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Captain of the good ship, Je T'Emily

@blackbird-brewster / blackbird-brewster.tumblr.com

Kit, Queer AF. They/Them. Pākehā/white. 36 and thriving. Autistic, disabled, polyam, Taurus. This is mostly a Criminal Minds blog. Ruler of Je T'Emily Garbajistan, Architect of Angst, Creator of @Queerminal-Minds. [AO3: w00t4ewan]
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stealthrockdamage

people slipping up and saying shit like “biological name” instead of “deadname” is more or less proof these people don’t actually care about real science they just want smart sounding words and i guarantee if we could manipulate chromosomes they’d abandon all pretext of science and start yammering about how people are born with a “masculine/feminine essence” that “cant be changed” like none of these people actually know the chromosomes real fuckin function and they dont care they just know they cant be changed

“Biological name”

Scientists scanned my dna, I’m genetically a Sally but I chose my own fate.

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softlyfiercely

i changed my name for non gender related reasons and people like to ask me “what’s your birth name” and i say “oh i actually wasn’t born with a name my parents just gave me one” and that tends to shut people up

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akros-artificer

Damn nice

that’s an excellent response. gonna have to steal it

#Lgbtq#transgender#Life advice
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I'm not in the US but I see it was National Coming Out Day, so here's a quick reminder that even though I have known since I was six that I loved kissing girls, it took another nine years before I ever heard the word lesbian. It took another twelve years to before I ever heard the word nonbinary.

Now, as I near my 32 birthday I mostly just identify as queer.

Coming out can be a constant journey. Sexuality and gender are fluid it makes sense that your understanding of them may change and grow as you change and grow and as our language changes and grows to include more people.

Coming out is a hugely personal choice and that includes ALL forms of coming out, whether it be to your family or simply correcting your barista about your pronouns. It's a life long journey.

You'll know when you're ready. And if you never want to come out, that's fine too.

Whoever you are, wherever you are on your journey - you are so valid. You are seen. You are loved. You have a community here. You are gay enough. You are bi enough. You are queer enough. You are trans enough.

You are enough.

I love you.

#national coming out day#Lgbtq#Lgbtqpia#Queer#Nonbinary#Trans#queer positivity#Advice
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You know what sucks? Feeling alone and isolated and thinking you are the ONLY one who feels like you. You know what helps? Talking to others about what you’re going through. Most of the time, you’ll find someone who’s been there, survived, and can offer some advice. Even if you don’t find someone who has been through exactly what you’re going through, you will still tend to find someone who will listen. And sometimes that helps more than you thought it would. And you know what? I’m ALWAYS here to listen. I’ve lived through so much and I’m still standing. I believe in you, you’ll get through this. If you need help along the way, my ask box is open.

#it gets better#poverty#mental health#lgbtq#chronic illness#love notes#ask box open#free advice
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I randomly remembered the blog I kept when I was 15. Right before I joined LJ.

I found this (excerpts from a longer post) and I started to cry thinking back on being THAT alone and afraid at the possibility I was gay.

The fact I called myself “unnatural”.

To all my young friends who are questioning or afraid…and to those who already know, have always known…

I SEE YOU. I LOVE YOU. YOU’RE VALID AND IMPORTANT.

It gets better. I promise it does.

#about me 2k17#lgbtq#lgbtqpia#coming out#it gets better
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