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gavinbondphotography: You can feel the energy. Great moment with Adriana and Bruno Mars as they step backstage after the finale of The Victoria Secret Show in Paris.

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Bruno performing ‘Chunky’ at the 2016 Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show

Bruno performing ‘24K Magic’ at the 2016 Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show

A friend of mine who’s been married for 10 years and has 2 children confessed to me yesterday that she’s tired of being a wife and a mother.

This isn’t the first time someone has said this to me. It’s mostly from women who got married and had kids in their early 20’s before they got a chance to realize the woman they really are. And they grow to hate their life and resent their family. And it’s heartbreaking to see how heavy their guilt is.

Marriage and having children is not the ultimate goal for some women. Many do it because they feel it’s the natural order of things and those women usually realize one day that if they had the chance to do it all over again they wouldn’t.

If you have doubts about wanting kids, wait. Don’t pressure yourself to have children because you feel it’s what’s expected of you.

And don’t marry someone either because you feel you must by a certain age or if you feel obligated.

It’s OK if you don’t want to ever get married or have children. It’s OK if you don’t want to become someone’s wife or mother. You’re not less of a woman. Live your life for yourself.

Bruno Mars, Lady Gaga and The Weeknd pose with Victoria’s Secret models backstage during 2016 Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show

Bruno performing ‘Chunky’ at the Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show in Paris.

Bruno performing ‘24K Magic’ at the Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show in Paris

Bruno performing ‘24K Magic’ at the VS Fashion Show

HQ Bruno Mars performs ‘Chunky’ during the Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show on November 30, 2016 in Paris, France.