🪐Saturn🪐

Buggie that’s amazing I’m so proud of you!! Carrots are so yummy and good for you I’m so happy you had such a delicious snack lil one! Great job taking your meds too, that can be really tricky but you did it all by yourself!!! What an amazing job kiddo! Have a juice and cookie for being such a rockstar 🍪🧃

That’s adorable that he gets to meet your family I’m so happy for you!! I really really hope everything goes well for you and you enjoy the holiday season together!

Hi Leo! I hope you have an amazing time visiting your cg! I’m so happy you get to visit, even if theres unfortunately the altitude adjustment at least you’ll be able to cuddle up together!

You can buy paci wipes on amazon but honestly just soap and water works fine! I’m sending tons of love and well wishes your way!!

Hi Leo!! Im so so happy you had a good time!! Elevation adjustments are so icky, but I’m glad you were able to eventually get used to it!

Sometimes you don’t need money to have a good time!!! My first date with Star all we bought was two coffees and walked around and talked, it was one of the most amazing days of my life! The best person to be with is the person that you can comfortably spend down time with! Star and I talk for hours all the time still, and we’ve been together for six years. I’m so happy that you were able to be together, no matter what!

I’m so proud of you for going outside your comfort zone too, that’s a huge deal!! You took some huge steps to get there! I love the train, when I was a kid my mom and I would take the train to boston! I’ve always thought they were really cool- did you like it?

I’m so so happy to hear you had a good time kiddo! I hope everything works out for Christmas too! Id love it if you kept me updated on it, I’m so proud of you for all the big steps you took! Sending all the love and hugs your way lil one!

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Dni: k!nk/n$fw, maps, t3rfs, homophobes, transphobes, anti-agere, f*rries

Hi kiddo! Thank you so so much for reaching out about this!!! Wearing protection is nothing to be ashamed of! Both Star and I have problems too, and I want you to know you’re not alone with this struggle!!

Depending on your fashion sense and the weather, there are tons of ways to wear protection discreetly if you’re anxious about people judging- but it’s also totally okay to not hide it! Disabilities are nothing to be ashamed of, and you deserve to be comfortable on your long journey! But if you do want to try and be discreet, there are tons to do it!

If it’s chilly where you’re headed, a pair of sweatpants or a longer skirt can be really good at hiding any bumps! If it’s warmer, I like to wear comfy shorts that are loose or a swooshy dress/skirt! Basically, just wear something that isn’t too tight and you’ll be fine! Just be comfortable, and everything will work out.

Depending on what transportation you’re on, sometimes there’s public bathrooms too. If you’re not able to make it in time, I suggest bringing a spare and a plastic bag so you can dispose of it once you have a trash to put it in!

I hope your trip goes smooth and you have such a wonderful time with your friend! Remember, it’s okay to accommodate yourself! You’re allowed to be comfortable on your trip, no matter what 💕 sending all the hugs and love, and I hope to hear how it all goes!! Never forget, you deserve to be comfortable and happy regardless of what anyone else ever says 💕

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Dni: k!nk/n$fw, maps, t3rfs, homophobes, transphobes, anti-agere, f*rries

Hello 💫anon! I hope you’re doing well too!! I love you tons and I hope you have /had an amazing day!

Omg good for you little one!! I hope you have an amazing time!

First of all, make sure to be safe! If you’re flying to meet someone, make sure to tell everyone where exactly you’re going and have at least one or two people with your location available, and make sure wherever you first meet has cameras, just in case.

I hope you have a safe and amazing trip! If you haven’t regressed in person with each other yet it might be a little awkward at first. It’s okay to be clumsy with it! That’s part of what makes it memorable. Relax and don’t try too hard to be perfect for each other- instead, be yourself (I know, cheesy) and you’ll find that things can go from wobbly to comfortable in the blink of an eye!

You don’t necessarily need anything to regress, but sometimes having items can add to the comfort of being little! Packing for a flight can be tricky tho, because you end up having a weight limit.

Here are some items I would suggest bringing!

• Tooth brush!!!! Remember that kiddo!

• Comfort blanket

• One or two medium sized stuffies

• Fidget toy (if you’re like me you’ll need it for the plane!)

• Comfortable clothes for the weather (don’t make yourself uncomfortable just to ‘look good’ , you’re adorable just as you are!)

• If you use diapers, put them in luggage not carry on

• Coloring book and crayons (they can be in carry on!)

• Remember a sweater! No matter where you go there’s always somewhere cold!!

Things I would not bring:

• Liquid toys (frozen chews)

• Large stuffies

• Bottles with liquid

• Anything you can get once you’re there (food, hair care things, etc)

I hope your trip goes so super well anon! Best wishes to you and your Big! I hope you have the most amazing time!! Sending all the love and well wishes your way!

Hi 💫! I’m so so happy you’ve been able to find some time for yourself!! That’s super duper important, especially when it feels like the Big world is becoming too much to handle! I had to take a little break for a while too because of my busy schedule, but I’ve been so happy to be able to come back to so many kind messages!

I hope you and little Amelia are doing well! That’s such an adorable name!! Id love to see her some time if you ever want to send a picture!

I haven’t seen that show but it sounds super duper fun! Id love to see that at some point, I’ll add it to my list with Star!

Sending all the love and hugs, I hope everything’s been going well for you and I hope we get to talk a little more soon! 💕💕

Heya kiddo! First and foremost: you are not broken for being agere.

I feel like I get asked pretty often how to ‘come out’ as a regressor. There’s no right or wrong way, as long as the timing is right and you’re ready to have that talk. It can be nerve wracking for sure, but the good news is you can be open about your emotions once it’s out there! It can also take a lot of anxiety off the partner when you tell them- maybe they’ve regressed too, or they’ve noticed and haven’t known what to do, and now you can openly talk about it!

We luckily live in a day and age where if your partner has questions, there are tons of resources to find some answers! Agere isn’t gross or strange, it’s most commonly a coping mechanism when someone had something happen that made them grow up too quick. If you’re comfortable enough, sharing that can help explain why it happens when they inevitably ask- but if you’re not ready to talk about it, you can always say ‘I’m not ready’ and come back to it later in life.

It’s probably a good idea to come up with ways your partner can interact with you before you bring it up, because the second most common question someone has is ‘how do I act when you’re in that space?’

Different people have different levels of comfort when it comes to being ‘hands on’. Do not start off expecting them to be perfect! Caretakers spend a lot of time basically playing guessing games- especially when they’re new to it. If you’re able to stay ‘big’ enough to still care for yourself at first, you can teach your partner things that make you happy. Bring up your favorite books, snacks that make you small, shows, games, things that you like to be called (like kiddo or little one), anything that’s easy to remember. As time goes on, they’ll learn your ‘tells’ and get better at coming up with things on their own, but it does sometimes take a bit for even the most excited new caretakers to actually get a footing.

I also want to offer that my dm and askbox are both always open for first time cgs looking for tips! I’ve been on both sides of agere, and I know how challenging it can be to try and navigate the craziness, but I also know how worth it everything can be when my star is sleeping soundly with their paci and stuffies. All relationships take a little work, but if you both spend the time learning about each other, it will be worth it.

I’m wishing you the best of luck little one, I hope this goes well for you! I’m extremely proud of you for being honest with yourself and knowing that this is who you are! There’s no shame, no reason to hide it! Go enjoy life, stop and smell the flowers, and be who you are. You deserve to be happy!

Hi anon! Thank you for reaching out about this, it’s totally normal to feel jealous or lonely when it comes to seeing others in relationships. Unfortunately, that’s a pretty common :( not feeling like you have someone to trust or talk to on an intimate level can sometimes feel overwhelming and manifest in jealousy or anger. I’m not always the best when it comes to relationship advice, but I always try to give the best advice on these things that I can…

I wish someone told me when I was younger that being in love and being loved are two different things. No matter if you’re friends or partners, the most important part of a relationship is trust. And for some of us, trust doesn’t come easily. Some people struggle to be open and honest about feelings, maybe from fear of judgement, or maybe because they never learned how to express them in the first place. As one of those people, I can tell you that it’s more common than you’d think to be unable to express feelings, even as grown adults.

It’s almost a good thing to note that you get jealous around others in situations you want to be in. It’s normal to be jealous about seeing someone being comforted by someone who cares for them. For some of us, it’s hard to form those relationships when we have a hard time expressing our feelings and needs to others. It really does help to get to know someone by text if you’re shy in person, but I’d suggest that you actually do meet in person (safely!) when possible to build the connection of learning tones and body language to help yourself assess what someone’s saying instead of jumping to conclusions like I sometimes do.

The only real way to meet someone who’s right for you is to meet and get to know others. Tumblr is one of many places that caretakers and littles can express themselves and be honest with who they are. There are tons of cg’s looking to have a little on this app, and most of them are genuine. Be careful when looking for a cg online however- there are tons of scammers and creeps out there that will try and trick you. Get to know someone- talk to them online, check out their account to make sure they’re a real person, and once you get comfortable, offer FaceTimes so you can be sure you’re really talking to who they say they are.

Unfortunately, there’s not an exact science when it comes to finding someone who genuinely cares about you. Also remember that CGs are people too and have feelings and emotions that need to be acknowledged- it isn’t a one sided relationship. A relationship is formed by trust, by honesty, and by happiness. Don’t settle for anyone who doesn’t try to help when you need it, and don’t be the person who doesn’t help. There’s no such thing as a ‘perfect’ relationship either- it takes work from both sides to make it last.

Okay I feel like I could go on about this for ten more paragraphs but I feel like it’s getting a little long here so I’m going to wrap it up… I’m so proud of you for being able to pinpoint and name your emotion when it came up, and I want to thank you genuinely for sharing this with me. It takes time, it takes work, and it takes communication to form a strong bond in any type of relationship, but especially one when it comes to being as vulnerable as in little space. I hope you remember that you’re not alone!

If this post reaches any caregivers looking for littles, please leave a comment so some of my pals might be able to get to know you better!! Personally I have my hands full with my Star, but I know there are tons of wonderful cgs looking to take care of some kiddos!

Sending love and good vibes always

Pippi Saturn

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Dni: k!nk/n$fw, maps, t3rfs, homophobes, transphobes, anti-agere, f*rries

Myaaaaa I’m going to cry I think about this comment every day ever since I saw it pop up and I meant to reply sooner but ugh so buuuusy ! Anyway I love you so much and it makes me so happy that you feel validated by my choice in clothing!- it honestly wasn’t intentional at first but I’ve always kind of just thought “what would I dress Star up in for a cute date?” And then put down what I find!

Hopefully I’ll be more active now that I’ve settled into my new job and hopefully star’s medical stuff is starting to even out, so I’ll be catching up on my askbox a lot more!!! I really miss interacting with you/ everyone on this account, it’s always been so comforting to create these cute things for you friends!!!

I hope you’re doing well!! Sending lots of love and positive vibes kiddo!!! I hope to talk more soon! Have a cookie and juice for being such an awesome pal!!! 🍪🧃