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🍬candyrain collective🌧️
syscourse stance is fuck around and find out
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EDIT 6-5-2024: we don't engage in syscourse anymore hahaha. tried it, not our cup of tea...but that's ok! this is more just a general system blog now where we talk about our own experiences and listen to others'. also since time is a thing we've aged. body is now 23. 24 alters. woohoo!

ORIGINAL: so it may be time for me to actually make a proper intro post! let's see here...

my name is bibi, and i'm the cohost of the candyrain collective! im 19 but the body is 21. we're a diagnosed osdd-1b traumagenic system of around 15 alters, i wanna say. i don't know if anyone else in the collective would want to blog here, but if they do, they can share stuff in their own time.

our interests are anime, drawing, painting, and writing short stories! we also really like psychology and studied it in college.

if you have any questions about us or just want to interact, feel free to send asks or message! we're always open to new friends and in fact crave them.

some user boxes:

my stance on endogenic is this:

i do believe non-disordered plurality is a phenomenon that people experience. i do not care if endos have a community of their own and in fact am curious about endo experiences, but i really wish endos would stop pushing into system spaces and pushing for demedicalizing CDDs. i also wish endos would stop spreading misinformation around. please.

did/osdd exists. it is real. it is a result of trauma. it affects more of the population than most people think. it is disordered.

i do not support tulpas, trans id/transex/whatever it's called, and radfems. i do not support harassment on either side of syscourse.

whether you're a traumagenic or endogenic system you're free to follow me, and i may follow back. i'd like to dip my toes into both communities, but am strictly anti-misinformation.

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leebrontide

Ok so my kid had an ear infection, right? As kids often do.

The doctor scraped out a bit of earwax to have a better look inside.

I was sent a bill for $200 PER EAR for this 5 second procedure which I did not give permission for them to do.

That was key- they did not ASK me if they could do this "procedure". And, as I OWN a medical practice (it's me. The medical practice is me, sitting in my house on video calls) I knew to call them when this bill came in to be like "You did not obtain informed consent for this procedure, and it was not en emergency procedure. You had full ability to gain my consent and didn't. I'm not paying."

And the massive hospital who owned the bill said "yuh-huh you do have to pay."

And I said "I own a practice. I know these laws. I do not owe you money for this."

And they conducted an "internal review" and SURPRISE! Decided I totally owed them money and they had never done anything wrong ever.

And so I called my state's Attorney General office, and explained the situation because, as I mentioned, I know the law. The AG got in touch within a couple days to say they were taking the case and would send the massive hospital conglomerate a knock it off, guys letter.

Lo and Behold, today I have a letter where said hospital graciously has agreed to forfeit the payment.

"How not to get screwed over by companies" should be part of civics class.

Know your rights and know who to call when they're infringed on. This whole process cost me $0 and honestly less effort than I would have expected.

May this knowledge find its way to someone else who can use it.

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nyancrimew

gen z prosecutor: in the courted room. straight up "alleging it". and by "it", haha, well. let's justr say. Your charges

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scarletbirbs

Thinking about those windows movie maker lyric videos from the late 00's/early 10's...truly that era's cornerstone of society

RIP this format...you were truly iconic

Can't forget the corrections that they would add with those overlaid boxes YouTube removed years ago.

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gengarguy27

Shout out to the videos that would have *epic instrumental* or something during an instrumental part.

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the cultural boogeyman of the faker is such a convenient lie for ableism. Waste your time fighting about who does and does not deserve help, and maybe you wont realizes that there was never any help to begin with. The is no epidemic of malingerers taking up resources they don't need, there is a lack of resources for disabled people

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dialupmodern

Babe, you okay? you reblogged “and we were nice to each other” like 12 times again

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naumin

i drew this comic more than 10 years ago :) couldnt even tell u who i was thinking of now cuz i hardly remember… cant believe it resonated with so many people!!!

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Took me until about halfway through college before I realized “study” means “play with the material in a variety of ways until you understand it” and not just “read the assigned chapters and do the homework” and I think that probably should have been discussed at some point prior to that.

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