I can't draw hands

"oh you're bi too? haha attracted to every woman and five men amiright" don't put words in my mouth. don't put your baggage on me. if you saw the men i wanted to fuck you'd hurl.

“I like women because they’re amazing and I like men because I can’t stop making bad decisions haha.”

Well when I like women it’s because I’m fucking awesome, and when I like men it’s because I’m fucking awesome. Your take on your own sexuality fucking sucks, I’m better than you.

It's got the same energy as "I hate my wife" boomers, and it sucks too because even if YOU never say it, it gets said often enough people internalize it. Do you know how long my spouse would say stuff like "Yeah, idk why she's with me, a man, when women are so much prettier" like shut UP, if I did not actually find multiple genders attractive I would not call myself bi! If I did not find you attractive I would not be with you! You deserve love!

I have no earthly idea where the insane amount of hate for bisexuals etc stems from, but it seems like we have to do backflips to make ourselves acceptable to the queer community and seen as actually queer and not just “posers” who aren’t brave enough to actually be queer. I’m so fucking sick of all this biphobia and how little we talk about it.

Also, bisexuality doesn’t mean only men and women. It has never meant only men and women. You do not have to identify as pan to like people outside the gender binary. Jesus fuck. It’s not that hard.

Not being a panphobe by saying this btw no hate to my lovely pan friends it’s just bisexuality has always always always encompassed nb and other people outside the gender binary and therefore we shouldn’t restrict our cobversations about bisexuality to ONLY men and women

Ya'll be like "Shang was having a bi freak out, realizing he was into Ping". NO HE WASN'T. He already knew he was into men. His bisexual freak out was when he realized Ping was Mulan and hey maybe he's into girls too whatdoya know?

Legit you think a bi man who has always been in such a male-dominated space like the army hadn't already figured out that he liked men? Come oooonnnn... It's women he has rarely had contact with and has no idea how to talk to or flirt with (you fight good) I WILL DIE ON THIS HILL.

In "A Girl Worth Fighting For" Shang has zero lines I REST MY FUCKING CASE.

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ppl don’t like to imagine bi ppl coming to terms with being bi after identifying as gay bc they think that’s a downgrade lol. That’s why there’s like 100000 stories about cishets realizing they were bi and like 2 of gay ppl realizing they were bi.

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bi person: i headcanon this character as bi

y'all: ok

bi person: cool so [male character] is dating [female character] and they're both bi

y'all: lol shut up hettie these characters aren't straight

bi person:

Bi person: i hc this person as bi

Y'all: idk i just feel like its kind of catering to the hets and a cowards move to hc them as bi when they could be gay lol like i feel like its not as good of rep if they're bi?? idk tho thats just my opinion lmfao

idc how gay you are if you disrespect bi women: you suck!!!!!!!!!!!

also bi women who have previously identified as lesbians discovering that they’re bi isn’t a tragedy it should be celebrated

im just gonna say it…. bi women who date men and bi men who date women arent supported enough 

non bi people will get (rightfully) angry over stupid terms used against us like bihet but then when it comes down to it wont actually support our relationships bc we’re not gay enough or something…. if ur not going to support us because you think we’re heterosexual or picking the wrong side or somehow less bisexual when we date someone of the opposite gender ur just biphobic

Some idiotic part of the lgbt+ community: We accept bisexual people, unless you get into a wIm relationship, then we’ll disown you because you’re a gross hetero now.

it’s actually evil that ppl wanna say that they support bi women but then as soon as a bi woman is dating a man & she wants to talk about her attraction she’s shut down in lgbt spaces bc no one wants to hear about het relationships. if you shut down bi ppl discussing their attraction to the opposite gender then you are not an ally to bi ppl & you never were

i encourage you all to reblog this

it’s just that they feel being bi is ‘half gay’. Like we can joke about it but fr that’s how they treat it. As always, ambiguity bothers people.

jane the virgin: portraying a bisexual man in a healthy relationship and slaying biphobes since 2017

It’s really interesting what she says “I can’t give you what a man can.” A lot of gay men avoid relationships with bi men because they worry that they can’t provide what a woman can. People, gay or straight, think that for a bi person the grass is always greener on the other side.

Straight men and lesbians have said the same. It’s insecurity rooted in the notion that bi people have all the options constantly at their fingertips AND are insatiable. We don’t choose a team, we choose a person. A failure to understand this mostly boils down to people not believing bisexuality is real.

Let bi boys date girls

Who isn’t letting them……

Gay boys who see me with a girl and say I shouldn’t be allowed in lgbt spaces because I’m actually really straight

Straight girls who see me as their “gay friend” or who say they don’t care about sexuality but wouldn’t date a boy who’s had sex with a boy

Straight people in general who say “isn’t he really just gay” or telling girls that I’m actually gay and faking it with them

Gay people who say that because I have the option of dating a girl I’m the same as the straight people who oppress our community

Gay people who say I’ll never understand oppression or what it’s like to “actually” be gay

So there’s quite a few people not letting them!!

Keep reblogging this post all the comments are people showing how much they hate bisexual people

Biphobes unfollow me, you’re not welcome here. LET👏PEOPLE👏LOVE👏WHO👏THEY👏WANT👏

I haven’t seen a post like this for bi boys, only for bi girls. let’s fix that.

#letbiboysdateotherboys #letbiboysdategirls #letbiboysbeinlovewithsomeonetheylove

in 2018 we stop telling bi women to be disgusted by their attraction to men and encourage bi people to embrace all their experiences as a bi person