it's late and this is kind of out of the blue but my little brother sent me a picture the other day of him posing in the mirror wearing a dress and it made me so happy because when he was little he was always interested in "girly" things (meanwhile i was a Huge Tomboy lmao) and our dad was always really shitty about it so idk not only does it make me happy he feels comfortable exploring his gender expression, but that he knows he can share it with me
#pidge speaks#hfdjkshg that's My Baby#he turned 18 in december and i still have not recovered#i basically raised the kid#so like#the fact that he comes to me when he's hurting or upset or just to share things with me still means the world to me#and tbh he's also been one of my most supportive family members wrt me being trans too#its nice to like#idk#feel like i did a good job#we didnt have the best upbringing so we really clung to each other#and it's nice to still be close even with the age gap#he also looked super cute in it too like#he was absolutely rocking it#and he looked so goddamned happy#also he made a joke about being attracted to a dude and i was like 'i love you sm u beautiful little disaster bi'#and he asked if he could call himself bi if he'd only ever dated girls and had only ever been attracted to celebrities/fictional characters#and i mean he did also tell me he'd been in love with his best friend who passed away recently#and i was like 'if you are attracted to your own gender as well as others and choose to identify as such congration! you are bi'#and it seemed to really make him happy#I AM DOING MY BEST TO GIVE HIM ALL THE SUPPORT I CAN