I love my fiance to bits I truly do but the entire wedding planning, traditions and culture differences make me nauseous. I'm afraid one day I'll just call it off because I'm annoyed about how long it takes to get everyone on board
#i thought we convinced everyone to keep it small? once we made it crystal clear that we wanted to marry asap they started throwing all kinds#of ceremonies#why do you have to ask for my hand if my walima is already set to take place the very next month?#why will havr a wedding if we already had a walima#if the parents are planning on announcing it when they ask for my hand#why do we need a walima?#p