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I'm gonna be real, I do think Tristan could be genuine in his feeling like hes "not going to be able to share" just based on how Max acted in this episode. Setting aside any potential Max/Tristan attraction, Max spent this whole episode being uncomfortable around Tristan, butting heads with him, and asserting his authority over him in a way we haven't seen since episode 1, if ever. (He dressed Tristan down in front of the Captain and called him Nurse Silva has he ever done that??)

Then Max gives his whole speech about being traditional, wanting one woman, and children, and about how they need to be able to maintain their dynamics and therefore their hierarchy. I think Tristan quite frankly lost some trust he had gained in Max in this episode. Trust that he would be listened to, trust that they could meet on the same level, trust that Max trusted him in return.

Not to mention Avery actively used to his attraction to her to get what she wanted lol. He floats the idea of them making a good duo after Max's rejection and she won't even consider it. Then she flirts with him just to get him to agree to talk to Max. It was funny but you could see even then he looked a little put out by it. There's nothing wrong with her wanting both and feeling like monogamy isn't for her, but I do think Tristan took that as "I am not and will never be enough for her" and that hit right in his emotional issues.

I think it genuinely is difficult for him to see how they could be in a balanced relationship atp (poly-v OR triad). In his eyes, Max not only doesn't want to try something "non traditional" but the threesome has also brought his power over Tristan to the forefront, causing a breakdown in trust. Avery has, unintentionally, kinda made it seem like she isn't concerned for Tristan's feelings and/or just doesn't care enough about him. It makes sense that Tristan feels like he's not going to be respected or considered in the relationship!

I also think it's significant that Avery keeps talking about fun and not putting a label on it and just... Never talks about the emotional side of it which makes sense for her prior commitment issues but is something that both Max and Tristan explicitly want.

This also isn't to say it couldn't work out between them lol, I'm still rooting for them to at least be a V (tho it's be a triad in my heart). I think that jealousy and insecurity is normal sometimes in polyamory at the beginning. The key is to communicate and they aren't... Really doing that yet lol.

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Something I forgot from previous weeks ... Tristan gave Max his blessing essentially to actually date/pursue Avery. He even then hyped Max up to think about going through with it despite it being I'll advised and against regulations. Of course he clams up when after everything happened Max reasserts that he wants a marriage with one woman (presumably Avery).

#doctor odyssey#doctor odyssey spoilers#ody3#avery#max#tristan
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I will say, after sitting with it for a little bit, I do think that Max's freakout about being "too traditional" might be at least in part about attraction to Tristan lol. I was actually Team "Max knows what he wants but doesn't think he can have it" before but now I'm thinking all those comments about conservative upbringings and repression that he might still be in the midst of figuring it out. Also the fact that he was so adamant about not even acknowledging what happened at all. He wants to pursue joy but is still learning what he's allowed to pursue.

#like i said on my tristan post i keep seeing people talking about being scared of the attraction#being whats driving the guys and i dont think that with tristan but max? more likely to me#max bankman#doctor odyssey spoilers#doctor odyssey#max#avery#tristan
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I'm gonna be real, I do think Tristan could be genuine in his feeling like hes "not going to be able to share" just based on how Max acted in this episode. Setting aside any potential Max/Tristan attraction, Max spent this whole episode being uncomfortable around Tristan, butting heads with him, and asserting his authority over him in a way we haven't seen since episode 1, if ever. (He dressed Tristan down in front of the Captain and called him Nurse Silva has he ever done that??)

Then Max gives his whole speech about being traditional, wanting one woman, and children, and about how they need to be able to maintain their dynamics and therefore their hierarchy. I think Tristan quite frankly lost some trust he had gained in Max in this episode. Trust that he would be listened to, trust that they could meet on the same level, trust that Max trusted him in return.

Not to mention Avery actively used to his attraction to her to get what she wanted lol. He floats the idea of them making a good duo after Max's rejection and she won't even consider it. Then she flirts with him just to get him to agree to talk to Max. It was funny but you could see even then he looked a little put out by it. There's nothing wrong with her wanting both and feeling like monogamy isn't for her, but I do think Tristan took that as "I am not and will never be enough for her" and that hit right in his emotional issues.

I think it genuinely is difficult for him to see how they could be in a balanced relationship atp (poly-v OR triad). In his eyes, Max not only doesn't want to try something "non traditional" but the threesome has also brought his power over Tristan to the forefront, causing a breakdown in trust. Avery has, unintentionally, kinda made it seem like she isn't concerned for Tristan's feelings and/or just doesn't care enough about him. It makes sense that Tristan feels like he's not going to be respected or considered in the relationship!

I also think it's significant that Avery keeps talking about fun and not putting a label on it and just... Never talks about the emotional side of it which makes sense for her prior commitment issues but is something that both Max and Tristan explicitly want.

This also isn't to say it couldn't work out between them lol, I'm still rooting for them to at least be a V (tho it's be a triad in my heart). I think that jealousy and insecurity is normal sometimes in polyamory at the beginning. The key is to communicate and they aren't... Really doing that yet lol.

#also pls pls pls no one take this as me shitting on ANY of the characters i love them#i love that avery seems very forward but is actually maybe the worst at communicating her feelings#i just think a lot of people are focused on the 'BUT WHAT ABOUT TRISTAN/MAX GAY????'#and like tbh based on all the breakdowns in communication this episode im not surprised he freaked out and left!#i think if we get anything about them being attracted to each other its gonna be after the fall break#we werent going to get the polyam introduction and the same sex attraction panic in the same episode#actually i DO think that might be maxs hang up but i genuinely dont think its tristans#which is surprising bc i was predicting the opposite lol#doctor odyssey#doctor odyssey spoilers#ody3#i guess?#tristan silva#tristan#max#avery
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seantealefan

New clip from Doctor Odyssey episode 7 "Oh, Daddy". Tristan describes himself as a "twunk"

#EXCUSE ME?????????????#im in shock rn#also its okay cap i also wouldve thought otter#anyway not corey and the cap both being like yeah max is daddy#what the fuck is WRONG with this show#i would say more but i cant find the words#doctor odyssey#doctor odyssey spoilers#avery#corey#captain massey#max#rosie#tristan#also sean teale fan i know obvious you are focused on sean teales character but thanks for the whiplash of literally everyone else in tha#that scene lmaooo
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dingdongyouarewrong

i’ve said it before and i’ve said it again. fanfiction is not an inherently subversive practice that is going to elevate art and save it. fanfiction is also not the scourge of all literature that is going to destroy art and debase it. fanfiction is literally just another lightly popular medium of writing and is capable of being good or bad. it’s not inherently uniquely good and it’s not inherently uniquely bad, it’s just a way you can write a story

#REAL#this is so important i think a lot of people like worship at the altar of fanfiction to the detriment of everything else#and get upset anytime someone says something even neutral about fanfiction#its just another medium!#it has its pros and it has its cons#fanfiction#queue
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