People should stop telling men to “man up”, it’s very unhealthy and dangerous to men to be told that (also it could be classed as a form of bullying), it makes men bottle up and not express how we are feeling, it’s ok to show you are emotional, it’s ok not to be ok, it’s ok to talk about your feelings
this is so important fact that needs to be addressed boys/guys/men have same problems as females do the only difference is that guys don’t talk about it or are afraid to, because of the fear of what people will think of them
Guys: it’s ok not to be ok, if you have a problem you need to talk about it, don’t keep it to yourself, seek emotional counselling if you need to or talk someone you know and trust.
- if you are feeling suicidal you need to talk to someone seek emotional counselling, or check out the suicide prevention services and charities in your area
- Bulling should not have happened to you and you need to tell someone about it
- if you have been abused or raped you have to go to the police and report it, it does not matter what gender did it to you, a crime has been done to you and it should not have happened to you
Girls: support your guy, whether it be your boyfriend, husband or son, give them space for them to talk to you about things bothering them.
If you are hitting, emotional blackmailing, bullying or abusing your boyfriend or husband stop it
This is so important fact that needs to be addressed boys/guys/men have same problems as females do the only difference is that guys don’t talk about it or are afraid to, because of the fear of what people will think of them.
People should stop telling men to “man up”, it’s very unhealthy and dangerous to men to be told that (also it could be classed as a form of bullying), it makes men bottle up and not express how we are feeling, it’s ok to show you are emotional, it’s ok not to be ok, it’s ok to talk about your feelings.
Guys: it’s ok not to be ok, if you have a problem you need to talk about it, don’t keep it to yourself, seek emotional counselling if you need to or talk someone you know and trust.