birdwithapeopleface reblogged
birdwithapeopleface reblogged
My gender and how I describe my gendered experiences do NOT have to relate to my assigned gender.
My assigned gender can have played a role in who I am, what my perspective is, and how I’m treated WITHOUT being related to my actual, real gender identity.
I do NOT have to link myself to my assigned gender to talk about my experiences.
I do NOT have to admit my assigned gender when I talk about my experiences of oppression or privilege.
I can talk about how I’m perceived by others WITHOUT relating it to my assigned gender, whether or not other people believe it’s related.
I do NOT have to misgender myself to talk about my reality.
birdwithapeopleface reblogged
“Hey, are you a man or a woman?”
“What gender are you?”
“ Yeah, but what is in your pants? “
birdwithapeopleface reblogged
crypticdatesuggestions
Anonymous asked:
Are you a boy or a girl ?
Not to my knowledge .
I’ve discovered two pretty easily digestible analogues to my gender experience/journey since coming to school here.
#i'm also gustav mole#but that's another story#gender things#music school things#the comp program is very small too#there are only about 20 of us#i made two friends#there was only one female comp prospie at the functions last night#that i knew of#men outnumber all other genders in the program both among students and faculty#so that's another branch of this gender tree that i'm going to have to tend with assiduity
I also came out to one of my new friends at school today, it was so nice and she asked for my pronouns and I was really happy
I painted my nails for Coming Out Day: Nonbinary/Genderqueer on the left hand, Aro/Ace on the right hand.
I love nail polish but I’m really terrible at applying it. And because I have insecurities regarding my hands and fingernails, allow me this indulgent gif:
#hands#hands tw#nail polish#there are 10 different individual nail polishes present in this picture#i love sparkles#nearly all of my nail polish is sparkles#notable exceptions include my glow in the dark nail polish#rockbiter#they look like big good strong hands#coming out day#nonbinary#genderqueer#aroace#silver and purple#aro#ace#gender things
birdwithapeopleface reblogged
- it’s okay to be genderfluid but usually a girl
- it’s okay to be genderfluid but usually a boy
- it’s okay to be agender one day and bigender the next
- it’s okay to not identify as any specific gender
- it’s okay to keep your gender to yourself
- your gender is your own goddamn business