i wanna die with somebody

i wanna feel the hate with somebody

yea i wanna die with somebody

with somebody who loathes me

no children by the mountain goats

i know y’all don’t want to hear this but coping mechanisms aren’t inherently healthy and just because it helps you in the moment doesn’t mean it won’t hurt you in the long run

when people tell you your coping mechanism is unhealthy they aren’t trying to police you or tell you what to do, they’re pointing out that you are hurting yourself and possibly hurting others and that you should find better ways to work through your trauma to have a better outcome in life

the idea of a birth control pill implies that women must be available sexually to all men at all times from progressively younger ages

but hey it’s at least women choosing to wreck their bodies for coomers who will treat them as disposable pieces of flesh so it’s empowering I guess

The idea that any pill or medication’s existence “implies” that women “must” make certain choices or are somehow worth less for doing so is akin to saying we should all be crack whores because that’s the implication of cocaine. 

Birth control pills are a lot more than a contraceptive. They regulate periods, reduce the severity of flow and cramps (which is absolutely horrible for some women), and they can potentially lower the risk of anemia. They also can be highly beneficial to women with hormone imbalances and help alleviate symptoms of severe depression. On a surface level, it reduces if not rids you of acne.

There are potential side effects to the birth control pill. There are side effects to Tylenol. Medical professionals who are actually qualified to make that decision can prescribe them for a patient and she can choose whether or not she takes it, stays on it, and if she does experience negative side effects, a birth control pill can be easily switched. There is a slight risk of clotting, but generally this is no more severe than what you’d experience naturally. If it is worse, it doesn’t take much to notify your doctor so the pill can be changed to one that suits you.

Typically, there are far more benefits, and when there aren’t what’s prescribed is simply switched. 

If we are talking about sex, the pill is highly effective at preventing the body from ovulating. It greatly if not completely diminishes an egg from being fertilized (translation: a child not conceived in the first place). Pair it with a condom and you have two different types of contraceptive working in your favor. 

Yet whether or not a woman chooses to have sex has nothing to do with being on birth control. If anything, she’s safer because of it as a “just in case.” She doesn’t suddenly become a mindless animal or a “disposable piece of flesh” because she wants to stop gushing blood or being doubled over and vomiting just because her monthly gift came in a little hard. 

I cannot in good conscience call out ignorance on the left and not do the same with the out-of-touch fringe in the archaic outskirts of the right. There is nothing this post accomplished other than broadcasting you know nothing about the topic and are more interested in considering women who make any choice regarding their reproductive health other than your own self-harming whores. It’s a painfully stunted, childish, desperate reach, and one that evidently seeks to pat oneself on the back for choosing purity and a chaste life when the thing that’s going to send you straight to Hell is your petty and judgemental nature. Combined with, quite possibly, overwhelmingly stupid medical decisions.

If I may make a suggestion, perhaps worry about yourself and leave other women to their own lives, health, and decisions. If they make the wrong one, so be it. It never was yours to decide in the first place, any more than it was a doctor’s choice to save a life or a drunkard’s idea to pour himself another glass.

It’s out of touch foolishness like this that gives people the false idea that conservatives and all who lean that way are stuck in the dark ages. Apparently, a nagging few still are.

You seem to get easily upset over things you see on Tumblr. Maybe it’s time to log off for a bit.

Lots of assumptions were just made about me, if I was the target of your angry post, but honestly it’s late and I’m just about ready to go to bed. You can think anything you want about me, I don’t really care.

how INSANELY fucking funny would it be if 48 hours before the election this year both joe biden and donald trump inexplicably at the same time just dropped dead. like it was just their time to go. their half-corpse bodies had just had enough of this shit and they both just gave out. i think that would be the tipping point that would destroy america once and for all

People on tumblr be like: “You’re so hateful I hope that you and your entire family dies in a slow and guesome way”

People on tumblr will call you a bigot then proceed to call you at least 3 slurs

finding out the heights of your internet friends is always the weirdest thing

reblog this with your height in the tags then we’ll all know

hit that reblog button if you remember this band!!

OK seriously who tf are these people? the comments are absolutely no help

you reblogged but you don’t remember? why would you do this?

date of origin: 25th of august, 2015.