what super expensive indulgence would u get for urself if u suddenly came into a bunch of money?? assume all bills/mortgages paid, all friends helped: what treat are u buying just for u?? for me it would be a quilted lambskin chanel bag in iridescent pink
does anyone wanna hold hands until we feel a little braver
the reblog map is all of us holding hands btw
We are each other's night sky. No one is alone here.
Nincada line appreciation post
my kid keeps saying shit like i love you momy we'll always be together and i just know i am going to die for narrative reasons soon
idk thinking about how sometimes you have to show up for people you aren't that close to, because sometimes you're just the person who's there. sometimes you invite a new friend to a party and end up having to sit with them through a panic attack. sometimes you run into an acquaintance on their worst day and they need to talk about what happened. sometimes someone is crying in a stairwell and you're the only one around to ask if they're okay. and none of this is "trauma dumping" or whatever the fuck it's just being there for people because you're the one in the room with them.
The more resolved your own traumas become, the more full your own life, the more stable your relationships, the less you will feel unbalanced by the needs of others, the more you will be able to turn to a stranger in a crisis and be the unexpected grace that helps them survive the moment they're in.
does anyone else remember when peoples talking point against asexuality being a queer identity was to make up a cisgender heterosexual but aromantic man who wanted to get in to all the lgbt society meetings or was that just an embarrassing thing people i knew did
the question was always "do you really think that guy should be allowed in" and it was like.... first off you made him up to get mad at for some reason. second off yeah he can come in if he wants. hes aromantic of course he can. other stuff doesnt matter to me. what are you a cop. why are you policing peoples identities so hard
Even if someone totally straight and cisgender decides to start sitting around the queer folk and hanging out... literally how is this a bad and terrible thing? Maybe they're questioning. Maybe someone they love just came out and they're trying to learn more. Maybe they're lonely and saw a group of objectively cool people and sat down with them. Who even fucking cares.
So what if they sit in on a meeting about people discussing what life is like being queer. You know what happens when they do? They learn about what life is like for queer folk. How exactly is this a bad thing? How? What is being damaged here?
Dungeon meshi is about taking care of yourself physically so you can be fucking insane at full capacity
New Release: Princess Chronicle [-Black And Red 4.0-] Gothic Lolita Ouji Lolita Vest, Blouse and Shorts
The namazu are one of the best things to happen to FFXIV
losing my mind at this amazing story from r/dndmemes some people’s dnd adventures are just. So Fucking Cool
THE FUCKING REVEAL AT THE END LIKE THIS GUY IS LEGIT LIKE
THATS MY WIFE AND I LOVE HER
@noonesgaylikegatson your post has not left my mind since you made it. I see it everywhere.