I dunno who needs to hear this but your F/O doesn't think you're 'too sensitive' or 'overreacting' or 'get mad about everything' if you set boundaries.

Doesn't matter if it's some basic stuff or anything specific. Neither does it matter if you state the reason or not.

If anyone actively disrespects your boundaries they would tell them off or help you make an excuse to leave.

selfshippers;

don't feel bad if you "haven't done much" with your life. don't feel bad if you don't wanna go to college or a trade school or are nervous about getting a job.

don't feel bad if there are things stopping you from doing all of that. your f/o wants you to know you're doin alright. and, I'm sure, at least to some extent, they may have felt the same way at some point. imagine how they felt if they ever had to figure out if they wanted to go to college, what they would go for, what they would do with their life now that they have the option.

and if you're thinking right now "yea but my f/o has accomplished so much in comparison to me" I'm sure they think the same about you.

sometimes living is enough. and that's okay.

selfshippers it’s time to be the loudest and most annoying you’ve ever been about your f/os, i assure you the right people will come to appreciate you and your ships 💘✨

If you're seeing this it means that your f/o is thinking about you, yes you🫵, right now! They're thinking about you sooooo much and missing you soooooooooo much. They should probably be focusing on other things but they just can't get you out of their head! It'd almost be embarrassing if it was anyone else but since it's YOU they don't mind a bit <3.

My contribution to this meme

Because I’m standing firm with this I decided to update it to be a little more specific since some people aren’t getting the hint.

f/o who knows you miss their touch way too quickly, so before a goodbye or even if they just need to get something from another room, they’ll give you a short squeeze, a pat on the head or even a quick peck on the forehead before they do— and immediately giving you all the affection you need when they/you get back of course

for self shippers who feel like they "cry too much"...

your f/o would never walk away from you when you cry. if you're okay with physical touch while you're emotional, they'd hold you while you cry and whisper reassurances that you're okay. your emotions aren't "too much" or "too big" for them to handle, they'll always be at your side while you're dealing with them. they want to be a comforting presence for you, and would provide you with water and anything else you may need when you start to calm down ᯓ★

dividers made for me by kynibyou! ✦ prosh¡p dni.

for self shippers who are going through a hard time right now...

your f/o wants you to be happy and wants to do anything to bring a smile to your face. they know that getting over a rough patch isn't as simple as making a "decision" to be happier or have a brighter outlook. however, they want to stick by you during this time, no matter how long it lasts. they won't walk away from you - they'll stay right at your side until they get to see you smile again. because to them, there's no brighter sight than seeing true happiness on your face, and they want to be with you to see it ᯓ★

dividers made for me by kynibyou! ✦ prosh¡p dni.

selfship user boxes !!!

hi i made some user boxes

feel free to use :)))))))))))

PROSHIP DNI not for you *finger wag*

f/o waking up a bit too early to see you asleep beside them still and then moving a bit closer to give you a quick kiss on the forehead before moving back to sleep… bonus if they stare at you a little more longer. bonus bonus if you’re actually awake the whole time

ben :O

back after 2 yrs w ben :P

I wanna make you soooOOOOOooo happy that you don’t even know what to do with all the happiness

💕💖 I LOVE MY F/O TEMPLATES 💖💕

made some templates inspired by the "i love my gf/bf" ones where you put a picture into the heart but i made them selfship specific ^w^ you can use it however and wherever you want, and edit freely. if you use or save any then a reblog and/or like are very appreciated, but no credit is needed if you post it anywhere ^w^

version without the title under the cut in case you want to add your own. font used is cooper black