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🌙🌙🌸 ♡ Bi Lesbian positivity blog ♡ ◇ Wanna know what this identity means, why people use it, and the history behind it? Please check out my #explanation and #history tags! ♡ @rouge-the-bat is my main! @les-bi-cons is my pride icon request blog! ♡ ◇ My name is Rouge! My preferred pronouns are Lo/Lov, Fae/Faer, and Ro/Rose, but i go by all pronouns ◇ ♡ This blog also focuses on positivity for my other identities, namely Ace, Cupioro, Polyam, Feminenby, and Lovegender! but also has other and more general positivity, and is safe for anyone of any identity, including people with Mogai and Neopronouns! ♡ ◇ Each time I get hate Ill make another positivity post ◇ The world needs more positivity and less negativity! ◇ ♡ Any flags Ive made is absolutely free to use for anything (even merch!)! I only ask for @s on posts using them simply bc I love seeing them being used!! ♡
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rouge-the-bat

(mspec: short for multi-spectrum attraction, umbrella term for any sexualities for 2+ genders)

♡ also happy mspec lesbian visibility/awareness week!!! 🌙🌙🌸

#rebloggin this over here too! and copying over my tags-#mspec lesbian#bi lesbian#pan lesbian#ply lesbian#omni lesbian#lesbian#mspec#bi#pan#ply#omni#bisexual#biromantic#pansexual#panromantic#polysexual#polyromantic#omnisexual#omniromantic#mspec lesbian week#mspec lesbian visibility week#mspec lesbian awareness week#had this in my drafts from just a couple days ago#n found out its mspec lesbian week now so! great time to go ahead n post it <3#this post is also of course inclusive of any genderqueer lesbianism- lesboys of any variety too! (i am one as well)
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nonegenderleftpain

Well, it's pride month and there's gonna be a bunch of posts like this floating around but I figure I'd go ahead and write up a post negating the TERF and exclusionist beliefs, since all of this discourse is going to come back this month.

  • Asexual and aromantic people are queer. Ace/aro folks are not cishet infiltrators, they are queer.
  • Bisexuals and pansexuals both have a long history and neither is transphobic or anti-each other.
  • Omni- and polysexual folks exist, just as bi and pan folks exist, and these meanings are not synonymous.
  • Mspec gays and lesbians (bi lesbians, etc) are not homophobic or lesbophobic. Both lesbian and gay have long histories as umbrella terms in the queer community, and attempting to silence older queers who use the terms or younger queers that have picked up the tradition is insufferable.
  • There is no such thing as a "bihet."
  • Straight trans, ace, and aro people are still queer. Being straight does not necessarily remove you from the queer community.
  • Trans is an umbrella that includes nonbinary identities. Nonbinary people are not appropriating trans experiences by using the trans flag.
  • Microlabels and neopronouns are not "making us look bad" and they are not trendy. How someone identifies is not your concern.
  • A queer person in a relationship with someone who is not queer does not stop being queer and their relationship is not straight. An mspec person in a relationship with a different gender is not straight. Identity is not determined by your relationships.
  • Queer was reclaimed decades ago, and self-identifying queers do not owe anyone a censoring of their identity.
  • Polyamorous people self-identifying as queer are not infiltrating the community, and poly relationships are overwhelmingly queer.
  • Most importantly: Self-identification will always be more important than any definition. Labels, like humans, are complicated. Some are liberated by them and others are confined by them, and trying to dictate someone's identity to them is not only wrong, it is cruel and antithetical to the queer community's origins. You do not get to choose whether or not someone is who they say they are.

I'm sure there are things I've forgotten - important things. The fact that I genuinely cannot remember all the facets of queer discourse is distressing. The amount of TERF dogwhistles that have infiltrated community conversations is disheartening and the constant intracommunity fighting is doing their work for them. We are together as a rallied front against bigotry, so introducing bigotry into our community only weakens us and leaves us open to more abuse. Take up hands with your fellow queers, and realize we have far more in common than we do different.

#^^^ t h i s#tho bihet can be a thing if someone is personally identifying as it if they feel like it fits them ! otherwise its a gross biphobic term#just wanted to say that bc ive seen some people who legitimately do use it for themselves ! bihet/bistraights are valid :>#its just not a term to force onto others (which tbh goes for any labels)#queer#inclusionist#ace#aro#bi#pan#ply#omni#mspec gay#mspec lesbian#bi gay#bi lesbian#pan gay#pan lesbian#ply gay#ply lesbian#omni gay#omni lesbian#lesbian#gay#trans#nonbinary#enby#neopronouns#polyam#microlabels
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if you have had exceptions to your sexuality or have extremely rare attraction to certain genders, its okay to label yourself with the inclusion of those exceptions or not- whatever you feel best with describing yourself with is valid.

labels are about how you want to describe your attraction, and how youd like to communicate to others who youre attracted to.

some people dont want to give the impression they like a certain gender if they only very rarely like a few people of that gender. putting a label that says youre interested in men on a dating site, when youre extremely likely to not like any of them, probably isnt very useful.

some may get crushes on people of a certain gender sometimes- but if they ever actively go looking for a relationship, its never really people of that gender, so they typically dont use the label that includes them.

some people think the exceptions to their sexuality are significant, and thus want to specify it in their identity. maybe they use a more general label, or maybe they use a label thats more specific, that explicitly states who theyre more likely to like.

labels arent about ''oh, i check off this list of requirements, so i have to use only this label and nothing else." theyre not prescribed to you based on your experiences with attraction and dating. theyre things you choose to use if you want to, for how youd best like to put your attraction into words.

#queer#positivity#mspec lesbian#bi lesbian#pan lesbian#ply lesbian#omni lesbian#mspec gay#bi gay#pan gay#ply gay#omni gay#lesbian#gay#bi#pan#ply#omni#sexuality exceptions
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stargazing-enby

Happy pride month!

[ID: a series of pride banners with abstract backgrounds that resemble the different flag colours that say: "lesbian and proud, gay and proud, bisexual and proud, trans and proud, pansexual and proud, asexual and proud, aromantic and proud, aroace and proud, questioning and proud, intersex and proud." End ID]

Feel free to use with credit and to request more! (I'll add some other banners in a reblog since I can't add more than 10 images to the post)

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stargazing-enby

[ID: some more banners that say: nonbinary and proud, agender and proud, demisexual and proud, polyamorous and proud, genderfluid and proud, genderqueer and proud. End ID]

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stargazing-enby

[ID: a fresh batch of banners that read: "polysexual and proud, omnisexual and proud, demiromantic and proud, queer and proud, closeted but proud, bigender and proud, pangender and proud, genderflux and proud, demigirl and proud, demiboy and proud. End ID]

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stargazing-enby

[ID: two more banners that say "graysexual and proud, grayromantic and proud". End ID]

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stargazing-enby

[ID: two banners that read "androgyne and proud, maverique and proud". End ID]

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stargazing-enby

[ID: banners that read: "bi lesbian and proud, trans lesbian and proud, nonbinary lesbian and proud, omni lesbian and proud, ace lesbian and proud, pan lesbian and proud, ply lesbian and proud. End ID]

#lesbian#gay#bi#trans#pan#ace#aro#intersex#nonbinary#agender#demisexual#polyam#genderfluid#genderqueer#ply#omni#demiromantic#queer#bigender#pangender#genderflux#demigirl#demiboy#graysexual#grayromantic#bi lesbian#omni lesbian#pan lesbian#ply lesbian#positivity
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bi-lesbian

pride peridot! first set with the ol LGBT acronym lads, featuring uh, a lot of lesbian versions bc idk what one were going for these days bfkdhfkz and i made an orange/red version bc i really wanted to complete the trio of color combos for the current colors used-

pls see the notes for my reblogs with more flags! theyre mostly identities i fall under but feel free to ask for any ones i havent done!

+ bonus template :3

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bi-lesbian

Ace - Nonbinary - Agender

Bigender - Genderfluid - Demigirl

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the italicize ones are ones i made owo !

Bi Lesbian - Feminenby - Fae/Lov Pronouns

Genderfae - Cupio - Lesbienby

Polyam - Polyam by @heckscaper - Polyam by @whimsy-flags

(heckscaper seems to be on private now so the link may not work!)

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bi-lesbian

then finally, various flags related to femromantic/sexual or similar terms! third one is an older flag i made for bi lesbian, the rest are not mine

both are Fem-

Bi Lesbian • Fin- • Venus-

both are Woma/Woman-

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bi-lesbian

time for more!

Pan - Poly - Omni

Aro - Demisexual - Demiromantic

#pan#poly#ply#omni#aro#demisexual#demiromantic#flags#peridot#steven universe#character pride
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