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Ankle-deep in the river.

@bluemantle / bluemantle.tumblr.com

Panromantic, Genderqueer, Gray-A, Introvert. Pronouns: ze/hir/hirs. This is a personal blog. Expect fandom and spam. There's also a lot of me battling with depression and mood swings. I try to use trigger warnings, but I am terrible about tagging in general.
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The “romantic-sexual/platonic” love dichotomy leaves no room for the real emotional nuances people experience in their attachments, and I think that it often causes us to live with simplified relationships not because we want to or because we have simple desires and feelings but because we have no experience, cultural context, or language to accommodate a complex social life or set of relationships. This is why language is so important. This is why words and labels matter. How can you have the kind of relationships you want with anyone, if you don’t even have the words to accurately express how you feel? Hell, half the time, people don’t even understand their own feelings and relationship desires because what they feel is not simple at all, but the only relationship framework they know makes everything seem simple and clear cut: romance and sex go together, friendship is separate from both of those things, couplehood/primary partnership is exclusive to romance and sex, etc. But if we are to accept the possibilities and realities of asexual romance, primary nonsexual/nonromantic love, nonromantic sex and sexual friendship, romantic (nonsexual) friendship, queerplatonic nonsexual relationships and sexual relationships, etc…. we have to drop this way of thinking and speaking about relationships and love in a romantic-sexual/platonic dichotomous way. None of those “complex” relationships fit into that model
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To go with yesterday’s post about condom storage.  Another handy graphic about correct condom usage.

Anyone know why silicone lube is x’d out??

I’m guessing it was a mistake; silicone lube and regular latex condoms are perfectly compatible iirc, but silicone lube WILL degrade silicone toys.

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She is literally singing about riding dick. Not just any dick, but the dick that is standing right next to her. He’s not in the audience or backstage and she’s not being coy under the male gaze. She is singing about having sexual agency as a woman in an assertive fashion. Then at the end, she puts her hands on his hips and stands in a version of the wonder woman pose. If you don’t think Beyonce is the baddest womanist icon at the moment, then I’m going to ask you to reevaluate your life and get the fuck out of mine.

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Poem 8: BDSM [from Judges 16:4] -- "Delilah said, "I can overpower, tie up, and subdue you.  Delilah said to Samson, "Tell me how you can be tied up and subdued."

Samson answered her, 'Yes, I'll become weak...'  She tied him-- Samson aflame. Then Delilah said to Samson, 'Come now, tell me how you want it.'  She snapped rope braids on his ass.  Delilah took his head in hand and pulled up.

He said, 'I love when you do that.' 

She ordered him , 'Come on yourself!' The braids stung him.  Then she seized him and took him, grinding on his D.

When he came, she praised him."

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I have been doing some research on sex and disability, and thought I would share some of the links I have found. This will be useful for me in the future as a resource, and hopefully to others too.

Disability and Sex General Links

Super great list!

TOO AMAZING FOR WORDS

Huge amazing list of links! Have not read all of them so don’t know if there might be some stuff that’s not so good in there, but reblogging because lots are likely to be useful for people who follow.

This is a truly amazing resource. Please share it!

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I made another one.  Original post here.

Poem 7: Cumming and Coming Out (from Judges 6:20) -- "The angel said to him, 'Take me.'  And Gideon did so. He touched the tip of the staff in his hand. Fire consumed the angel. He exclaimed, 'Love, do not stop! Take me!'  He sat down slow on top of his wood pole. Gideon took his time.

In the morning, they asked each other, 'What are you going to say to him?'  Gideon broke down.

That day, to his father, Gideon said, 'Do not be angry with me.  Let me love who I will.' "

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I have been doing some research on sex and disability, and thought I would share some of the links I have found. This will be useful for me in the future as a resource, and hopefully to others too.

Disability and Sex General Links

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