to have such a little artist for a tiny one, hm?

We certainly have to put this on the fridge, don’t we honey? It’s okay, you can hold baba’s hand while we walk to the fridge. Do you want to pick where to put it? Perfect! Now everyone can see what a talented little one baba has. ♡︎

𝐎𝐡 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐚 𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐲 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐧𝐨𝐰.. ♡︎

Just imagining having a small baby sitting in my lap, a stuffed animal close in their arms and all their toys surrounding us. Their favorite movie would play on the television, and I’d help them eat their favorite snack.

Maybe they’d even color me a picture, and I could tell them how proud I was and hang it on the fridge to show off just how good of a little artist they are.

Giving lots and lots of love to the sweetest baby ever! ( ´ ▽ ` ).｡ｏ♡

𝐈𝐭’𝐬 𝐨𝐤 𝐭𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬.

It’s okay if you need lots of reassurance from your caregiver or your friends. It’s okay if you need help and reminders to get basic tasks done during the day. It’s okay if you need a lot of attention. It’s okay if you need things that may seem “small” or “unimportant” to others.

Your needs matter. Even if they seem silly, tiny, or insignificant. You aren’t annoying or too much for asking for support, you deserve that support. Don’t let anyone else tell you otherwise.

𝐋𝐨𝐨𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐬!

*I’m seventeen and turn eighteen soonish, so please make sure you’re 16 or older before reaching out.

I made a couple pals when this blog was a bit newer, but we all (for the most part) sort of fell out of contact- so I’ve been missing having some buddies with agere in common! While I am just a caretaker, I still would love to make some friends in the community!

If you’re looking for a buddy to chat with and get to know, reach out to me or comment! (≧◡≦)

I’m so funny and amazing haha (be my friend)

𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐫𝐞𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧.

Everyone’s regression is unique and different! It’s not going to look one way or another, and that’s okay. People are different. There isn’t one way to do it. And just because it isn’t your way, doesn’t mean it’s okay to pass judgment.

Additionally, this doesn’t mean you have to understand it. Maybe you don’t understand why someone is regressed but interacting with “adult” interests. Maybe you don’t get why someone’s regression is something that’s just solely a happy space for them. Maybe you don’t get why someone’s regression is always impure. Maybe you see a regressor who smokes or curses or acts “adult like”.

Wonderful thing is, you don’t have to understand! And it isn’t your place to try to figure out, and especially not while making it the other persons problem. The next time you find yourself wanting to make a comment, or send an anonymous ask, or be obnoxious in general, pause.

Does this affect you in any way shape or form? No? Then you’re in the clear! Stop using misunderstanding to just be straight up rude.

𝐈𝐭’𝐬 𝐨𝐤𝐚𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞.

Like, it really is okay. It’s okay to be “behind”. Sometimes we struggle, and we fall behind. That doesn’t take away from your worth. It doesn’t take away for your usefulness. No one person’s timeline is going to look just like the others, and that’s alright.

It’s okay if you’re an adult and you don’t have a job yet. It’s okay if you’re still figuring out how to navigate your future. It’s okay if you weren’t able to finish your education. It’s okay if you’re struggling to just find out how to be an adult in the world.

Being a functioning adult is difficult and hard- figuring out stuff in general is! You’re allowed to do it on your own time. It doesn’t make you a failure. You will get there eventually. You got this.

𝐉𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐳𝐞𝐝 𝐈 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝟒𝟎𝟎 𝐟𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐬!

Thank all of you pals so much! I absolutely adore this blog and seeing the interactions I get, the anons I chat with, the friends I’ve made, and just knowing I’m active in the community!

You all are absolutely incredible, and I am so thankful to have 400 friends that I get to share my content with ♡´･ᴗ･`♡

Not sure what else to say except thank you friends, and keep being amazing! ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ

𝐁𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐨 𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐞.

SFW INTERACTIONS ONLY.

Taking care of a person who’s so special, getting to dot on them and give them gentle love that they deserve! It feels so healing to give that care.

Being silly and sweet as well. Hearing about interests, their day, what they’re up to.

Just having that person who I get to take care of and knowing that they have that trust in me. It’s the best feeling, and I don’t even know how to describe it.

𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫.

You really do. In all the different ways of life, in every aspect you can think of. You make a difference and hold value to those around you. Your existence has a meaning and you have inherent worth.

Your emotions are valid. It’s okay to hurt, angry, enraged, sad. It’s all okay. Those emotions matter. Feeling them matters. Talking about it matters. Validation of them matters.

Sometimes, when we feel low, we can convince ourselves that what we’re feeling is irrelevant. That we’re irrelevant. But this isn’t true. You are releveant and worthwhile.

People hold love for you- and if you can’t see that right now, then acknowledge that I hold love for you.

You’re not greedy or too much if you need caregiving most of even all of the time. You aren’t greedy or too much if you’re a permanent regressor, or almost always regressed.

You are still absolutely worthy of a caregiver who can meet your needs. You aren’t a burden, and you absolutely do not need to feel guilty for needing that care and support most or all of the time.

There isn’t anything bad or selfish about it. You’re allowed to need that care.

This is your daily reminders that regressors can also do adult things. Being an age regressor doesn’t take away from being a grown up who does grown up things. And also, some regressors do not want to be talked down to or infantilized when they’re not small, and that’s entirely okay. 

(Of course this can vary regressor to regressor, and that’s perfectly fine too! Just thought it was an important message to put out there.)

𝐀𝐍 𝐈𝐌𝐏𝐎𝐑𝐓𝐀𝐍𝐓 𝐌𝐄𝐒𝐒𝐀𝐆𝐄 𝐓𝐎 𝐑𝐄𝐆𝐑𝐄𝐒𝐒𝐎𝐑𝐒- ✫彡

You do not ever need to feel pressured into caregiving for someone. Just because you’re in the age regression community does not mean you are obligated to caretake or babysit! Yes, this includes for other friends and even your own caregiver.

Additionally, you don’t have to explain your own boundaries or comfort levels.

Your boundaries are important and deserve respect!

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Stop saying weed doesn’t belong in agere!

It’s okay if you don’t like weed. You don’t need to. But weed can be a major help in many littles regression. It can be prescribed to manage physical pain from chronic illnesses, or cope with anxiety or depression.

Stoner littles are very much a thing, and it’s invalidating to act as if weed and regression can’t go hand in hand. 🍃

-> I do want to say that while it is completely okay to set your own boundaries, don’t use that as an excuse to be a mean or dismissive or rude about someone else’s usage.